FabSwingers.com forum: Help getting back into swing

By *ussexcpl7984 OP Couple
over a year ago

Storrington

Any ideas how i could get my wife back into to swinging we not had any meets since covid hit and now she gone off idea

By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I don't think it's something you can or should be encouraging someone to do if they don't want to

All you can do is speak to them about it, speak about the fun experiences you had, speak about how she'd feel if she definitely wants to give up but you wanted to continue

& I don't mean that as being an ultimatum but it's a valid conversation you can't expect her to swing if she doesn't want to but she can't expect you to stop either there needs to be a discussion an agreement

She may just need more time, I'm still not comfortable in busy environments like pubs or trains, Covid will have a long term effect on how many live their lives

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think it's something you can or should be encouraging someone to do if they don't want to

All you can do is speak to them about it, speak about the fun experiences you had, speak about how she'd feel if she definitely wants to give up but you wanted to continue

She may just need more time, I'm still not comfortable in busy environments like pubs or trains, Covid will have a long term effect on how many live their lives "

Exactly this!