FabSwingers.com forum: Couples where men don't play with others

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

Sounds perfect

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By *aughty but nice...Man
over a year ago

Staffs

No your not the only ones there are plenty of couples out there who have this particular dynamic

If you enjoy it don't worry about a thing ....the bonkers world of swinging has a little bit of everything within it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others.

Sounds perfect

I have to agree!

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By *elightful 2Couple
over a year ago

No longer in the UK.

When we was active this is how we played, it was my choice not to partake in the fun.

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By *nigmatic x DivinityCouple
over a year ago

Up town top ranking

"When we was active this is how we played, it was my choice not to partake in the fun."

My lover hasn't, and won't play with anyone, Only myself and who ever I choose to Invite x

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

Nope. I (male) have met a few couples over the years where he didn't play for whatever personal reason. Nothing else to it. Wasn't a cuck or hotwife situation. He just wasnt interested in it but happy to let his wife do whatever.

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

My husband doesn’t play, just watches me play with someone else

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

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This is the dream scenario

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My husband doesn’t play, just watches me play with someone else

That's what I like, or where I would be involved with Mrs while she's playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% same here!

Happy for the wife to play with either male/female or both, but I don't play other than with the Wife.

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By *issYeuxBleusWoman
over a year ago

My boudoir - S Wales

I need to find the tree that you grew from!

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"I need to find the tree that you grew from! "

Haha me too! Where are these men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have the same dynamics.

Means finding a couple with bi female, very hard to find.

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

Ditto! I ( the Mrs) would love to meet another bi female, however hubby has no interest in playing with a male or female. He is just happy to watch! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

"This is pretty much my view as I like watching her but I have very little interested in others.

Mrs also likes watching me with others and likes watching me get a bj off other women (what a chore)!

Kinda cool we’re equally as weird

You sound just like us!! X

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By *heGriswoldsCouple
over a year ago

Cambridge

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

This is how we play, I (mr) get off knowing mrs g is having fun and letting herself go, and the photo’s and facetime being sent is great

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Exactly how we play too.

She will often head off to Chams for a night without me in tow.

Mr M

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is pretty much my view as I like watching her but I have very little interested in others.

Mrs also likes watching me getting a bjs off other women (what a chore)!

Kinda cool we’re equally as weird

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

This is us so far. Mrs new to swinging, male isnt. Mrs doesnt want to See me with a female but i love all aspects of swinging so have been more than happy to have mfm so far but we would happily allow a couple to play with her while i watch the fun.

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By *irtygirl11Couple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

We like this. She loves to play. He loves to just watch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We like this. She loves to play. He loves to just watch."

Love to make him watch and perhaps cleanup x

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Anyway to encourage this wanting to just watch or not play?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Invite the right person

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Hubby is not always joining in.

If he wants to play without me joining in, thats' cool too.

Chances are we will both get into it, but if it's a no, it's a no.

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By *l1pp3ryCouple
over a year ago

Bradford

From the profiles I've read this seems to be very common

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By *nlyfunsMan
over a year ago

This is kinda us. She has permission, I am mainly here for socials and chats.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Often, yes, especially enjoy watching her with other ladies, while I watch and ERM 'enjoy'.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I don’t always join in in vanilla bi ladies playing.

If I’m controlling a B/d play, you can guarantee I will be there.

L’s turn on is f/f play.

My turn on is the dungeon, lucky L’s as well, especially in a bi scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Where have all these couples been hiding? We tend to get a rather negative response when we mention that we'd love to meet a couple but only the female play. The idea of him watching her with us just takes it to a whole new level of hot!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Every play has a dynamic.

I play with 2/3 ladies in certain scenarios, sexually, yes .

Vanilla play, isn’t overly a turn on.

Kind a bit like porn.

I like to be involved. In a preference I prefer.

