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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I been on this site for awhile now and all I get is men message me. Never had luck with any woman. Is there other sites like this one where more woman are present?

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

Your status may be putting people off... Just a thought

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I just put that on there lol, never have status normally

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By *lice MaliceWoman
over a year ago

The Facility

"I just put that on there lol, never have status normally"

Well that's good because it epitomised what a lot of women on here try to avoid.

It is hard on here though but there are some great suggestions in other threads on the forums about how to improve your chances on here.

Or go to clubs. I don't know what the club scene is like where you are though.

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

I'd add some more content. You look good but your profile doesn't stand out at all x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile tells me nothing about you. If your first messages have the same amount of effort as your profile then it’s pretty obvious why you’re not having much luck.

Search the forums for the other 15000 threads that are similar and take the advice given. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your profile tells me nothing about you. If your first messages have the same amount of effort as your profile then it’s pretty obvious why you’re not having much luck.

Search the forums for the other 15000 threads that are similar and take the advice given. Good luck

What they said ^

Sort that, and then get yourself to some socials

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

OP you need to understand how Fab works.

Firstly, accepting that men far outnumber women, so you need to make an effort with your profile and messages. A 6 pack and a cock won't cut it here. It's not a hook up site.

You're also on the young side for Fab.

As others have said, give clubs a try.

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

It's a simple case of effort = results.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

First off block single men if you don't want them to message you

As for the site you get out what you put in

There's 100 guys for every single female or couple

Look at your profile compared to others would you choose you over the other 99 people messaging you, do you think your profile would stand out, does it say enough about you and what your likes & dislikes are

Do you think I'd be able to tell if we are sexually compatable from looking at your profile / bio

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OP you need to understand how Fab works.

Firstly, accepting that men far outnumber women, so you need to make an effort with your profile and messages. A 6 pack and a cock won't cut it here. It's not a hook up site.

You're also on the young side for Fab.

As others have said, give clubs a try."

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire

Put more effort into your profile, more photos (not cock shots), more to say. Reply to forum posts and do some yourself. Fab new photos, check who's local, fab theirs. If you message, avoid one liners keep it cheerful and apply no pressure. Only put up positive status's. Tony has a single guy profile and has been approached by single girls with hidden profiles !

. Be patient, men far out weight couples and single girls on this site, others seem similar....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Tony has a single guy profile and has been approached by single girls with hidden profiles "

Off topic but I've never understood this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thank you for your advice. Even with a good profile. No woman even click on it to check it. Maybe just no one local to me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thank you for your advice. Even with a good profile. No woman even click on it to check it. Maybe just no one local to me lol"

Not necessarily, from what I've gathered from being in forums a lot of women stop themselves from showing in the "looked at me" section.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

If all you had to do to get a free fuck is join the site and send a few one line messages there would be even more single men on Fab than now trying their luck. In the real world successful guys go to clubs, build up a circle of friends and get some verifications. We play almost entirely in clubs, and play with single guys regularly. Give it a try.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Okay noted lol. It's always the hardest getting the first verification, must don't want to meet an unverified guy

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

I don't have a problem meeting unverified members, I always social first.

But yes, a decent profile really helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't mind meeting unverified people, we would do a social first. I'd just add alittle more to your profile. Had a quick look and it just misses something.

Mrs. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Use the site how you see fit OP. You will be told to take a look at popular mens profiles and do what they do… then you will be told to stand out from the rest (while still doing what the rest do)

If you are willing to put the effort in you will get results. Be polite, don’t expect anything and try to enjoy your time here with no expectations.

Good luck on your journey

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By *evilandTheBeastCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough and Bedford

OP, you have already been given plenty of great advice on this thread.

Piece of advice from us: have a quick read through your profile, does it read well or is it hard to understand? Does it show your personality?

Also, you can't accommodate which many on here would take as you're married or in a relationship. I'd explain that if I were you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe put some more public pics on

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

The fact you have an action shot featuring someone else would immediately put me off.

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By *az87260Man
over a year ago

Kirkcaldy

Yet to meet anyone any thoughts to help change it?

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I been on this site for awhile now and all I get is men message me. Never had luck with any woman. Is there other sites like this one where more woman are present? "

Odd, I don’t believe in luck.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I been on this site for awhile now and all I get is men message me. Never had luck with any woman. Is there other sites like this one where more woman are present? "

Men must be desperate they even message me with no profile pic saying do you want to meet tonight . Weird

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