FabSwingers.com forum: Playing away

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Why is it that blokes playing away on here get slammed but nothing is said about the ladies?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that blokes playing away on here get slammed but nothing is said about the ladies?"

Ladies get slammed too.. I play with married men.. despite being cheated on personally.. as sorry but selfish as it sounds.. I really dont care what someones reasons are.. I do things for my reasons.

Cali

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By *edangel_2013Woman
over a year ago

southend

Women do get slammed, they just don't advertise it as often as men do.

Men will often post "why am I getting no meets?" Sometimes they are married, and that leads to the "you are cheating, not swinging." Women rarely ever post they are not getting meets, so rarely ever get slated.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why is it that blokes playing away on here get slammed but nothing is said about the ladies?

Ladies get slammed too.. I play with married men.. despite being cheated on personally.. as sorry but selfish as it sounds.. I really dont care what someones reasons are.. I do things for my reasons.

We all have our reasons that's why I'm on here and I have had a few really amazing meets and am looking for more.

Cali"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Probably because there are so many more blokes doing it than women ?

And because there are so many less women on here than men , slagging them off further alienates one from possible meets ?

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

I give exactly the same answer to both sexes, always have & always will.

if in a relationship... put it on your profile and that allows others to make an informed choice.

but I do dislike it when the justification for being here is placed on the shoulders of the absent partners, they don't give me enough sex, they do this & they do that blah, blah blah..... you're here, just do what you are here to do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Probably because there are so many more blokes doing it than women ?

And because there are so many less women on here than men , slagging them off further alienates one from possible meets ?

Good point, I'd never slag anyone off. Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it that blokes playing away on here get slammed but nothing is said about the ladies?"

I have heard plenty of negative things said about the ladies too.

As for being 'slammed' then if you have a broad enough back to be here and be honest about your personal situation, then your back should also be broad enough to take any flak that arises out of that honesty.

Despite the flak, I do believe that the majority will respect your honesty if not your reasons or motives for being here.

By being honest, it allows others to make a call on whether they would meet someone in your position.

The wider problem on how married men in general are portrayed is that many hide behind the 'single' tag thinking that is enough for them to get away with it.

What they fail to realise is that the more seasoned swingers are wily buggers and know exactly how to look further and trip up the chancers.

So carry on being honest, accept that flak is going to be received and concentrate on the positives this site offers, not the negatives.

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Every Saturday up and down the country loads of football teams "play away" . They dont get slated on here,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty it doesn't bother me whether u r married or not thats up to you however it is easier to arrange to meet a genuinely single guy than a married one. they can accomodate, can answer their phone and generally have more free time!

L xx

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