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By *mcouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

does 1 exist ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, if and when you become bored with it.

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester

I'd guess if you start having to kid yourself it's making you happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not all meets are going to be good, we will always have no shows and time wasters they are part of swinging, we are always going to meet people we dont like but when the bad meets start to out weight the good ones, for me thats when its time to stop

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Red traffic lights, ohhhh ,

Did I misunderstand the question again??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes there is and its the time when u need to bring a sub on at half time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the let downs are becoming more and more unbearable it getting harder to keep an interest one arranged for nxt week if this dont happen i will consider

finishing...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

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By *-and-KCouple
over a year ago

Back of Beyond

I was serioulsy considering this last weekend. After a houseparty we attended, the old feller kept wilting after 6 housrs of continuous play. Meanwhile Katee was still going strong!

So I looked at my age *53) and thought 'yes have to consider giving up in a year or two, probably when I reach 70 or so'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx"

Dont kid yourself Raz that happened to me and that was my reason to start swinging lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx"

I'm with you there Raz! If i meet someone special then that's all i need.

I remember some guy awhile back saying if he got married or met someone he wouldn't swing and he got berrated for it. Apparently he wasn't a swinger because he didn't want to share his gf when he found one, while he met couples and spent time with someones wife. And i thought freedom of choice was allowed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx"

if he got a fit pal send him my way lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

if he got a fit pal send him my way lol xx"

Would a guy that looks more like the Knight's horse be any use???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

hell yeah as long as u hung like the horse n can make me laugh then sorted!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"hell yeah as long as u hung like the horse n can make me laugh then sorted!! "

I could tickle you, so is one outta two any use??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yeah im easy pleased lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

if he got a fit pal send him my way lol xx"

Will do Honey, I do so love to share xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

if he got a fit pal send him my way lol xx

Will do Honey, I do so love to share xxx"

Oh these thoughts that i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

if he got a fit pal send him my way lol xx

Will do Honey, I do so love to share xxx

Oh these thoughts that i have "

And you aren't going to share them - meany xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks il do the same lol!!! xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

if he got a fit pal send him my way lol xx

Will do Honey, I do so love to share xxx

Oh these thoughts that i have

And you aren't going to share them - meany xxx"

Oooh i'd love to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Will do Honey, I do so love to share xxx

Oh these thoughts that i have

And you aren't going to share them - meany xxx"

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh hey, perhaps fa could create a sister site, fabloveseekers.

the shock of such things posted on a site like this, you people should be ashamed of yourselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me "

Ooooo that one came through very strong...........xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Will do Honey, I do so love to share xxx

Oh these thoughts that i have

And you aren't going to share them - meany xxx

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me "

Yay were having similar thoughts lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me

Ooooo that one came through very strong...........xxx"

I used both hands to push it , ohhhh yeah, and Gothica, I think its not the first time we have had similar thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me

Ooooo that one came through very strong...........xxx

I used both hands to push it , ohhhh yeah, and Gothica, I think its not the first time we have had similar thoughts "

Lol well hugs to you both cause you've made me smile tonight - thank you xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me

Ooooo that one came through very strong...........xxx

I used both hands to push it , ohhhh yeah, and Gothica, I think its not the first time we have had similar thoughts

Lol well hugs to you both cause you've made me smile tonight - thank you xxx"

Awwww thats great, I'm off for a w*nk now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me

Ooooo that one came through very strong...........xxx

I used both hands to push it , ohhhh yeah, and Gothica, I think its not the first time we have had similar thoughts

Lol well hugs to you both cause you've made me smile tonight - thank you xxx

Awwww thats great, I'm off for a w*nk now "

Now that one made me laugh out loud xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Razz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me

Ooooo that one came through very strong...........xxx

I used both hands to push it , ohhhh yeah, and Gothica, I think its not the first time we have had similar thoughts "

Now do let me know what those shared thoughts were!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

If we are both projecting mental thoughts towards you, the ones with you wearing the black latex basque and the lace black thong are from me

Ooooo that one came through very strong...........xxx

I used both hands to push it , ohhhh yeah, and Gothica, I think its not the first time we have had similar thoughts

Lol well hugs to you both cause you've made me smile tonight - thank you xxx"

And thank you for those pics yum yum

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By *obblybitsCouple
over a year ago

huddersfield

would stop if we got pregnant again.

and if it started to interfear with our marriege and sex life we would have to say no more.

lol only just started and got rules already

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Now do let me know what those shared thoughts were! "

I have read a fair few of your posts and I find I agree with a very high percentage of your opinions, especially about Razz's ars*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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Now do let me know what those shared thoughts were!

I have read a fair few of your posts and I find I agree with a very high percentage of your opinions, especially about Razz's ars*

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Hey, i sem to be getting quite a few people say they read and agree with my comments! Oh my it's like winning an Oscar lol.

Yep, Razz's got a gorgeous....well everything lol....and so have a few on here...i need to trap one or two lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh now you are just making me blush !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh now you are just making me blush !!! "

Aw bless ya...now bend over for a spanking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh now you are just making me blush !!!

Aw bless ya...now bend over for a spanking "

Now I'm flushed !!!! where will it end ??? xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh now you are just making me blush !!!

