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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

From a string of recent messages in our inbox it seems a lot of guys on here seem to be operating on the incorrect assumption that a cuckold is always bi. Speaking only for myself I'd very much like to set the record straight on that one right now and say that is 100% wrong.

I also wonder if some straight guys looking at a profile that mentions cuckolding are being put off by it?

Yes, some cuckolds are bi, but for us as a couple it's all about dominance and submission and certainly not about me being involved with guy. In fact I am not allowed any physical contact with her when she's playing.

Any not sure if that counts as a mini-rant or not but just wanted to try and get this point across. Wonder if it will provoke many replies? Who knows.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

any cuckold play or chat ive ever had/done has always turned bi .. ive never found a straight cuck relationship yet.

Funnily enough its always the guy not the woman that imposes the cuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think that a lot assume that. I've spoken to quite a few guys looking to be in a cuckold relationship that are not bi.

There will always be people that make assumptions.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"any cuckold play or chat ive ever had/done has always turned bi .. ive never found a straight cuck relationship yet.

Funnily enough its always the guy not the woman that imposes the cuck"

Guess we are not the "norm" then! LOL. I do as she tells me, but she'd never ask me to do anything like that. If the so called cuck is calling the shots it's more akin to wife watching.

However everyone has to be within there own comfort zone for to work.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

its not ... lol .. so many guys want me down their throat its not true.

Ive met quite a few cuck relationships - the male has always intervened at some point, suggesting he sucks me off.

When chatting to couples about cuck.. its 99.99% of the time that bi sex comes up

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"any cuckold play or chat ive ever had/done has always turned bi .. ive never found a straight cuck relationship yet.

Funnily enough its always the guy not the woman that imposes the cuck

Guess we are not the "norm" then! LOL. I do as she tells me, but she'd never ask me to do anything like that. If the so called cuck is calling the shots it's more akin to wife watching.

However everyone has to be within there own comfort zone for to work."

yepsy. sounds more to be like a d/s relationship, though i suppose its a fine line

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"any cuckold play or chat ive ever had/done has always turned bi .. ive never found a straight cuck relationship yet.

Funnily enough its always the guy not the woman that imposes the cuck

Guess we are not the "norm" then! LOL. I do as she tells me, but she'd never ask me to do anything like that. If the so called cuck is calling the shots it's more akin to wife watching.

However everyone has to be within there own comfort zone for to work.

yepsy. sounds more to be like a d/s relationship, though i suppose its a fine line"

Interesting.... Maybe with put that on our profile.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

i met a d/s couple who were boardering on bi but wasnt... he was in a slave role to her needs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"any cuckold play or chat ive ever had/done has always turned bi .. ive never found a straight cuck relationship yet.

Funnily enough its always the guy not the woman that imposes the cuck

Guess we are not the "norm" then! LOL. I do as she tells me, but she'd never ask me to do anything like that. If the so called cuck is calling the shots it's more akin to wife watching.

However everyone has to be within there own comfort zone for to work.

yepsy. sounds more to be like a d/s relationship, though i suppose its a fine line

Interesting.... Maybe with put that on our profile."

Have amended our profile. Anyone kind enough to check it over and see what they think?

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

sounds good - might want to add after the alpha male bit 'I (he) is not interested in any bi relationship'

you might also want to add your tatses/exceptions - it gives any potential mailer a better understanding of how far you want to push it or are willing to go.

I used the above male as a table for instance, I used another to talk down to/degrade, I used another to serve our needs.. though depending who you find you may find humiliation a little too much or whatever...

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have done cuckold scenarios and teh guy wsnt bi or bi curious in anyway.

One was simply her using me to humiliate him, I hardly spoke to him all night at her request.

In the second we both treated him with utter contempt all night.

So i for one do not think cucks have to be bi, anymore than anyone else on Fab.

Neither occasion was m-m contat suggested or hinted at.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

there are many different scenario's to cuckolding, i think these guys seem to get their ideas about cuckolding from xhamster

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

im not saying they have to be, just, in the majority, from my experince they have been

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"there are many different scenario's to cuckolding, i think these guys seem to get their ideas about cuckolding from xhamster "

which guys?

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I fear that this is going to turn into a 'If you are not doing it my way, you are doing it wrong' type of threads.

We are all different,all couples are different, and all scenarios are different.

None are 'right' none are 'wrong' just enjoy them for what they are and what you make them.

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

dunno what your talking about Ring Wrath. The OP was complaining of assumptions of cuck rels always having a bi connotation .. all ive met is bi cucks for the most so cant really agree. Nice to know theres exceptions though

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By *ypnoprincessCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Most of my friends in this kind of relationship label it as a D/s relationship if they have to label it, I just see it as their relationships and it's fun all round everyone is happy

Just go with the flow and make your rules clear

Sj

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are many different scenario's to cuckolding, i think these guys seem to get their ideas about cuckolding from xhamster

which guys?"
sorry wasn't haven't a go at you, but i think alot of guys(including husbands) see whats on xhamster and it get their minds ticking hence the bi stuff, having said that if everybodies having fun that great i don't have a problem with what consenting adults do with each other, i,d just like to make the point that they are so many different aspects to cuckolding

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've never met a cuck couple with a bi cuck. Most of the fun I've had has nearly always been in Domme/sub scenarios and others have simply been wife sharing or just wife watching.

