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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So is anyone else addicted to porn, edging etc to the point where they know they have a problem but don't know where to get help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think this is going to become a huge huge problem for society. Not saying it isn't an issue now and would not surprise me if a huge chunk of the population have some degree of dependency

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

The real problem is the total lack of help available. Those most likely to be hooked can't afford £100/hr for "professional" help and excepting that there is almost no other help.

The porn industry is making trillions and walking away from the problem.

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

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Ive watched it all my adult life but dont watch it daily. My problem is feeling like i have to cum everday otherwise i can get quite aggitated. I can literally make myself cum in a few mins but it can be quite annoying if not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Mine is the opposite problem. Edging in the extreme! Holding back for hours at a time, going on for days, enjoying the build up but not releasing. Becoming a big problem.

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By *utlongjohnMan
over a year ago

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"Mine is the opposite problem. Edging in the extreme! Holding back for hours at a time, going on for days, enjoying the build up but not releasing. Becoming a big problem."

I couldnt do it, i would be so frustrated. Being on here gives me the horn and makes me feel like i need to cum... not good sometimes when i cant release

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes, is very frustrating, that's the problem. Catch 22

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love wanking to porn no limits here

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek

I'm no professional but the question addiction specialist Gabor Mate asks is this...

The question is not what is the addiction, the question is what is the trauma?

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Not really, we both love watching it but by the time we have finished work walked the dog and had tea its close to bedtime and thats before anything else.

T

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe not so much trauma...more likely what is it the addict isn't getting and is in search of?

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By *rincess peachWoman
over a year ago

shits creek


"Maybe not so much trauma...more likely what is it the addict isn't getting and is in search of?"

If its a basic need not being met it can be considered trauma.

Most people think about the act. Is it the act that's being missed/needed or the byproducts of it, like being desired, the confidence it brings, bonding?

That's why even though I'm incredibly anti cheating as I've lived first hand the long term damage it does, I can understand why it's so tempting.

I'm addicted to nicotine.

Why did I start smoking?

Coz I wanted to fit in with those around me.

Ahhhh, but that needs a little deeper digging as it's a pretty bland answer.

Why did I feel the need to fit in?

Coz I had low self esteem due to an emotional neglectful and pretty fucking toxic mother, I felt like I had no connection to others, I wanted to impress as I never felt validated at home. I just wanted to feel like I belonged.

Ah, makes much more sense now.

Maybe you should dig a little deeper?

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By *innocentMan
over a year ago

Littlehampton


"Mine is the opposite problem. Edging in the extreme! Holding back for hours at a time, going on for days, enjoying the build up but not releasing. Becoming a big problem."

I edge for a week or more ,sometimes 2. Always to the brink but never cum

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By *ou only live onceMan
over a year ago

London


"So is anyone else addicted to porn, edging etc to the point where they know they have a problem but don't know where to get help?"

If you're really worried it's going too far, mate, there's definitely help available, just as there is for any addiction. Would have to start with a trip to the GP, or perhaps an NHS mental health self-referral. Or there will be lots of online support networks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Maybe not so much trauma...more likely what is it the addict isn't getting and is in search of?

If its a basic need not being met it can be considered trauma.

Most people think about the act. Is it the act that's being missed/needed or the byproducts of it, like being desired, the confidence it brings, bonding?

That's why even though I'm incredibly anti cheating as I've lived first hand the long term damage it does, I can understand why it's so tempting.

I'm addicted to nicotine.

Why did I start smoking?

Coz I wanted to fit in with those around me.

Ahhhh, but that needs a little deeper digging as it's a pretty bland answer.

Why did I feel the need to fit in?

Coz I had low self esteem due to an emotional neglectful and pretty fucking toxic mother, I felt like I had no connection to others, I wanted to impress as I never felt validated at home. I just wanted to feel like I belonged.

Ah, makes much more sense now.

Maybe you should dig a little deeper?"

Good answer!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"So is anyone else addicted to porn, edging etc to the point where they know they have a problem but don't know where to get help?

If you're really worried it's going too far, mate, there's definitely help available, just as there is for any addiction. Would have to start with a trip to the GP, or perhaps an NHS mental health self-referral. Or there will be lots of online support networks! "

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