FabSwingers.com forum: Bulls Cucks etc

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I don't get it

I love being with my Mrs and having another guy/girl/cpl join us. But if any of them tried disrespecting either of us, treating us like a cuck in any way, we'd probably kill em.

What's the attraction?

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By *uckoldandWifeCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

Oh dear

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By *idsmixedcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"Oh dear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Oh dear

Lol, bit derogatory but not exactly an answer though, I'm curious that's all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me as a female cuck its about being sexually dominated with some humiliation thrown it its hard to explain to someone when it isn't their kink its just what I like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't get it

I love being with my Mrs and having another guy/girl/cpl join us. But if any of them tried disrespecting either of us, treating us like a cuck in any way, we'd probably kill em.

What's the attraction?"

I am with you on this one, my wife and I love gangbangs, but if anyone treated me as a "cuck"... I would bounce them out the room.....

But.... each to their own, live and let love...

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

Its just a question fo different strokes for different folks

Have been in both types of situation - ie normal MMF or just hotwife/cuck type scenario - both are equally enjoyable (for me!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not disrespectful, its giving them what they want! (enjoy).

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By *idsmixedcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

It's the same with absolutely anything on here, or this scene, it's just people's personal differences, it's not about disrespecting people, it's about indulging in a fantasy. Personally I'm not into gang bangs ( these days anyway) but I still get why people enjoy it.

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By *et_me_take_controlMan
over a year ago

Manchester

"It's the same with absolutely anything on here, or this scene, it's just people's personal differences, it's not about disrespecting people, it's about indulging in a fantasy. Personally I'm not into gang bangs ( these days anyway) but I still get why people enjoy it. "

Totally agree with all said here. Its a sexual preference. Its not disrespectful if its a turn on for both. Is it disrespectful for you to say no to guys who want to shag ur arse? Thats not my cup of tea either but wouldnt deny anyone the right to enjoy it with someone else who liked the same!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh yeah that's a brilliant way of putting it. Thanks xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cuckolding is a catchall phrase and really it is a case of one size fits no one. I consider myself a cuck as my kick is to watch Rachel with other men and do have a sub/Dom relationship with her, especially when we play. For example see might make me face the wall for a while or leave the room for 5 or 10 minutes and it is a thrill for me that she takes away the thing I want to see most. Now, if some guy was to fuck Rachel and then whip his condom off and tell me to suck his cock he is going to be told I. No uncertain terms where to go by both of us.

So, like many things in life cuckolding is a matter of degree and taste, but I do think that the cuck does have to wired to wish for, or indeed in my case, crave it. Furthermore the cuck's wife must want to do it to him. The fact that the person you love most in the world has deliberately excluded you from a sexual encounter is pretty powerful stuff as is the rebonding as a couple which takes place afterwards.

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By *pl- capdagdeCouple
over a year ago

Cap d agde,France

I don't get the female cuck thing ,to me just seems a way for a woman that doesn't reallywant to swing,get her bloke layed ...

But like everyone said each to their own.

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By *idsmixedcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

"I don't get the female cuck thing ,to me just seems a way for a woman that doesn't reallywant to swing,get her bloke layed ...

But like everyone said each to their own."

Hmmm, the feminist in me says "good for the goose, good for the gander" it's not my cup of tea, but don't really see how it can be fine for a man to enjoy being a cuckold but not a woman.

I think one of our ideal situations is a cuckold couple where Leo can be the black bull and I can either enjoy helping to humiliate the cuck or also assist with his wife, but most cuckold couples only want him not me

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

Think Mr Zippyzap explained it very well

Perhaps another way of thinking of it -

I used to "date" a married lday - she wasnt swinger at all - but she had boyfriends which her hubby was happy with - of which I was one.

Now, objectively, having sex with her was no different than having sex with a single girl - but for me it was much more erotic experience - knowing that she was married - made it so much naughtier

Am sure its true for cuck/hotwife couple - the mental aspect is as important as the physical

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