Reality is an odd concept on fab

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By *lder A Wiser PassionWoman
over a year ago

morecambe

Is that crukholding

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By *reakbedsnotheartsMan
over a year ago

bedford

Indeed

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

It's the same for us, I can play with whoever / however but hubby will only play with me if he gets involved at all

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

That’s how we are , I love to watch and don’t have any qualms about not participating !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s how we play. Mrs is still amazed that I don’t even get aroused by others when we’re in clubs and see some wild stuff happening.

It turns me on to see her enjoying herself. Which works out well for her because she doesn’t like to share

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By *amesnplanesMan
over a year ago

North Dublin, Leeds, Brighton

I think that's been the vast majority of my meets on here or in clubs.

Husband selects the suitable candidate, then the three way discussions with the explanation that my participation is for the benefit of the wife with the husband in support.

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By *ffanotdykeCouple
over a year ago

Salop

We regularly play like this. She enjoys the attention of at l_ast a couple of guys and I love watching. In fact we are going to Chams tomorrow (Thurs) night with the intention of having a session.

All we need is a few willing guys

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By *one swap cplCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

That’s all we are looking for

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By *hoenix CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stokesley

We know a few couples where the guy just wants to watch or will only play with his wife. On the other side, Mr P likes to watch single guys cum over my tits!

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By *cunnylassCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

I was in a long-term relationship where my partner regularly played with other men but wouldn't entertain the thought of me playing with others.This arrangement was perfect for both of us and I know that it's not at all uncommon.

Mike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am totally at ease with a husband watching. I like to let him be involved in saying what he wants to see us doing. That's at l_ast helping him get the most from the experience too. Only fair of he's lending me his sexy wife!

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By *ary8insMan
over a year ago

St Neots, UK

Met a few couples where the male just wants to watch or takes photos and videos!! I'm happy to oblige and put on a show!!!

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By *ecretlivesCouple
over a year ago

FABWatch HQ

Not alone Op...

Someone having fun with No.1, then I do too.

What's not to like!

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By *antasy Explorers 1313Couple
over a year ago

A place where others reside (nr Oxford)

We have the same dynamic. Play partners for D only please

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

I really enjoy this dynamic I feel very much at ease in fact I love it when guys watch me have fun with their wife/girlfriend. I have played with couples like this in the past and can't wait to again.

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By *x cplCouple
over a year ago

North of Oxford

This also describes us as its Roxy that plays with others...Happy to watch her and join in but only with Roxy..

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

Same here, our meets are for Mrs to explore her bi side more. We struggle for meets though as gay women don’t want me there and bi women want to play with both of us

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By *arehamMan
over a year ago

handforth

I used to fuck a lovely lady in a sauna and her husband loved to watch me giving her a good fucking very nice couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

We are very similar, I'm (MrC) not looking to play with ladies, but it's not off the cards.

But our main kink is MrsE getting the attention and having fun

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By *aiseiMan
over a year ago

Longbridge, Birmingham

My wife plays entirely separately as we don’t like the same things.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Bury St Edmunds/Clacton

Depends on the feelings of the time. We may be up for this type of scene in the future but currently P wants both in play. We know there will be solo play in our future but not currently due to the emotions in play.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our dynamic. One threesome as a one-off and may watch on occasion, but ultimately I play alone x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think there are many variations to how couples play

I know one where hubby only joins in right at the end and has his 10 seconds of fun.

Another where hubby is there only really to safeguard his wife and sits outside - understandable in this modern world I guess

Some who like to take photos but don’t play

And some who like to show how good they are - and love to “ perform”

It takes all sorts

And those in the middle who like to join in and give their wife a good time along with me

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By *hezGeekCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have much the same dynamic - she plays with other girls whenever suits her, but he tends to only get involved if invited by them.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

Exactly as we are. Char doesn't feel comfortable with me playing with other women but that works because I have zero interest in that anyway. For me it's all about making sure Char has every opportunity to enjoy everything she ever wants

(Bry)

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By *ady and the cockCouple
over a year ago

North East/Anywhere

Very much us, more than happy to watch and not participate. It’s all about her and the gratification I hope to get from watching her.

