FabSwingers.com forum: name and shame

By *ifeANDhusband OP Couple
over a year ago

walsall

does anyone else think fab should put a name and shame topic on here? to eliminate timewasters,men pretending to be women or couples? sick of the idiots that spoil it for the genuine ones,what do people think?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure. Because that totally wouldn't get abused or turn into one long awful slanging match. Just block the time wasters, report them, and move on.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Only if I can start with (example for demonstrative purposes only) you, OP, and how much you wasted my time and broke all your promises to me.

See how easy it is to just tell lies?

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I don't agree

It would be abused, if someone is spiteful or dislikes another member whats to stop them from doing this.

I appreciate its frustrating when people mess you about, but if they genuinely waste your time then report and block them.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Also hard to differentiate between a time waster and someone who changes their mind

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

No because it is wide open to abuse and people getting named and shamed when they have done nothing wrong.I lost count of the times I was told I was fake because I told people I didn't want to meet or chat to them.

Fakes are easily spotted anyhow usually.As for timewasters it depends on people's definition of one,everyone has different ideas on what one is on here. That is also open to abuse tho so no I don't believe naming and shaming should be allowed.

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By *histle79Man
over a year ago

Guildford

Too open to abuse. Lots of time it’s very subjective.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

I shame myself, I do and thats what really hurts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good point on mind changing. Ive bailed on one meet because their conduct on the run up put me off totally. Time waster? Nope. My body, my choice.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Good point on mind changing. Ive bailed on one meet because their conduct on the run up put me off totally. Time waster? Nope. My body, my choice. "

Exactly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because who is to know you are telling the truth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I shame myself, I do and thats what really hurts"

Well that's stuck in my head now. Not had that album on for a few years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sure. Because that totally wouldn't get abused or turn into one long awful slanging match. Just block the time wasters, report them, and move on. "

This.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point on mind changing. Ive bailed on one meet because their conduct on the run up put me off totally. Time waster? Nope. My body, my choice.

Exactly

Lovely profile by the way.

enjoying the pics.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

The only timewasters I've ever come across on here are those who don't read my profile and are therefore wasting their own time.

What would be gained from naming and shaming others?

People would be named and shamed in a broadbrush approach for all manner of stupid reasons and the forums would be full of threads by people having to defend themselves unnecessarily.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good point on mind changing. Ive bailed on one meet because their conduct on the run up put me off totally. Time waster? Nope. My body, my choice. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"does anyone else think fab should put a name and shame topic on here? to eliminate timewasters,men pretending to be women or couples? sick of the idiots that spoil it for the genuine ones,what do people think?"

No, I think that is a childish thing to do and the thread would be open to abuse with names being put out there that shouldn't be. If someone does a no show with me or is not nice in messages then I just move on, yes a no show peeves me off but there could be lots of genuine reasons behind this.

Acceptance of what has happened, brush it off and move on.

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By *ifeANDhusband OP Couple
over a year ago

walsall

good reasons i suppose

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

I sort of don't blame singles for getting upset with no-shows and fakes etc., but as a couple, you've still got each other to enjoy the time with.

You seem very angry and frustrated OP, perhaps you're taking this place a bit too seriously?

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By *he Queen of TartsWoman
Forum Mod
over a year ago

My Own Little World

It is against site rules to name n shame, either on the forums, profile or status.

And having a section on the forums is just asking for trouble.

So just report and block and let Admin deal with it.

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