FabSwingers.com forum: What do you prefer

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Regular play mates or just one offs ?

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular....by far the best.

Was a lover to a couple.for 4yrs....was amazing. Became good friends and still are.

Loved the fact we could have rampant sexual fun then after could all easily chat as friends and pass the time. Learned a lot in this dynamic.

Hope that answers from my point of view x

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By *appycouple300Couple
over a year ago

Dorset

Regular, but very hard to find

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Both.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Downham Market

Nice to have a few guys that we (well, Char) can see more often, but our preference is for one-offs

.....like the variety.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular is the best for exploring and trying new things, but one offs are exciting as well, so a good mix of both (if thats an option here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular , you get to know them better and what they like .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If we ever do it one offs . Not into building friendships or friends it's just sex not emotions attached that's when it can get messy

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

One offs which is why I go to clubs although never say never.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both.

Depends on what we're seeking in the moment.

Sometimes the thrill of a first time, sometimes an already built connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like the idea of having friends with benefits.

But also like the idea of a one off.

I think you just do what feels right for you.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We do prefer regular as well. Like some of you have said.. you get to know each other etc.

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs have their place for us when it suits our needs at that moment.

We very much enjoy repeat meets and build great friendships from it which adds to our playtime altogether.

Fingers crossed (but not legs) I am about begin a hotwife fwb friendship with a guy we've previously played with as part of a foursome. He suits the dynamic of what we are seeking and hopefully we will all get a lot of sexual enjoyment from the repeat meets, alone and as a threesome.

NBVN x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd prefer regular, it's always better once you get to know likes and dislikes, learn each others body's.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs. The only way we’d meet someone again is if we bumped into them at a club.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular every time. Great sex requires knowing someone’s buttons

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By *aCaiMan
over a year ago

Telford

Get me someone regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bit of both!

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Definitely regular as things just get better and the friendship builds x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd prefer regular so we can learn our way around each others bodies, one offs can be exciting now and again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular play mates have there place as you can explore and develop many aspect of fun.

Just one offs dose how ever satisfies ones sexual urge at the time. A bit of NSA fun.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Regular and I've been lucky in finding that on here over the time I've been here. I have had a few one offs but i usually find the sex is meh with them mind you that's usually why they remain one offs. At a party/club situation it's different but definitely when meeting one on one I prefer regular meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive had both and find a get bored easily lol sometimes one offs just hit the spot so to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular, sexual connection & chemistry grows with time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer regular but if I'm at a club and I get the itch you can bet I'll find someone to help me scratch it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Ive had both and find a get bored easily lol sometimes one offs just hit the spot so to say "

Yes they do hit the spot at times x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular if possible, one offs if that's the way it has to be

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

Only looking for regular. Done the one offs, much prefer a connection with the right person. Had a fabulous FWB from here that I met for 3 yrs, then he got a gf and left fab, still in touch with him now as mates.

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

"Regular play mates or just one offs ?

Mrs xx"

Single meets can be fun and exciting but we'd choose regular sexy friends if on offer. Trust grows, sex gets better and less rushed, you can learn about each other and have non play meets too (meals out, ladies shopping together etc)

So many on FAB are serial monogamists, craving the excitement of new playmates even when they talk of regular friends. Others want it but don't have what it takes to make a lasting naughty friendship work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By *ife NinjaMan
over a year ago

Dunfermline

Would love a regular. Applications being taken

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular master/dom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone I can meet on a regular basis would be perfect.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Definitely regulars. First time often doesn't work that well. I think one needs to meet several times (especially with couples)to really find out what works and where boundaries lie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both but lean towards one offs xx

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

Regular friendship is top priority.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A regular but hard too find x

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

Enjoy both but with couples regular and guys it doesnt matter just NSA play on that count.

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

ipswich

One offs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular but I also do enjoy one offs.

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By *enedictmkMan
over a year ago

milton keynes

Regular but open to one offs

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

As many regulars as possible, simply because each person provides something individually different and the connection grows stronger over time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally only have 1/2 max on the go. Always test monthly especially after oral

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Regular would be awesome but that's easier said than done really

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

Swinger friends equals hopefully regular meets is what we are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Regular

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

much prefer a regular play mate rather than a one off, although if in a club then the one off, spices things up

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By *iss pleasuringWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near

Regular. Every meet gets better, as we discover each others likes and dislikes.

Growing a mutual trust and more doors open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One offs less complicated

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By *idsAndyMan
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Regular fun for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One off.

No mithering

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular with a small very select group of friends

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Regular. And lots of them

Seriously though we like regular friends but not averse to one offs either. Just depends on timing mostly.

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