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By *imandher123456Couple
over a year ago

gosport

Like loads have said, there are all sorts of dynamics in the lifestyle , none of them are right or wrong they are just how people choose to interact ... Us for example ... Only looking to meet bi guys or straight guys at the moment , MMF with bi guys where we all get to play or MFM where we both do our best to please her .....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'm not into hotwifing or cuckolding, I'm interested in Stag/Vixen where I'm involved but only with her.

As for playing alone, the agreement is that it's her with other woman only.

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By *icepair2012Couple
over a year ago

Crewe

This is how we play too, I (Mr) prefer to watch, join in with her only or like to hear about what she has been up too on a date.

That’s how we have always played and it works for us

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

This is how we do it aswell. V stays at home while I go & meet guys. He loves watching all the videos I make for him though.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

near Chesterfield

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

near Chesterfield

"This is how we do it aswell. V stays at home while I go & meet guys. He loves watching all the videos I make for him though."

I'd like to meet you very much.

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By *ower Couple - NorfolkCouple
over a year ago

The Annex

We are on the opposite side of this equation. We are very keen to find these hot wife’s where at most we where pics and videos with the husband

It is a great dynamic as it is another layer of protection around feelings creeping in. So lends itself to a longer lasting connection with much less politics

Happy to receive messages from interested ladies

XxX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm not into hotwifing or cuckolding, I'm interested in Stag/Vixen where I'm involved but only with her.

As for playing alone, the agreement is that it's her with other woman only."

That’s us. I always join but I do like to take a step back and watch for a minute or two. Neither of us play alone though and Mrs is 100% straight so no other female involvement at all.

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By *asmartsCouple
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes ! Just the same as you

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By *andaloriansCouple
over a year ago

Malvern

Yep, same with us! Weve had a few offputting comments in the past whenever weve mentioned it though. FAB police lol. Evey couple has their own thing so go for it!

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By *loscouplegl3Couple
over a year ago

Gloucester

This is mostly us. I get such an erotic thrill from watching her play. But I have joined in and played with other wives as well.

Basically we just roll with however the meet goes and enjoy ourselves

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By *otogpcplCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

Same here I have no interest in playing with any other than Mrs. We have had an mfm which was hot even if I just watched would be ok. Besides I've only got a little willy why dissapoint 2 women lol!!!

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

My hubby is perfectly happy sitting home while I’m out being naughty

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

I have met a few couples with this dynamic, it's their thing, their special relationship and I don't have a drama...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how we play love watching her play didnt work when I did

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

This is how we play and openly encourage it. Love watching my wife, flirt and tease.

She is extremely bi sexual so this type of play also helps her fulfill her needs, keeping our marriage strong.

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We are the same but male don't get involved at all. Female will wonder off into the woods with whoever she likes n male will sit in car.

We have our fun when we get home

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

This is our dynamic

Husband has zero interest in playing. He just enjoys the show me and my chosen playmate put on. He says it’s like watching his own personal porn with his favourite pornstar

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

No hard or fast rule.

L likes her ladies, so sometimes just make sure she’s safe, others get fully involved.

Depends on what’s discussed and the boundaries that are in play.

L does have a bit of a cuck in her, she likes to see me with other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is our dynamic too. Other than a threesome for a special occasion I play alone. He gets off on the pictures, videos, and reclaiming me afterwards

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

I have a met a good few couples over the years where the guy just sits and watches/ doesn't interact with me or if he does its merely just some touching my tits or guiding my cock in his mrs pussy .

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By *rFussyMan
over a year ago

preston

I don’t play, just like to watch my other half and maybe join in the occasional mmf.

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By *igBobby82Man
over a year ago

Hartlepool

Honestly you're not alone. I have played several times with ladies where the partner either watched or was at l_ast around. And some I've spoken too, the male never plays with anyone else.

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

This is how we do it aswell. V stays at home while I go & meet guys. He loves watching all the videos I make for him though.

