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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this site genuine cos I'm not getting fuck all back from anyone or am I just an ugly cunt ??

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By *un_funMan
over a year ago

cheshire


"Is this site genuine cos I'm not getting fuck all back from anyone or am I just an ugly cunt ??"

Despite what people think when they join, it takes more than a message for most to jump in bed on here. You have to appreciate it’s a numbers game, there are probably 3 times as many “single” guys on here than women so their inbox is going to be full of messages from different guys but all the same message. You have to try and stand out whether that be in your message or on your profile.

There are plenty of fakes on here unfortunately men, women and couples and just as many people who are all talk and time wasters. If your willing to put the time in with people you will find your fun

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I've just copy & pasted this off another post I replied to less than 5 minutes ago but same question, different guy, sane reply

You get out what you put into this site

There's 100 guys for every single female or couple

Look at your profile compared to others would you choose you over the other 99 people messaging you, do you think your profile would stand out, does it say enough about you and what your likes & dislikes are

Do you think I'd be able to tell if we are sexually compatable from looking at your profile / bio

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Appreciate that mate just seem to be getting nowhere like. Cheers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I guess it depends on what you mean by genuine. As has been said on other threads similar to this the ones that usually complain saying they're having trouble meeting people are normally the ones who put in as little effort as possible yet hope to get maximum rewards. Unfortunately for you as a previous poster said it's a numbers game and for single men on here there's got to be something about your profile that stands out. Hopefully you don't take this harsh but as constructive feedback, 2 pictures and two lines on a bio aren't going to be enough to make most people want to meet you. Look upon your profile as your advert, if it looks more appealing then people will be drawn to it.

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By *un_funMan
over a year ago

cheshire

Don’t get me wrong, I think most people go through phases on here where they have had enough of not getting replies or meeting anyone but it only takes finding that one person or couple to change your mind.

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By *aked2sumCouple
over a year ago

every where

Fabs a game some guys can play it and others have no idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Absolutely understand what you're saying but taking photos of myself isn't something I really do. No self confidence tbh but I want some fun with someone I've never met ??. Same old shit where I live just want something new. I'll try my best to sort my shit profile out I know it's rubbish

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

We're all real OP. It's just probably largely that it's really tough for you single men and coming out of the pandemic, it's made it tougher.

Most people are not compatible with most other people. No reply = no thanks.

Men typically have to get a profile that sells themselves really well.

Good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Absolutely understand what you're saying but taking photos of myself isn't something I really do. No self confidence tbh but I want some fun with someone I've never met ??. Same old shit where I live just want something new. I'll try my best to sort my shit profile out I know it's rubbish "

Little tip. If you struggle to take pictures, set your phone camera up to record a video then take screen captures from that. Way easier than trying to look your best while holding a phone.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

That's good advice I get what you mean just like I said confidence is an issue I'm not lazy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Think I've no idea then haha but I've got a lot to offer to any lass wanting to find out. Easy to say I know and my profile doesn't say feck all so it's clear I need to change that now

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"Absolutely understand what you're saying but taking photos of myself isn't something I really do. No self confidence tbh but I want some fun with someone I've never met ??. Same old shit where I live just want something new. I'll try my best to sort my shit profile out I know it's rubbish "

FAB is tough for single guys as there is so much competition they really do have to work hard to get a meet, the profile really has to stand out

It doesn't have to be photos, add some more to your bio about your kinks things you're into things you aren't into

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Really appreciate the advice. Thank you for the help

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

As others have printed out the ratio of solo guys to couples/ women is immense. They are bombarded with messages & delete most.

Wait for them to come to you, they will if they like your profile and want what you offer.

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By *ittlekinks38Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

Most women find confidence sexy so why not build your confidence up and see where you go from there! Try to advertise yourself a little better on your profile and stand out from a crowd...why not go to social events or parties gonna put an effort in! To get something back in return...and If your only looking single women good luck as its a swinging site you'd be best sticking to dating sites xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'm not just looking for single women I'm up for anything tbh. I know what you're saying though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this site genuine cos I'm not getting fuck all back from anyone or am I just an ugly cunt ??"

Your profile isn’t that good

Mind you from me that’s like the pot calling the kettle black!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As in I think you need more photos and text etc

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