FabSwingers.com forum: How to suggest swinging to a partner ?

By *ohanlon21 OP Man
over a year ago

Any personal stories of how you suggested it to your partner ? How to know if it’s a 100% no no and how long to wait before asking ? Would be interested to know such an interesting topic as it’s such an amazing thing : )

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Show her your fab profile

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

"Show her your fab profile "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have a straightforward conversation about the possibility of sex with other people. It’s pretty simple really.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

Ask what her fantasies are!!! Reverse psychology

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By *ohanlon21 OP Man
over a year ago

Don’t have a partner yet! Lol

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

"Don’t have a partner yet! Lol"

Just preparing then

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Just ask...simple

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Don’t have a partner yet! Lol"

Then when you have a date tell them that you are into swinging etc

My husband and I discussed previous threesomes we'd both had on our first date, there's no point building a connection then hitting them with a surprise like fab

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By *tagVixenAngusCouple
over a year ago

Dundee area

I told muffin honestly when we met that I'd been on here and been to clubs.

She didn't like it, and I said it wasn't a deal breaker for me.

I can take it or leave it.

She then started asking questions over time, then she suggested joining.

Honesty is the key.

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By *ohanlon21 OP Man
over a year ago

Exactly ! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask what her fantasies are!!! Reverse psychology

That's what we did and then on New Years Day we each wrote a wish list of what we would like to experience in the year ahead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ask what her fantasies are!!! Reverse psychology

That's what we did and then on New Years Day we each wrote a wish list of what we would like to experience in the year ahead."

That’s very cool

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No idea if you’re already in a relationship.

The last 3 relationships the subject of previous sex lives came up and the discussion went from there. 1 wasn’t interested, the other two were intrigued but didn’t really want to join in. In all 3 cases I knew the conversation would be accepted, other times I knew it wouldn’t so I didn't broach the subject.

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