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Yes we play like this. I (Mrs N) play with a guy and Mr N watches. I encourage him to join in with guys if a guy is bi. I find guy on guy very horny x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

This is what I want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is the hubby secretly bisexual mmmm

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By *ustbrowsing 999Man
over a year ago

colchester

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

I'd be the same as you . Just want to see the Mrs pleasured

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By *ryant2018Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We have met with couples only and both played but I can get just as turned on by watching my wife men and women x

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By *cotscpl1968Couple
over a year ago

tayside

I mr loving this dynamic more

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By *imnher123452000Couple
over a year ago

Worcester

Yes that's our dynamic..male likes to watch her and play with her whilst she is with someone.

No interest in playing with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope I love just watching the female half play with another lad or couple

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Any tips on how to make just watching more appealing for the guy?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips on how to make just watching more appealing for the guy? "

We enjoy watching each other play. The key for us is that we only play together.

I (the man) love watching her get fucked for an hour having multiple orgasms while I watch and maybe film. When she is finished with the guest then we have amazing sex together

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By *oungukbull97Man
over a year ago

Derry

As someone who has no interest in men this is exactly what I look for in couples.

It's nice to put on a bit of a show for the husband though.

Have him speak about what he's thinking about at the moment as I keep fucking his wife.

Just because he's only watching doesn't mean he can't be involved!

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By *exylovingcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Uxbridge

We are ‘female play’ only couple which suits us fine. Often she meets alone and sends back a few photos or vids. It is a dynamic that works for us as it seems to do for a lot of people after reading this thread.

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Have a great time ladies

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

We are the same. Carl encourages me to meet other guys but he's not interested in meeting anyone himself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We know a few couples where the guy just wants to watch or will only play with his wife. On the other side, Mr P likes to watch single guys cum over my tits! "
and what a pair they are..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is good. Everyone gets aroused. Happy to discuss this scenario with anybody in p.m. if you want a story.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips on how to make just watching more appealing for the guy? "
some couples like the facetime... video call option... or the next room and peak... some couples like the peek rooms in clubs...

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

As I see it you love to see your misses enjoy herself and your there to make sure she is safe now that is very good of you kind sir

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By *ethefabtwoCouple
over a year ago

coventry

this is our preference too- he only watches

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Not that uncommon, come across this dynamic a few times. Personally speaking not for me. I love watching Mrs Misfit have a great time, that's hot. But I love to be involved too and have a great time with her and for myself too. On the whole anyway. There maybe a time when I not feeling it or just need a time out when it's really hot just to give my full attention enjoying watching and listening to Mrs Misfit on form and filling her boots. I appreciate you get a different angle on things from a Voyeur perspective and that's hot too so I get it.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"Any tips on how to make just watching more appealing for the guy?

We enjoy watching each other play. The key for us is that we only play together.

I (the man) love watching her get fucked for an hour having multiple orgasms while I watch and maybe film. When she is finished with the guest then we have amazing sex together "

Have you always know you just enjoyed watching, or did it just happen once and you realised you liked it ?

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By *aughty2yorksCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

This tends to be how we play most of the time, Mr loves watching x

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By *rnmrs40Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

This is how we play. I like to watch mrs enjoy herself. I may join in with mrs in a three sum but I won’t touch the other person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Same… like it get much more from it, however my wife would like to see it just once to see how she feels xx

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By *otlovefun42Couple
over a year ago

Costa Blanca Spain...

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

We do it both ways depending on who we are with and the mood on the day.

Yes I do play but not every time. Quite often if she is enjoying herself with a guy, or guys, then I will just watch.

Sometimes in a club she will go to a room with a guy and I will just stay at the bar and leave her to it. As long as she comes back smiling (which she nearly always does) then all is well.

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By *j2009Couple
over a year ago

south staffs

This is us and with me being a bi-fem it helps with our way we like to play although must stress hard to achieve if you require a lot of boxes to be ticked

Jemx

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By *veryonelovesdaveMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

Anyone wana chat about experiences with a bull?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy our sex together and often have threeways, visit clubs or glory holes.

