FabSwingers.com forum: Whats your pet peeve on here

By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Men with 1 or 2 pics sending friend requests when that's clearly one sided.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Nothing any more if I'm being honest x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single men using a couples profile!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Liars even the little lies just be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Text speak

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By *axsiMan
over a year ago

oxford

Meeting a woman then having to put up with crazy crazy shit before you get to fuck her, but then it’s the best fuck

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Single men using a couples profile! "

This^

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By *ympho6969 OP Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Text speak

Another automatic block. I can handle a few short words and a lol but I didn't even like text speak as a teenager

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

Couple profiles with all pics of the lady and none of the male ,who are looking for other couples.

Miss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Text speak

Another automatic block. I can handle a few short words and a lol but I didn't even like text speak as a teenager "

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

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By *ukeM8519Man
over a year ago

West of Ireland

People who’ve been here before and know how this works

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Escalatingly passive aggressive then just aggressive messages if they don’t get a reply.

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By *un Pair 84Couple
over a year ago

Durham

The random friend request from someone you’ve never spoken to before and the message that just says “hi” or “wanna meet” etc

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By *un Pair 84Couple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *un Pair 84Couple
over a year ago

Durham

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Speaking to single women who then wanna meet us then suddenly they wanna bring their fwb.

Happens constantly and isnt going to happen. When we want to meet couples (which we do), we meet actual couples.

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

"Text speak

Another automatic block. I can handle a few short words and a lol but I didn't even like text speak as a teenager

I'm glad I'm not the only one.

Me too, I hate it, I'm dyslexic often it just looks like they have headbutted the keyboard and if people don't have the time to write a three letter word then they don't have time for me in my view

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My biggest one: men messaging you, and then later following it up with passive-aggressive question marks.

I ain’t interested, there’s no bloody question about it!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who’ve been here before and know how this works "

Yes those who say they closed there account and they had verifications ...why close the account ? Just deactivate it for a bit.....a whiff of BS there

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

People who don't read profiles

"I'm staying at ? hotel in your area"

Wuu2?

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By *rsPricklePantsWoman
over a year ago

Room 237 at The Overlook Hotel, Suffolk

"My biggest one: men messaging you, and then later following it up with passive-aggressive question marks.

I ain’t interested, there’s no bloody question about it!"

I get that too it's like them being totally inpatient but sometimes it's mean to be emojis

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

Sol The Narion system

People that complain about being blocked or their messages being ignored

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By *ugarandspicecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

"People who don't read profiles

"I'm staying at ? hotel in your area"

Wuu2?"

Yes, this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What are you looking for… err read the profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Having to block people who clearly need to take several chill pills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People that message that don’t match our preferences, then get arsey when we reply to say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who have pictures of nothing but close ups of genitals or tits. Put some effort in...

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Text speak

Don't read the profile for what we're after

Messages that make it seem they're doing us a favour by meeting us.

Generally we can get all 3 in a single message with stuff like..."In ur area now and hrny. Can meet u now"

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By *ab365XMan
over a year ago

Paisley

Filthy & Pervy old men that constantly harass me relentlessly on here!

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By *icole 123Woman
over a year ago

Baildon,West Yorkshire

Guys not bothering to read my profile

Sending friend requests when they haven’t bothered messaging first…

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

No pics on profile, vague bio but still sends "wanna meet today"?

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By *ornynorfolkguyMan
over a year ago

North Norfolk

Messages or forum posts containing just ‘mmmmmmmm’!

Get me a bucket

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

"Single men using a couples profile! "

Single women using a couples profile. Equally as bad because they claim it's for security but not when it's used to bypass age filters.

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

The men who aren’t genuine swingers but just after a quick fuck and are offensive in their pursuit of women / couples. Those of us who are genuine swingers, who enjoy the scene and the connections we make with people, are getting lost in the noise of those who think Fab is similar to Tinder.

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

People who think we come separately and not as a couple your attracted to both of us or not at all

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

"My biggest one: men messaging you, and then later following it up with passive-aggressive question marks.

I ain’t interested, there’s no bloody question about it!"

You're proper hard and can deal with em though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One worded replies to messages irritates me to no ends. Why even bother...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

I guess it's the non-reading of profile text for me

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

"I guess it's the non-reading of profile text for me

The reading of what? Eh?

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By *ottom charlieMan
over a year ago

Washington

"Men with 1 or 2 pics sending friend requests when that's clearly one sided."
a guy who claims to be part of a m/f couple who chats about fun then says she is a bit shy so i will meet you first and then we can all meet for a 3sum,,, sniff sniff whats that smell ahh bulls**t

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I've taken the time to send a really nice message that I've but some thought in to, to then just get a reply with "thanks"!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"when I've taken the time to send a really nice message that I've but some thought in to, to then just get a reply with "thanks"! "

I feel your pain lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d say disrespectful men who message demanding something

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Random friend requests, Only ever got a few myself but couples profile gets loads, Oh and the You look hot fancy a meet type messages from couples, Obviously directed at my partner and more then likely the Male, Again never spoked or seen them before

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

Kink shaming! I hate it. We aren’t all wired the same folks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Moaning when you don't reply.

Moaning when you DO reply with a no thank you and turning to insults.

It's crazy, one minute I'm sexy and the next I'm a fat slag.

Can't win!

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By *ily-StarWoman
over a year ago

street

The not reading a profile.

