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"Lol. Some of those are, supposedly, genuine, but I have never been bored enough to check. I would love a translation tool for text speak in particular. The other day, I got a message from a guy, a mix of text speak and odd words that made no sense at all. I didn't know I needed an Enigma machine for Fab..." Supppsedly? Cuckqean/hothusband couples exist just like cuckold/hotwife couples. I know because we are one. And you've just highlighted the issue we have. No one bothers to check. They just assume it's all made up. For a lot on fab it dosent matter we are well verified as pair, dosent matter we have loads of photos with both of us, dosent matter that my wife is willing to be involved in any capacity and it dosent matter that this is a swingers site. It's just instant assumption it's all being made up and that I'm a cheat. Don't get me wrong. Everyone completely entitled to meet whoever they want under what ever circumstances. I respect that and respect a no. Our lifestyle and kink isnt for everyone. That's not the issue. My issue is people on fab who think we shouldn't be taken seriously because some how we are not or worse, the "feck off cheat" responses and attitudes that we come across. When you write something like "some of those are supposedly genuine" how should we, and other couples like us (and they exist) take that? It's not a personal jab at you by the way because it's a common problem on fab. Its just as a cuckqean couple (which isnt our only kink), you'll find You are rarely taken as legit on fab. Clubs and social events, it's all good but on fab, forget it. We totally get that fab does have people cheating on their spouses and that does leave a bad taste in some peoples mouths (it does in ours) but as of late, fab seems to have just decided any married guy playing solo must automatically be a cheat and a liar. So many accounts, both single woman and couples, now have the tag line "won't meet attached males" and so many forum posts have a similar sentiment as your own. Fab should be a swinging site with emphasis on nsa fun but it just dosent feel that way anymore. | |||
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"Lol. Some of those are, supposedly, genuine, but I have never been bored enough to check. I would love a translation tool for text speak in particular. The other day, I got a message from a guy, a mix of text speak and odd words that made no sense at all. I didn't know I needed an Enigma machine for Fab... Supppsedly? Cuckqean/hothusband couples exist just like cuckold/hotwife couples. I know because we are one. And you've just highlighted the issue we have. No one bothers to check. They just assume it's all made up. For a lot on fab it dosent matter we are well verified as pair, dosent matter we have loads of photos with both of us, dosent matter that my wife is willing to be involved in any capacity and it dosent matter that this is a swingers site. It's just instant assumption it's all being made up and that I'm a cheat. Don't get me wrong. Everyone completely entitled to meet whoever they want under what ever circumstances. I respect that and respect a no. Our lifestyle and kink isnt for everyone. That's not the issue. My issue is people on fab who think we shouldn't be taken seriously because some how we are not or worse, the "feck off cheat" responses and attitudes that we come across. When you write something like "some of those are supposedly genuine" how should we, and other couples like us (and they exist) take that? It's not a personal jab at you by the way because it's a common problem on fab. Its just as a cuckqean couple (which isnt our only kink), you'll find You are rarely taken as legit on fab. Clubs and social events, it's all good but on fab, forget it. We totally get that fab does have people cheating on their spouses and that does leave a bad taste in some peoples mouths (it does in ours) but as of late, fab seems to have just decided any married guy playing solo must automatically be a cheat and a liar. So many accounts, both single woman and couples, now have the tag line "won't meet attached males" and so many forum posts have a similar sentiment as your own. Fab should be a swinging site with emphasis on nsa fun but it just dosent feel that way anymore. " I'm sorry Fab is making you feel like that, but you have to admit, your dynamics is not that popular. And no, all the people who are pretending to be a "couple" are not making it easy for you. Also, I don't get why you making a dig at me but not at the Original Poster. | |||
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"Lol. Some of those are, supposedly, genuine, but I have never been bored enough to check. I would love a translation tool for text speak in particular. The other day, I got a message from a guy, a mix of text speak and odd words that made no sense at all. I didn't know I needed an Enigma machine for Fab... Supppsedly? Cuckqean/hothusband couples exist just like cuckold/hotwife couples. I know because we are one. And you've just highlighted the issue we have. No one bothers to check. They just assume it's all made up. For a lot on fab it dosent matter we are well verified as pair, dosent matter we have loads of photos with both of us, dosent matter that my wife is willing to be involved in any capacity and it dosent matter that this is a swingers site. It's just instant assumption it's all being made up and that I'm a cheat. Don't get me wrong. Everyone completely entitled to meet whoever they want under what ever circumstances. I respect that and respect a no. Our lifestyle and kink isnt for everyone. That's not the issue. My issue is people on fab who think we shouldn't be taken seriously because some how we are not or worse, the "feck off cheat" responses and attitudes that we come across. When you write something like "some of those are supposedly genuine" how should we, and other couples like us (and they exist) take that? It's not a personal jab at you by the way because it's a common problem on fab. Its just as a cuckqean couple (which isnt our only kink), you'll find You are rarely taken as legit on fab. Clubs and social events, it's all good but on fab, forget it. We totally get that fab does have people cheating on their spouses and that does leave a bad taste in some peoples mouths (it does in ours) but as of late, fab seems to have just decided any married guy playing solo must automatically be a cheat and a liar. So many accounts, both single woman and couples, now have the tag line "won't meet attached males" and so many forum posts have a similar sentiment as your own. Fab should be a swinging site with emphasis on nsa fun but it just dosent feel that way anymore. I'm sorry Fab is making you feel like that, but you have to admit, your dynamics is not that popular. And no, all the people who are pretending to be a "couple" are not making it easy for you. Also, I don't get why you making a dig at me but not at the Original Poster. " Sorry if it came off as if I was having a dig, I wasn't. I don't want to have a dig at anyone. It's just a generic exasperated response to how Fab has become lately. I completely agree our dynamic is not that popular. That's something we came to understand a long time ago but it's not exactly unknown either. It just gets frustrating when everyone accepts the cuckold / hotwife dynamic as completely normal (on fab at least) but the second it's gender swapped, all bets or off. It just sucks when you see posts implying that people like ourselves are not legit or that married guys playing solo are highly questionable etc. I do get it, don't get me wrong. I totally agree fab has cheats on it and even we have had to deal with single guys posing as a couple. But when you are being 100% honest but you keep hearing comments you are not (and it really is a common thing on fab now), it gets to you. What's worse is, as much as I'm sat here writing about how it sucks for us, it obviously sucks just as much for those on fab who do get hoodwinked by these people who are not being honest. We do ok. We use social events and clubs so it's not like we don't meet others but fab just isn't what it was anymore and a lot of it is because people don't think we are legit. | |||
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