I (the male) enjoy watching her with a massive BBC. I love watching her have multiple orgasms but also like that I’m in control and she is my slut.

It has made us closer

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

When I meet with my partner ,I get off on seeing him playing with the lady of a couple, when I am with the male

So it wouldn't be for me ,but lots seem to like this .I do like it when he meets alone and tells me what he got up to too

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

S wants to watch T with another woman. He doesn't care if there is another mam I the room. We're looking for soft swap but it moves to it, same room sex.

Finding it hard to meet the right F /FM

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By *arly StagesCouple
over a year ago

Penwortham

We haven't had much in the way of meets but this would be our preferred scenario.

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By *andyCouple69Couple
over a year ago

warrington

You are absolutely not alone, this is exactly how I feel!

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Anyone have any advice on maybe introducing this idea to a partner

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

"S wants to watch T with another woman. He doesn't care if there is another mam I the room. We're looking for soft swap but it moves to it, same room sex.

Finding it hard to meet the right F /FM

We're not that far (Stamford)...Char plays with men and women, I tend to just watch/take the pics

(Bry)

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By *wo PlayCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

"Anyone wana chat about experiences with a bull?"

Yes please

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

Yes, I (Mr) am not really into playing but get much more pleasure when I see Mrs with other guys. Definitely our dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

something we have talked about trying a few times.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

Do the ladies enjoy it more when he doesn’t play?

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By *ueen of beesCouple
over a year ago

North West

My hubby doesn't play with others and enjoys myself enjoying all the attention

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By *eandmrsjones69Couple
over a year ago

Middle England

"Anyone have any advice on maybe introducing this idea to a partner"

For us it just happens naturally; maybe it wouldn't work if you tried to engineer the scenario; don't over think it! We tend to do this at clubs as the situation is fluid anyway; we don't arrange to meet it's just who is there on the night and see what happens.

Of course if the other half is not happy with 'taking a back seat' so to speak then again it could cause it's own issues. Certainly at clubs where there are single guys we find it's easier as on a couples only night you sometimes might all need to be involved and that's not quite the same.

Hope that helps!

(Mr)

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By *roop69Man
over a year ago

St Columb Major

I enjoy her having others but wife will not allow me to do the same

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By *ecret-64Couple
over a year ago

Wrexham

This is how we play. My hubby organises meets for me. I have always been a sexual person now I get encouraged to be a slut.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Any tips on how to make just watching more appealing for the guy? "

I enjoy by asking to see certain things in advance. Or, occasionally, will make suggestions from the side lines. I try not to mess up the flow of things but definitely filming keeps me involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others.

— This is what I want

It took me years before I seriously got the courage to suggest a ‘hot wife’ scenario. Wish I had done it with other relationships.

I think many women not in the ‘ lifestyle’ would enjoy being shared.

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By *ustbrowsing 999Man
over a year ago

colchester

"Yes, I (Mr) am not really into playing but get much more pleasure when I see Mrs with other guys. Definitely our dynamic."

Be my Ideal dynamic to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're the same! My husband has zero interest in meeting anybody off here. He does however love me going off to play and sending him videos while he's at home waiting for me

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

A few of the couples that I meet when they visit Bridlington are in this category.

I can relate to this for when I was swinging in a couple role, I got a great charge from watching a strangers cock in my partners.

The difference was I couldn't wait to fuck her after?

With these couples, my excitement now is the male partners clear enjoyment as I fuck his partner.

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By *ostguy321Man
over a year ago

Beaconsfield

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

I have tried this where he loved watching her fuck and she loved putting on a show for him. It was a really exciting dynamic and worked well for all

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By *opmanforfun300Man
over a year ago

. Newcastle

No I'm the same with my partner sexangell

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By *ubbly-bi-girlWoman
over a year ago

hastings

This is exactly how we play!

