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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Love hearing and reading single guys at parties or clubs complaining about the lack of action, here is a heads up fellas, just because a woman is at a party doesn't mean your guaranteed any action, single guy moaning to me it cost him £70 for the evening and he hadn't gotten any! Heads up maybe go over and talk to a single lady or couple, attempt a conversation, make some complimentary remarks and be genuine and you will increase your chances ten fold, think of it this way, that woman may be there to have fun but think of the guy as well, would you just let anyone jump in your car, rag the shit out of it and throw you the keys back after? Show some respect it will get you a lot more action and respect.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

I totally understand about the ranting about cost & expecting something in return

But the lack of respect certainly isn't isolated to single guys, my two worst experiences in clubs both involved couples

The first in a Hottub the guy kept trying to insert his toes inside me, once I pushed his foot away, second time I made eye contact mouthed no & pushed his foot away again & the third time I told him to fuck off - I was discreet the first time out of respect to his wife who may not of been aware of his inappropriateness, I shouldn't of bothered because she promptly told me it's not her husbands fault I'm a frigid bitch who should perhaps rethink going to clubs if I didn't want to be touched

The second incident a guy grabbed my boobs when I pushed his hands away & told him to get off, his wife waved from across the room and shouted 'oh don't mind him he's my husband, boobs are he's thing, he's ok to touch them he's not one of those creepy single guys'

& I'm sure you also get disrespectful women, there's good & bad in all groups but from personal experience it's the couples I'm more weary of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally understand about the ranting about cost & expecting something in return

But the lack of respect certainly isn't isolated to single guys, my two worst experiences in clubs both involved couples

The first in a Hottub the guy kept trying to insert his toes inside me, once I pushed his foot away, second time I made eye contact mouthed no & pushed his foot away again & the third time I told him to fuck off - I was discreet the first time out of respect to his wife who may not of been aware of his inappropriateness, I shouldn't of bothered because she promptly told me it's not her husbands fault I'm a frigid bitch who should perhaps rethink going to clubs if I didn't want to be touched

The second incident a guy grabbed my boobs when I pushed his hands away & told him to get off, his wife waved from across the room and shouted 'oh don't mind him he's my husband, boobs are he's thing, he's ok to touch them he's not one of those creepy single guys'

& I'm sure you also get disrespectful women, there's good & bad in all groups but from personal experience it's the couples I'm more weary of "

well said .... any bad night's at clubs for us has been down to the male half of couples thinking they are entitled to everything or d*unk women .... also any man paying £70 to get in a club is off there rocker price will always be hi if you keep paying silly price vote with your feet .... i totally disagree with free entry for women too ....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems so many forget the art of conversation, just because it's a club for like minded people doesn't mean it's sex on tap, you need to work at getting to know someone first.

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By *urulovesnylonMan
over a year ago

Harrow

As a single male I never go to any meets or parties with the assumption I’m going to get some. If I was paying to go to a club just to get laid I’d be stupid. Without sounding crude if it was just sex then at £70 there plenty of escorts available. My view about clubs is all about having fun meeting like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather just bang for free its not difficult

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"I totally understand about the ranting about cost & expecting something in return

But the lack of respect certainly isn't isolated to single guys, my two worst experiences in clubs both involved couples

The first in a Hottub the guy kept trying to insert his toes inside me, once I pushed his foot away, second time I made eye contact mouthed no & pushed his foot away again & the third time I told him to fuck off - I was discreet the first time out of respect to his wife who may not of been aware of his inappropriateness, I shouldn't of bothered because she promptly told me it's not her husbands fault I'm a frigid bitch who should perhaps rethink going to clubs if I didn't want to be touched

The second incident a guy grabbed my boobs when I pushed his hands away & told him to get off, his wife waved from across the room and shouted 'oh don't mind him he's my husband, boobs are he's thing, he's ok to touch them he's not one of those creepy single guys'

& I'm sure you also get disrespectful women, there's good & bad in all groups but from personal experience it's the couples I'm more weary of "

I don't know which is worse here; the hubby thinking it was ok to just grab your boobs in the first place, or his wife shouting over to confirm she was ok with him doing that, and then saying "at least he's not one of those creepy single guys"

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By *ello HarveyMan
over a year ago

Lots of places


"I totally understand about the ranting about cost & expecting something in return

But the lack of respect certainly isn't isolated to single guys, my two worst experiences in clubs both involved couples

