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By *histle79 OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Reject/ignore/dismiss a message from someone. Is it the message itself or the pics or both?

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By *astpoetMan
over a year ago

where the world takes me

poor spelling/text speak, overly aggressive or just not reading what i'm looking for.

Pics tend to come second as i need a mental connection first

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Both, and those who don’t read profiles even if they come across as polite

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By *histle79 OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"poor spelling/text speak, overly aggressive or just not reading what i'm looking for.

Pics tend to come second as i need a mental connection first"

Yeah, seems a lot choose to ignore what people are after... though I have been guilty of taking a chance!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone who clearly hasn't read my bio or doesn't even have a profile picture after being active for a decent period of time.

If its general chit chat then I'll answer anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mostly just the idiotic messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When im in a mood

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

For me it's mostly the message. You can tell usually from the first line without even opening it if its worth it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really short messages, like "HI" they are really hard to answer, or one word replies, if a conversation is hard work I give up

Claire

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By *urvytreatWoman
over a year ago

somewhere nice

First Messages telling me what they’re going to do me, asking to meet in the first message. Messages where it’s clear they haven’t read my bio

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

We used to answer all messages but are now more selective so we ignore...

Hi, howz youz, x, and similar variants.

Anyone who obviously hasn't read the profile as there's no match at all.

Anything rude or aggressive in tone.

In saying that sometimes just depends on the day.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reject/ignore/dismiss a message from someone. Is it the message itself or the pics or both?"

If they haven't met anyone and been on the site for a number of years, outdated pics, clearly haven't read my profile or zero effort when messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Really short messages, like "HI" they are really hard to answer, or one word replies, if a conversation is hard work I give up

Claire "

I'm exactly the same for me

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By *histle79 OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"For me it's mostly the message. You can tell usually from the first line without even opening it if its worth it x"

Really? That doesn't give someone much opportunity.

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By *histle79 OP Man
over a year ago

Guildford

"Reject/ignore/dismiss a message from someone. Is it the message itself or the pics or both?

If they haven't met anyone and been on the site for a number of years, outdated pics, clearly haven't read my profile or zero effort when messaging

Yeah, been a member for over a year, no pics, not verified... no no.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

It could be the message, pics or profile. If we can tell someone hasn't read our profile we generally don't reply.

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By *lueDressWoman
over a year ago

Bath

It can be a mixture of things. But the majority of time it is because of what they have said in the message.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Reject/ignore/dismiss a message from someone. Is it the message itself or the pics or both?"

Either. Both. It depends.

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Often their profile. If there a 1 line profile and no real info it's hard to judge. Also if photos are years out if date

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

If they've not read my profile / if I don't like their pics mainly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Distance is the main thing for us.

Text speak comes a close second.

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By *ackDMissMorganCouple
over a year ago

Halifax

On this profile, only pics of the woman and none of the man.

Asking to meet now or fast. Not being able to swap face pics.

When they're after girl on girl and fail to read I'm straight.

Miss

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By *ewstaffscoupleCouple
over a year ago

cannock

"On this profile, only pics of the woman and none of the man.

Asking to meet now or fast. Not being able to swap face pics.

When they're after girl on girl and fail to read I'm straight.

Miss"

Amen!

Oh and there is the obvious copy and paste messages! BLOCK!

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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago

belfast

There's not much to my profile,3 or 4 lines,but if guys are going to ignore what ask on it,they can fully expect me to ignore their messages.

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Usually it's the messages from couples that state they don't meet single men. Or profiles that state they are looking for everything that I'm not. If that's the case why message

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not matching from the profile and next, the message text.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I get sent pics of them balls deep in someone, major turn off

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

If people don't read the profile, and are reluctant to sent face pics if they've asked us to and we have.

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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago

nottingham

If they have no pictures when talking. As have stated we prefer face pics when making intros. We like to know who it is we are talking to. Aswell as no Veri’s

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Rude and vulgar messages, dick pics, silly requests or just clearly not take the time to read what we’re looking for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s usually the contents of the message. Usually disrespectful ones

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A mixture, usually asking what I’m into or looking for

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By *uicy and GymCouple
over a year ago

Telford

Sending a friend request or only speaking to one of us

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Hurdle 1: no pics attached and none on profile. Don't read it, just go back to the message and delete

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Messages? Can someone explain the concept of receiving one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wanting to meet straight away.

Boring or lazy messages.

WRITING IN CAPITALS

Txt spk

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

If the first line of the message and/or the profile doesn’t intrigue or interest me I don’t open it.

Harsh maybe but it’s worked so far.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Reject/ignore/dismiss a message from someone. Is it the message itself or the pics or both?"

The fact they have a cock !

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