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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Look everyone has to do what makes them feel comfortable. Totally respect that. However do you think on here it’s reasonable for someone to suggest you have an STI test after every meet to be able to meet them? Just be interested in peoples views!

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

I don’t play a lot, but I test regularly. Some people every month, some 3 months, some after ever meet. It’s your personal choice. Telling someone when to test is very different to asking for proof of your last test

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Considering some of the STI's may not show up on the test for as long as 3 months I'd say it's not reasonable if you're meeting more often than that. You could meet 10 people in as many days. If you've picked something up from the first one it may still not show up on a test for another week after you've met the last one.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I don’t play a lot, but I test regularly. Some people every month, some 3 months, some after ever meet. It’s your personal choice. Telling someone when to test is very different to asking for proof of your last test"

I average having sex every 3-4 weeks. I get a test every 3 months. Is that sufficient in everyone’s opinion or not ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If someone asked me to do that then I would say that we aren't compatible and I would move on.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Personally I don't think it's reasonable but to them obviously it is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meet em or dont but sounds like your being held to ransom for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get tested myself regularly even though i use condoms, I wouldnt test for someone else mine is for my own health but I'd be happy to prove I'm clean.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get tested yes but unless its a regular sex with a regular partner then I'd presume that you'd have to play safe regardless

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I test if I enter a serious kink relationship.

Casual club sex is always safe.

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By *rReyMan
over a year ago

Fleet

Interesting question, if you weren't on fab would you ask each prospective date for an STI test?

I practice safe sex, I rarely meet others, I don't feel the need to test.

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By *assy LassieWoman
over a year ago

Lanarkshire


"Interesting question, if you weren't on fab would you ask each prospective date for an STI test?

I practice safe sex, I rarely meet others, I don't feel the need to test. "

What. Ever?

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By *orkshireDrifterMan
over a year ago

Nafferton, nr Driffield.

I do get tested regularly, either every three months or I would go in the interim if I were to suspect something was wrong.

However it is impractical to go after every meet. It's hard enough to get a one off appointment as it is!

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