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Is swinging like a drug?

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Do any thoughtful types find that swinging is like a drug or intoxicant that we use to achieve endorphin release and then reflect on on in moments of sobriety?

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By *atcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Suffolk - East Anglia


"Do any thoughtful types find that swinging is like a drug or intoxicant that we use to achieve endorphin release and then reflect on on in moments of sobriety?"

An interesting concept/theory and no doubt true in some cases.

To us though, it is fun, pure and simple. We're only on this planet once and why not get as much out of it as possible. We enjoy meeting people and we enjoy sex, experimenting and pushing the fun boundaries.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

Swinging is our way of life so nothing to reflect on really and we hope it never stops.

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By *appypaul69Man
over a year ago

vale

Occasional fun for me to share other people's enjoyment

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire

Sex definitely is

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

Not really because it's not even in my top 5 priorities.

I enjoy it very much but I don't need it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider this website is more similar to a drug to some, more so than swinging itself.

But for the main point OP, I suppose it will be to many. Like alot of other things, some people will struggle to see if it truly improves their life / increases self-happiness but it will be different things to various people. Some I have met certainly love it and some clearly can’t walk away without seeing it negatively impact their happiness. The whole spectrum really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's addictive if you have an addictive personality. When it was more prevalent I would do anything to go dogging, start rows on purpose to create an opportunity to storm off, even went as far as paying a monthly gym subscription in the pretence of visiting the 24/7 gym late at night.Moderation is the key

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

Yes for those of us who suffer from dependency problems and addictive personalities. I often think my behaviour is out of control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of us are addicted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some of us are addicted "

Some of us are your very right

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By *ogerroger69 OP   Man
over a year ago

West Yorks

Some interesting responses re addictive personalities

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea


"Do any thoughtful types find that swinging is like a drug or intoxicant that we use to achieve endorphin release and then reflect on on in moments of sobriety?

An interesting concept/theory and no doubt true in some cases.

To us though, it is fun, pure and simple. We're only on this planet once and why not get as much out of it as possible. We enjoy meeting people and we enjoy sex, experimenting and pushing the fun boundaries. "

This ^

It isn't complicated for us. We both enjoy sex, we trust each other, we get off on watching each other with different partners, we like challenging each other's boundaries.

We have our rules, mainly to keep Clare safe but also so she knows where I am should she need me. We have a great swinging relationship and a lot of fantastic swinging friends.

But we also have a life away from swinging too and I love the balance we have.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I can take it or leave it. I've seen me disappear for months at a time x

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich


"Do any thoughtful types find that swinging is like a drug or intoxicant that we use to achieve endorphin release and then reflect on on in moments of sobriety?

An interesting concept/theory and no doubt true in some cases.

To us though, it is fun, pure and simple. We're only on this planet once and why not get as much out of it as possible. We enjoy meeting people and we enjoy sex, experimenting and pushing the fun boundaries.

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It isn't complicated for us. We both enjoy sex, we trust each other, we get off on watching each other with different partners, we like challenging each other's boundaries.

We have our rules, mainly to keep Clare safe but also so she knows where I am should she need me. We have a great swinging relationship and a lot of fantastic swinging friends.

But we also have a life away from swinging too and I love the balance we have."

that is exactly how we played youve written just what i would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly our bdsm play can feel like that. Lots lf associated feelings including sub and Dom drop. Sex, not so much. I enjoy it, but I love coming home to just Sir for a little while too.

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