Aw bless ya...now bend over for a spanking

Now I'm flushed !!!! where will it end ??? xxx"

Just slip into one of those numbers from ya pics and make us all happy

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

I'm with you there Raz! If i meet someone special then that's all i need.

I remember some guy awhile back saying if he got married or met someone he wouldn't swing and he got berrated for it. Apparently he wasn't a swinger because he didn't want to share his gf when he found one, while he met couples and spent time with someones wife. And i thought freedom of choice was allowed! "

I'd have thought when you find a real life partner that is the point you can truly start swinging rather than the reason to stop.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

I'm with you there Raz! If i meet someone special then that's all i need.

I remember some guy awhile back saying if he got married or met someone he wouldn't swing and he got berrated for it. Apparently he wasn't a swinger because he didn't want to share his gf when he found one, while he met couples and spent time with someones wife. And i thought freedom of choice was allowed!

I'd have thought when you find a real life partner that is the point you can truly start swinging rather than the reason to stop."

Again, we go back to the whole question of what is a swinger and an individuals thinking and mindset. To me a swinger is just a nicer sounding label thats preferred to 'casual sex', and i know of a fair few 'swingers' who have quit the scene because they prefer to just keep to their partner!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx"

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Same here! However, I am an optimist!

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By *he_original_poloWoman
over a year ago

a Primark shoebox in Leicester


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

I'm with you there Raz! If i meet someone special then that's all i need.

I remember some guy awhile back saying if he got married or met someone he wouldn't swing and he got berrated for it. Apparently he wasn't a swinger because he didn't want to share his gf when he found one, while he met couples and spent time with someones wife. And i thought freedom of choice was allowed!

I'd have thought when you find a real life partner that is the point you can truly start swinging rather than the reason to stop.

Again, we go back to the whole question of what is a swinger and an individuals thinking and mindset. To me a swinger is just a nicer sounding label thats preferred to 'casual sex', and i know of a fair few 'swingers' who have quit the scene because they prefer to just keep to their partner! "

Call it what you like - my personal opinion is based on the concept of swinging being sex involving someone outside of a pre-exsisting relationship (of some kind) and/or more than two people being involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx

I'm with you there Raz! If i meet someone special then that's all i need.

I remember some guy awhile back saying if he got married or met someone he wouldn't swing and he got berrated for it. Apparently he wasn't a swinger because he didn't want to share his gf when he found one, while he met couples and spent time with someones wife. And i thought freedom of choice was allowed!

I'd have thought when you find a real life partner that is the point you can truly start swinging rather than the reason to stop.

Again, we go back to the whole question of what is a swinger and an individuals thinking and mindset. To me a swinger is just a nicer sounding label thats preferred to 'casual sex', and i know of a fair few 'swingers' who have quit the scene because they prefer to just keep to their partner!

Call it what you like - my personal opinion is based on the concept of swinging being sex involving someone outside of a pre-exsisting relationship (of some kind) and/or more than two people being involved."

Personally when I am on a 1-2-1 meet with a single guy I wouldn't consider that a swinging meet, thats just fun between two consenting adults.

If however I am with two or more people of whichever sex, and we are all playing in that situation I would call myself a swinger - right or wrong thats how I see it xxxxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good lord Raz...how many sexy pics have ya got? Each time i log on you have a new avatar lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good lord Raz...how many sexy pics have ya got? Each time i log on you have a new avatar lol "

Sorry I get bored looking at the same thing, and my boots keep getting the wrong kind of attention lol xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good lord Raz...how many sexy pics have ya got? Each time i log on you have a new avatar lol

Sorry I get bored looking at the same thing, and my boots keep getting the wrong kind of attention lol xxx"

I'm sorry about those 257 begging Emails Razz,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Good lord Raz...how many sexy pics have ya got? Each time i log on you have a new avatar lol

Sorry I get bored looking at the same thing, and my boots keep getting the wrong kind of attention lol xxx

I'm sorry about those 257 begging Emails Razz, "

lol oh no those were fine Honey xxx xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Call it what you like - my personal opinion is based on the concept of swinging being sex involving someone outside of a pre-exsisting relationship (of some kind) and/or more than two people being involved."

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I am just a single fem looking for no string attached fun!

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By *mcouple1 OP   Couple
over a year ago

nr warrington

I'd have thought when you find a real life partner that is the point you can truly start swinging rather than the reason to stop.

very very true xxxxxxxxxxxxx

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By *etitesaraTV/TS
over a year ago

rochdale


"When my knight in shining armour finally arrives and sweeps me off my feet and I fall totally and helplessly in love - well thats me swinging for ever then !!! xx xx"

Hehe - armour i can do, medieval re-enactment is another of my hobbies, must be to do with dressing up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you get soooooooo bored, retirement seems a livlier option.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I was serioulsy considering this last weekend. After a houseparty we attended, the old feller kept wilting after 6 housrs of continuous play. Meanwhile Katee was still going strong!

So I looked at my age *53) and thought 'yes have to consider giving up in a year or two, probably when I reach 70 or so' "

Drool...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the requests to meet begin to seem like nagging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when you get constant abuse from single guys about your partners physical attributes, thats why my mrs stopped

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When one of the couple no longer gets anything out of it, going through that stage now, sadly.

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By *eznhannahCouple
over a year ago

leeds

reason to stop.....er gonnerea lol

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