The first in a Hottub the guy kept trying to insert his toes inside me, once I pushed his foot away, second time I made eye contact mouthed no & pushed his foot away again & the third time I told him to fuck off - I was discreet the first time out of respect to his wife who may not of been aware of his inappropriateness, I shouldn't of bothered because she promptly told me it's not her husbands fault I'm a frigid bitch who should perhaps rethink going to clubs if I didn't want to be touched

The second incident a guy grabbed my boobs when I pushed his hands away & told him to get off, his wife waved from across the room and shouted 'oh don't mind him he's my husband, boobs are he's thing, he's ok to touch them he's not one of those creepy single guys'

& I'm sure you also get disrespectful women, there's good & bad in all groups but from personal experience it's the couples I'm more weary of "

I don’t know why but you likening fucking the wife to ragging. A car and throwing the keys back just made me snort my drink out

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By *ello HarveyMan
over a year ago

Lots of places

Just to add, when I go to clubs it’s always, always for the social side. Any play is an added benefit, zero expectations

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"I totally understand about the ranting about cost & expecting something in return

But the lack of respect certainly isn't isolated to single guys, my two worst experiences in clubs both involved couples

The first in a Hottub the guy kept trying to insert his toes inside me, once I pushed his foot away, second time I made eye contact mouthed no & pushed his foot away again & the third time I told him to fuck off - I was discreet the first time out of respect to his wife who may not of been aware of his inappropriateness, I shouldn't of bothered because she promptly told me it's not her husbands fault I'm a frigid bitch who should perhaps rethink going to clubs if I didn't want to be touched

The second incident a guy grabbed my boobs when I pushed his hands away & told him to get off, his wife waved from across the room and shouted 'oh don't mind him he's my husband, boobs are he's thing, he's ok to touch them he's not one of those creepy single guys'

& I'm sure you also get disrespectful women, there's good & bad in all groups but from personal experience it's the couples I'm more weary of

I don’t know why but you likening fucking the wife to ragging. A car and throwing the keys back just made me snort my drink out "

I'd pay £70 to see a crimestoppers type reenactment of the hot tub incident. And then I'd complain about having to pay £70 to see it. Then a segment on the dangers of toe fucking in hot tubs

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"Love hearing and reading single guys at parties or clubs complaining about the lack of action, here is a heads up fellas, just because a woman is at a party doesn't mean your guaranteed any action, single guy moaning to me it cost him £70 for the evening and he hadn't gotten any! Heads up maybe go over and talk to a single lady or couple, attempt a conversation, make some complimentary remarks and be genuine and you will increase your chances ten fold, think of it this way, that woman may be there to have fun but think of the guy as well, would you just let anyone jump in your car, rag the shit out of it and throw you the keys back Show some respect it will get you a lot more action and respect."

I've noticed that at clubs alot of people are clearly preoccupied with what is being said by single guys to the point where they are not engaging with who they are with. Not wanting to come across patronising but listen to who you are with, engage, ask questions and make them feel comfortable and they will feel respected.

As for the letting anyone just jump in your car analogy your being quite dismissive of the hardcore dogging brigade.

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By *izequeenCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

single guys are awesome and you don't need to spend £70 just a cheap bottle of wine and a bag of Haribo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A tip for everyone because I’ve heard from both sides. I think it’s also worth bearing in mind whether you pay a lot or not to get into a club/event, nothing is guaranteed. You are going to a social and if anything else happens it’s a bonus…

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"A tip for everyone because I’ve heard from both sides. I think it’s also worth bearing in mind whether you pay a lot or not to get into a club/event, nothing is guaranteed. You are going to a social and if anything else happens it’s a bonus… "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love hearing and reading single guys at parties or clubs complaining about the lack of action, here is a heads up fellas, just because a woman is at a party doesn't mean your guaranteed any action, single guy moaning to me it cost him £70 for the evening and he hadn't gotten any! Heads up maybe go over and talk to a single lady or couple, attempt a conversation, make some complimentary remarks and be genuine and you will increase your chances ten fold, think of it this way, that woman may be there to have fun but think of the guy as well, would you just let anyone jump in your car, rag the shit out of it and throw you the keys back after? Show some respect it will get you a lot more action and respect."