Messaging like I should be honoured they giving me the time of day! Then getting shitty when I'm not attracted.

What you doing, I can come over and fuck you right now..

All dic pics on profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rudeness when you say no thank you you are to far away when it’s clearly in my profile what I’m looking for

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Having a short profile yet still people dont read it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My biggest one: men messaging you, and then later following it up with passive-aggressive question marks.

I ain’t interested, there’s no bloody question about it!"

I have done that in the past I do admit and humbly apologise

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By *esthetic21Man
over a year ago

Birmingham/Bristol

Threads like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hypocritical people. There are quite a few on here.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

"I guess it's the non-reading of profile text for me

The reading of what? Eh? "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My biggest one: men messaging you, and then later following it up with passive-aggressive question marks.

I ain’t interested, there’s no bloody question about it!

I have done that in the past I do admit and humbly apologise"

Forgiven

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

unsolicited friend requests

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My biggest one: men messaging you, and then later following it up with passive-aggressive question marks.

I ain’t interested, there’s no bloody question about it!"

Yep! This earns an instant block from me, even if I was interested.

Especially when I have already said I am busy.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

"unsolicited friend requests

I love these! I have a good old nose at private pics every few weeks when I’m bored. Then I unfriend them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"unsolicited friend requests

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This.. it's plain rude!

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By *irestorm81Man
over a year ago

Richmond/Harrogate

People who complain Fab is dead/boring, post numerous statuses about wanting to meet single guys that day or whenever, but don’t unblock single guys… makes it a little tricky to respond! Perhaps that’s why they don’t get messages?

Oh and Sydney university really have much more interesting things to study and research!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People who complain Fab is dead/boring, post numerous statuses about wanting to meet single guys that day or whenever, but don’t unblock single guys… makes it a little tricky to respond! Perhaps that’s why they don’t get messages?

Oh and Sydney university really have much more interesting things to study and research!

Trust me we do not

We have hundreds who have infiltrated every aspect of fab

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric bikes

Ladies stating they are open minded but quite clearly they are not or if you are trying to have a conversation they come back with one word answers

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By *erverseintentionsMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

Those knee-high black and white socks that 87% of unoriginal female profiles have .

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"unsolicited friend requests

I love these! I have a good old nose at private pics every few weeks when I’m bored. Then I unfriend them

I used to too… guess I don’t get any interesting ones anymore and it lost it’s charm

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By *irestorm81Man
over a year ago

Richmond/Harrogate

Oh, also anyone who uses phrases like “drain my balls” in a status. Gross.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Awful user names, random friend invites.

We’re probably guilty of a female pic heavy profile but we do keep plenty of us both in friends only pics

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By *cottieboy123Man
over a year ago

Perth

"Awful user names, random friend invites.

We’re probably guilty of a female pic heavy profile but we do keep plenty of us both in friends only pics "

24 January sublime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People who don’t photo verify but have multiple ‘verifications’… if you’re ‘genuine’ enough for people to ‘meet’ you, you’re genuine enough to get yourself photo verified by a bloody admin!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh, also anyone who uses phrases like “drain my balls” in a status. Gross.

AGREED

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

"People who don’t photo verify but have multiple ‘verifications’… if you’re ‘genuine’ enough for people to ‘meet’ you, you’re genuine enough to get yourself photo verified by a bloody admin! "

We’ve been meaning to do it for ages it not through not wanting to tho, will get on the case tomorrow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Terrible grammar and spelling.

Not knowing the difference between there, their and they're.

Confusing then and than.

I can't read a profile with that abysmal destruction of the English language. Call me a snob or grammar Nazi. Don't care

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By *appyjack7890Man
over a year ago

Brigg

"One worded replies to messages irritates me to no ends. Why even bother... "

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Terrible grammar and spelling.

Not knowing the difference between there, their and they're.

Confusing then and than.

I can't read a profile with that abysmal destruction of the English language. Call me a snob or grammar Nazi. Don't care

Just to add to that, could/would/should "have" and "of"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Terrible grammar and spelling.

Not knowing the difference between there, their and they're.

Confusing then and than.

I can't read a profile with that abysmal destruction of the English language. Call me a snob or grammar Nazi. Don't care

Just to add to that, could/would/should "have" and "of"

I hate that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"legal notices" on profiles.

Blurry fuzzy genital close up pics.

Being stood up by members.

Members getting your kik handle and then messaging with threats because they take issue with your relationship status.

Kink shaming.

That I cant press and hold on any of the buttons up top to open them in a mew tab when using this site on mobile.

The indiscriminate auto removal of words like , or and that can then render a sentence unintelligible, regardless of context. And the red flag warning that pops up to stop you posting if you use the word blåckmäïl. Oh and r-o-f-l being an emoji. It means that when you say you are hetero-flexible it makes no sense if you do not hyphonate. Lime this: hete

exible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Terrible grammar and spelling.

Not knowing the difference between there, their and they're.

Confusing then and than.

I can't read a profile with that abysmal destruction of the English language. Call me a snob or grammar Nazi. Don't care

Just to add to that, could/would/should "have" and "of"

Brought, when they mean bought. Boils my piss, that one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men crying like a child because nobody will play with them.

I’m still waiting for someone’s mum to pop up in the forum asking ‘ what’s wrong with my boy ? ‘

The mr

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Don’t mistake poor grammar as a lack of intelligence and vice versa.

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