We deleted our couples account but my partner loves watching me with men, women and couples and he never gets involved physically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are new to the swinging world… we’ve always had a great experimental sex life together..we have so far been to one club not knowing what to expect… it was AMAZING! I had my first spit roast and also banged by a bbc while plenty of men spunked all over my tits on hubs demands! Which was great! The problem I’ve got is I don’t want to and I don’t think I can share him ????? I don’t want him touching another women… am I a proper selfish bitch ????

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

95% it’s all about her and I’m not interested in joining, I get my pleasure from seeing her enjoy herself in the moment. I’m certainly not a typical cuck though as I like to be in control of the situation.

I will play though when the right person or couple takes my fancy.

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By *ellanbennyCouple
over a year ago

cambs

"95% it’s all about her and I’m not interested in joining, I get my pleasure from seeing her enjoy herself in the moment. I’m certainly not a typical cuck though as I like to be in control of the situation.

I will play though when the right person or couple takes my fancy. "

We've not had a play date yet but how you describe this is exactly how I feel about T. I will get my kick out of her enjoyment.

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By *urious_two12Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

This is how we are looking to play

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We are new to the swinging world… we’ve always had a great experimental sex life together..we have so far been to one club not knowing what to expect… it was AMAZING! I had my first spit roast and also banged by a bbc while plenty of men spunked all over my tits on hubs demands! Which was great! The problem I’ve got is I don’t want to and I don’t think I can share him ????? I don’t want him touching another women… am I a proper selfish bitch ????"
very... but as long as he is ok with it

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By *inkyfuckery69Couple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

We are looking for that kind of dynamic from a couple , him watch us use his wife is so hot !

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

I don't play with others just enjoy sharing the wife with other men now love roasting her

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

Sounds like a great nightand it is great for him to concentrate on sharing your pleasure. would you like him to embrace a cuckold dynamic to make it easier for him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sounds very similar to what we looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

Yeah we’re the exact the same! Whenever we tell other that we go to swinger clubs etc they normally assume with swap with couples or have girls join us

It’s all about seeing her have fun and pushing that pleasure further by having an extra guy and whats not hot about other guys being interested your girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Slim doesnt really play with other women. He likes to watch

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By *ukkake coupleCouple
over a year ago

herts

In the same boat. I find seeing the wife play hotter than anything

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

It blows my mind how common this seems to be

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was pleasantly surprised when I realised how popular this is!

Mr.Fantasy loves sending me out to play while he waits at home for videos and pictures as it's happening

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not quite like that for us.. it’s more like we play together (with each other) and we may invite others to join at his/ my discretion.. that WE use for our enjoyment..

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By *imandLiz14Couple
over a year ago

Needham

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

Maybe our dynamic is slightly different but suits us.

I don't play with other women at all, we only meet guys together, if there bi then we'll all play together, if there straight then I'm happy just watching and will sometimes join in playing with Liz,

Suits us as I said

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By *ubcup2Couple
over a year ago

London

Hubby is the same. He'll watch me all day long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are not alone for sure pleanty of similar couples around we are the same xx

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By *ussexcoupleukCouple
over a year ago

brighton

Love watching her and turns her on me watching so both happy. Wouldn’t made a ffm instead but she is way too jealous so wouldn’t enjoy it anyway. Went a had a lap dance once she hatted watching so had the. Lap dance instead!

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

After reading this post, Definitely more people than we thought the same as us! Hubby loves watching me with a guy, he's not interested in single female play couple, couple play he plays with the lady but doesn't normally fuck (his choice not mine)

As long as it works for you 2 what does it matter

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"After reading this post, Definitely more people than we thought the same as us! Hubby loves watching me with a guy, he's not interested in single female play couple, couple play he plays with the lady but doesn't normally fuck (his choice not mine)

As long as it works for you 2 what does it matter

So was this always the hubbies idea?

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By *ovelaughliveCouple
over a year ago

Oldham

As long as it works for you 2 what does it matter

So was this always the hubbies idea?"

