FabSwingers.com forum: Sell your own mother!!!

By *onny Bones OP Man
over a year ago

a block away from heaven

I spoke to a friend on here the other day who found it comical the way in which she is able to manipulate meets from men. Even more curious was that she showed me the offers of money, the chance to sell clothes and underwear to some offering money. In her own admission she is enjoying meeting and fucking men she wouldn’t normally approach or be approached by. Her bucket list has been fulfilled in her time

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My question is where do you draw the line? What are you willing to offer/compromise on for a meet. Some pander to absolutely ridiculous requests in order to meet someone clearly seeking the same thing. Would you submit to these requests in the vanilla world?

Sorry to stereotype, I’m really interested in the male perspective and whether or not you are willing to submit to all requests to meet for a fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In no way would I offer anything other than my body, company, wit and banter, and to satisfy fantasies or urges (and, potentially meet the cost of expenses such as hotels etc). Nothing above and beyond regular dating. If I really liked someone I might buy them a gift.

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By *sland_TMan
over a year ago

london

"In no way would I offer anything other than my body, company, wit and banter, and to satisfy fantasies or urges (and, potentially meet the cost of expenses such as hotels etc). Nothing above and beyond regular dating. If I really liked someone I might buy them a gift."

Couldn’t have said it any better; I won’t compromise my morales nor would I expect anyone to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couldn’t have said it any better; I won’t compromise my morales nor would I expect anyone to."

Indeed. Otherwise you might as well go over to one of the many escorting sites and get straight to talking turkey.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would be very surprising if any males admitted to doing anything demeaning on here although I suspect a few would.

We’ve had some unusual offers (including cash) but usually from sub men for whom it’s part of the kink.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would be very surprising if any males admitted to doing anything demeaning on here although I suspect a few would.

We’ve had some unusual offers (including cash) but usually from sub men for whom it’s part of the kink. "

I never did understand the paypig / bank account drain thing. How that links to sexual gratification is the bit that stumps me. I wouldn't judge anyone for it though. But in here, the transactional nature would totally kill it for me.

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

I don’t think we would even cover someone’s hotel costs as we wouldn’t ask someone to cover ours. It’s up to them where they stay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think a bottle of wine or a few beers is about as far as we would stretch. If they don’t want to meet us for us then they can do one.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a bottle of wine or a few beers is about as far as we would stretch. If they don’t want to meet us for us then they can do one."

Indeed. "Lets meet in this hotel, I'll get the room, you bring the booze and nibbles" is reasonable.

"Lets meet, give me £300 for expenses" is not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think we would even cover someone’s hotel costs as we wouldn’t ask someone to cover ours. It’s up to them where they stay"

I would cover costs if the other person was genuinely hard up and I liked them.

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

I think the moment I feel am being manipulated or used for anything other than my time and company it would be a massive turn off and regardless of how attractive I found them I'd loose immediate interest. Wine, chocolate, doughnuts, small gifts or something you can share no problem anything else am sure there are men on here desperate enough to pander to those demands.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t think we would even cover someone’s hotel costs as we wouldn’t ask someone to cover ours. It’s up to them where they stay

I would cover costs if the other person was genuinely hard up and I liked them. "

I would split a hotel bill as we’d both be using the room but I wouldn’t cover their full costs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

I’m happy to pay for a hotel room if a couple can’t accommodate, but I get them to sign a contract that the hot wife needs to make me cum at least 6 times before I unlock the door, and I keep her knickers

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By *sland_TMan
over a year ago

london

"I don’t think we would even cover someone’s hotel costs as we wouldn’t ask someone to cover ours. It’s up to them where they stay"

Personally I won’t ask; However I don’t see a issue with splitting cost as it’s beneficial for all parties.

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