All of them have been about making sure wife is satisfied and everyone has had fun....going with flow in scenes that everyone is happy with.

It's all about mutual fun and pleasure at the end of the day with a good time had by all. Happy days .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hi I've got to agree with shag - athlete

I consider myself straight and still do now but when I was married I was orally bi to her bull

It's a very confusing situation being a cuck Or even an x cuck in my case

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"there are many different scenario's to cuckolding, i think these guys seem to get their ideas about cuckolding from xhamster "

Angel

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead


"From a string of recent messages in our inbox it seems a lot of guys on here seem to be operating on the incorrect assumption that a cuckold is always bi. Speaking only for myself I'd very much like to set the record straight on that one right now and say that is 100% wrong.

I also wonder if some straight guys looking at a profile that mentions cuckolding are being put off by it?

Yes, some cuckolds are bi, but for us as a couple it's all about dominance and submission and certainly not about me being involved with guy. In fact I am not allowed any physical contact with her when she's playing.

Any not sure if that counts as a mini-rant or not but just wanted to try and get this point across. Wonder if it will provoke many replies? Who knows."

I have been the bull in a couple of situations and on both these occasions the cuck has not sucked me, though he has been made to clean her up by licking my come from her body. The question of them intervening to play/touch/suck with me has never been raised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am a female cuck and its all about the humiliation for me also I am not allowed to touch or be touched (my own preference) he has tried to encourage me into being active and involved but this turns it into a 3sum in my eyes where as when im cucked it can be drawn out for days before I'm given relief ah just the thought of it gets me twitchy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a female cuck and its all about the humiliation for me also I am not allowed to touch or be touched (my own preference) he has tried to encourage me into being active and involved but this turns it into a 3sum in my eyes where as when im cucked it can be drawn out for days before I'm given relief ah just the thought of it gets me twitchy "

"Twitchy" is such the right word. Can I ask if, as a cuck, you stay in character as it were for a period before/after a meet or is a total life style choice?

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By *idsmixedcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I am a female cuck and its all about the humiliation for me also I am not allowed to touch or be touched (my own preference) he has tried to encourage me into being active and involved but this turns it into a 3sum in my eyes where as when im cucked it can be drawn out for days before I'm given relief ah just the thought of it gets me twitchy "

Interesting, have never met a female cuck before

I've been in cuckold situations a couple of times, not with my partner as a cuck, but watching him as the bull with the other hubby the cuck, and also had a guy pretend to be my hubby and watch me with a guy, but have never seen any bi action or had it suggested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a female cuck and its all about the humiliation for me also I am not allowed to touch or be touched (my own preference) he has tried to encourage me into being active and involved but this turns it into a 3sum in my eyes where as when im cucked it can be drawn out for days before I'm given relief ah just the thought of it gets me twitchy

"Twitchy" is such the right word. Can I ask if, as a cuck, you stay in character as it were for a period before/after a meet or is a total life style choice?"
I can stay in character for a few days after it carries over to a sub thing lol its hard to explain!! I found I was cuck after he cheated when I found out I was torn between the anger and total horniness!! The horn won over and he was shocked when I begged for all the details

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By *idsmixedcplCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands


"I am a female cuck and its all about the humiliation for me also I am not allowed to touch or be touched (my own preference) he has tried to encourage me into being active and involved but this turns it into a 3sum in my eyes where as when im cucked it can be drawn out for days before I'm given relief ah just the thought of it gets me twitchy

"Twitchy" is such the right word. Can I ask if, as a cuck, you stay in character as it were for a period before/after a meet or is a total life style choice? I can stay in character for a few days after it carries over to a sub thing lol its hard to explain!! I found I was cuck after he cheated when I found out I was torn between the anger and total horniness!! The horn won over and he was shocked when I begged for all the details "

I bet he was thrilled to be out of the dog house, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am a female cuck and its all about the humiliation for me also I am not allowed to touch or be touched (my own preference) he has tried to encourage me into being active and involved but this turns it into a 3sum in my eyes where as when im cucked it can be drawn out for days before I'm given relief ah just the thought of it gets me twitchy

"Twitchy" is such the right word. Can I ask if, as a cuck, you stay in character as it were for a period before/after a meet or is a total life style choice? I can stay in character for a few days after it carries over to a sub thing lol its hard to explain!! I found I was cuck after he cheated when I found out I was torn between the anger and total horniness!! The horn won over and he was shocked when I begged for all the details

I bet he was thrilled to be out of the dog house, lol"
he was shocked and confused lol we have very strict rules with it now tho x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I am a female cuck and its all about the humiliation for me also I am not allowed to touch or be touched (my own preference) he has tried to encourage me into being active and involved but this turns it into a 3sum in my eyes where as when im cucked it can be drawn out for days before I'm given relief ah just the thought of it gets me twitchy

"Twitchy" is such the right word. Can I ask if, as a cuck, you stay in character as it were for a period before/after a meet or is a total life style choice? I can stay in character for a few days after it carries over to a sub thing lol its hard to explain!! I found I was cuck after he cheated when I found out I was torn between the anger and total horniness!! The horn won over and he was shocked when I begged for all the details

I bet he was thrilled to be out of the dog house, lol he was shocked and confused lol we have very strict rules with it now tho x"

Yes, we have rules we have both set to make sure this lifestyle works for us.

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