Yes when we first started swinging, we were both very open in what we wanted to try/see as a couple and for each other. Obviously these have changed over time x

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By *empting TravelsMan
over a year ago

London

Speaking as a man who is addicted to married women I love this dynamic.

The husband's presence is a naughty reminder of the fact that I'm inside a married woman....and if hubby likes to join in that's fun too.

It's always a massive turn on for me when hubby teases his wife's pussy with my cock and slowly guides me in mmmm

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By *inky 2someCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

As long as it works for you 2 what does it matter

x"
. We couldn’t agree more (Cuck here)…. I love watching my gorgeous lady being fucked and played with by gorgeous ladies and gorgeous guys the biggest turn on for me is saying have some pleasure sometimes I’m asked to join in other times I’m just there to serve .. or even told about it afterwards either way it works for us x thank you for your thoughts on this subject .

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"Speaking as a man who is addicted to married women I love this dynamic.

The husband's presence is a naughty reminder of the fact that I'm inside a married woman....and if hubby likes to join in that's fun too.

It's always a massive turn on for me when hubby teases his wife's pussy with my cock and slowly guides me in mmmm"

Totally agree 0 there is something so horny about fuckng a woman while here husband is there. I know he is watching and she knows he is watching - the taboo aspect blows my mind…

I know I just fuck a woman harder knowing her husband is right there

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

"Totally agree 0 there is something so horny about fuckng a woman while here husband is there. I know he is watching and she knows he is watching - the taboo aspect blows my mind…

I know I just fuck a woman harder knowing her husband is right there"

great pictures of you enjoying willing wifes do you expect and get respect from the hubbies

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By *BCambsCouple
over a year ago

Biggleswade

We play this way. I really enjoy watching and sharing my wife. I don't play with others just her. Sometimes I watch only but usually we have threesomes where she gets all the attention.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

""Totally agree 0 there is something so horny about fuckng a woman while here husband is there. I know he is watching and she knows he is watching - the taboo aspect blows my mind…

I know I just fuck a woman harder knowing her husband is right there"

great pictures of you enjoying willing wifes do you expect and get respect from the hubbies "

Thanks! Met some lovely sexy married ladies!

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By *astMan
over a year ago

local

Nice

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By *astMan
over a year ago

local

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how we play. Love to see my good lady enjoying herself.

We'd also like a regular where it might lead to solo play too

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

That's our set up, I absolutely love watching Mrs N and never get tempted to join, I don't want to miss anything.

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"This is how we play. Love to see my good lady enjoying herself.

We'd also like a regular where it might lead to solo play too"

Sounds perfect

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Laceby

We’ll quite happily meet a female from a couple…we’ll look after her well

I like to watch and then join in, we aren’t a hot wife couple.

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By *ll 4 herCouple
over a year ago

Bury/Bolton

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

It would appear not, same situation here, I enjoy watching her more than participating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

I know a few couples like that. Everyone finds there own way into the scene.

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

This is how we do it aswell. V stays at home while I go & meet guys. He loves watching all the videos I make for him though.

He picks my outfits & licks my pussy, edging me just before i leave.

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By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I like him present, but with his little cock locked in chastity cage.

It does save him from embarrassment, lol. But he is not allowed any other pussy anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we only ones on here with this dynamic?

I (Mr) love the idea of her enjoying herself and being in control of it but have no interest myself in playing with others."

This has always been our dynamic. We’ve met lovely couples who were happy with it and we’ve become good friends - but we’ve also chatted to lots who have been weirded out by it - I’m glad I found this post as I did think we were unusual … it’s nice to not feel like the odd ones lol

Mrs x

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By *ueandbillCouple
over a year ago

Leyland

We have only met single guys, and yet to get her to go to a club - so im more than happy just watching

Really love watching her with a guy, love it as he makes her cum - could watch her every day

maybe i will get her to a club to try swapping, but more than happy to watch her have fun

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By *orthcoupleCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Pretty much us

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

"Pretty much us

great picture of your ringed married finger opening your cunt for a stranger but does hubby get t0 taste

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