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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Have you come across a player? Did you realise he/she was a player before things escalated or was it too late? Has that situation made you more weary of people?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you come across a player? Did you realise he/she was a player before things escalated or was it too late? Has that situation made you more weary of people?"

Yes I have.

No I didn’t.

Yes it has. Huge wall!

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon

I think meeting people these days is to be expected that they are chatting to/seeing multiple people. Even in a more conventional dating platform choice overwhelms people and temptation to carry on looking.

I’ve had many a player some better at hiding it than others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you come across a player? Did you realise he/she was a player before things escalated or was it too late? Has that situation made you more weary of people?"

Yes.

No, not at first.

And yes. I think my heart has been battered enough.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Makes it so difficult to find someone genuine for a relationship. So much hurt for people it's soul destroying.

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By *l6789Man
over a year ago

croydon


"Makes it so difficult to find someone genuine for a relationship. So much hurt for people it's soul destroying."

It never feels any easier, and leaves u expecting the worst

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im just a rugby player

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Im just a rugby player "

I like a rugby player

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

not meeting, forums only


"Have you come across a player? Did you realise he/she was a player before things escalated or was it too late? Has that situation made you more weary of people?"
I seem to be drawn to them.... I always know.. I just can't help myself

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford

I can play poker.

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

west end

These days there is so much choice. Difficult for anyone to go serious and settle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

No! but could kick myself looking back on it though

Very weary

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"These days there is so much choice. Difficult for anyone to go serious and settle."

Are you saying it's difficult to just have one partner.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Defination of player needed pls

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It funny how the girlsI tend to like go for the bad boy / player type!

I end up as just the friend they come running too when i it all goes wrong!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Defination of player needed pls"

Someone who fakes a serious amount of romance with you while doing the same with other's at the same time is my definition.

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By *hemainintainMan
over a year ago

west end


"These days there is so much choice. Difficult for anyone to go serious and settle.

Are you saying it's difficult to just have one partner."

No I mean if you look and date online you will chat to lots of people. Then you might feel a connection. But how do you know if the other person feels it or is still chatting and or meeting others.

I think it's just harder to trust people these days as everyone has so much more options and choice than they did before.

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By *nchantedRoseWoman
over a year ago

cardiff


"Have you come across a player? Did you realise he/she was a player before things escalated or was it too late? Has that situation made you more weary of people?"

Yes, deep down I knew but I didn't want to admit it to myself and I needed some solid evidence before I confronted him.

Absolutely I don't trust anyone now.. and I don't let anyone get that close to me. It's definitely changes you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Im just a rugby player

I like a rugby player "
i like a rugby player likerer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you come across a player? Did you realise he/she was a player before things escalated or was it too late? Has that situation made you more weary of people?"

Yes I found out he was a multiple lying player. Now I don’t trust anyone

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you come across a player? Did you realise he/she was a player before things escalated or was it too late? Has that situation made you more weary of people?

Yes I found out he was a multiple lying player. Now I don’t trust anyone "

I hear you, I feel the same

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Stamford

I'm not making excuses, but it's not just guys.

Some of us blokes have been hit by players too.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not making excuses, but it's not just guys.

Some of us blokes have been hit by players too. "

I'm sure but no guys have said that yet so I can't comment

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By *hil most chillMan
over a year ago

London, South East & Europe

Not gonna lie, I have played in years past. In recent years I've been more of a sub though

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