Likely the party 'host' told the men they were guaranteed a fuck for their £70. We've been to clubs and parties where we heard the host say this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally understand about the ranting about cost & expecting something in return

But the lack of respect certainly isn't isolated to single guys, my two worst experiences in clubs both involved couples

The first in a Hottub the guy kept trying to insert his toes inside me, once I pushed his foot away, second time I made eye contact mouthed no & pushed his foot away again & the third time I told him to fuck off - I was discreet the first time out of respect to his wife who may not of been aware of his inappropriateness, I shouldn't of bothered because she promptly told me it's not her husbands fault I'm a frigid bitch who should perhaps rethink going to clubs if I didn't want to be touched

The second incident a guy grabbed my boobs when I pushed his hands away & told him to get off, his wife waved from across the room and shouted 'oh don't mind him he's my husband, boobs are he's thing, he's ok to touch them he's not one of those creepy single guys'

& I'm sure you also get disrespectful women, there's good & bad in all groups but from personal experience it's the couples I'm more weary of "

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"Love hearing and reading single guys at parties or clubs complaining about the lack of action, here is a heads up fellas, just because a woman is at a party doesn't mean your guaranteed any action, single guy moaning to me it cost him £70 for the evening and he hadn't gotten any! Heads up maybe go over and talk to a single lady or couple, attempt a conversation, make some complimentary remarks and be genuine and you will increase your chances ten fold, think of it this way, that woman may be there to have fun but think of the guy as well, would you just let anyone jump in your car, rag the shit out of it and throw you the keys back after? Show some respect it will get you a lot more action and respect."

Better idea . What single men need to do is adopt the same approach for they do on the website Which has yielded them great success. They need to stand outside the entrance so they don't have to pay entrance fee don't say anything and have a sign round the neck that says 'anyone up for a fuck' and an arrow pointing down to there exposed cock that you didnt want to see but had no choice. Maybe up to 100 women will see not once but twice on the way out end of night.

Course in a year's time will have to endure this post ' Single females and couples id welcome any advice on my cardboard cut sign and how I can improve it. Ive stood outside this club for a year. Always be respectful I've put in the hard graft I don't understand Why get blanked.

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By *eard-lincolnMan
over a year ago

near lincoln

I rarely have sex at clubs, but use them as a tool to make friends and then have meet ups after. Made so many friends just meeting in the club scene.

I spend most of my time in the bar areas as not overly bothered about watching others having sex.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Love hearing and reading single guys at parties or clubs complaining about the lack of action, here is a heads up fellas, just because a woman is at a party doesn't mean your guaranteed any action, single guy moaning to me it cost him £70 for the evening and he hadn't gotten any! Heads up maybe go over and talk to a single lady or couple, attempt a conversation, make some complimentary remarks and be genuine and you will increase your chances ten fold, think of it this way, that woman may be there to have fun but think of the guy as well, would you just let anyone jump in your car, rag the shit out of it and throw you the keys back after? Show some respect it will get you a lot more action and respect.

Better idea . What single men need to do is adopt the same approach for they do on the website Which has yielded them great success. They need to stand outside the entrance so they don't have to pay entrance fee don't say anything and have a sign round the neck that says 'anyone up for a fuck' and an arrow pointing down to there exposed cock that you didnt want to see but had no choice. Maybe up to 100 women will see not once but twice on the way out end of night.

Course in a year's time will have to endure this post ' Single females and couples id welcome any advice on my cardboard cut sign and how I can improve it. Ive stood outside this club for a year. Always be respectful I've put in the hard graft I don't understand Why get blanked. "

To be fair mate; I can think of two clubs I've walked out of, and been asked by blokes hanging round outside "Any women in mate?", and I've replied "Why do you think I'm leaving at this time?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love hearing and reading single guys at parties or clubs complaining about the lack of action, here is a heads up fellas, just because a woman is at a party doesn't mean your guaranteed any action, single guy moaning to me it cost him £70 for the evening and he hadn't gotten any! Heads up maybe go over and talk to a single lady or couple, attempt a conversation, make some complimentary remarks and be genuine and you will increase your chances ten fold, think of it this way, that woman may be there to have fun but think of the guy as well, would you just let anyone jump in your car, rag the shit out of it and throw you the keys back after? Show some respect it will get you a lot more action and respect.

Better idea . What single men need to do is adopt the same approach for they do on the website Which has yielded them great success. They need to stand outside the entrance so they don't have to pay entrance fee don't say anything and have a sign round the neck that says 'anyone up for a fuck' and an arrow pointing down to there exposed cock that you didnt want to see but had no choice. Maybe up to 100 women will see not once but twice on the way out end of night.

Course in a year's time will have to endure this post ' Single females and couples id welcome any advice on my cardboard cut sign and how I can improve it. Ive stood outside this club for a year. Always be respectful I've put in the hard graft I don't understand Why get blanked.

To be fair mate; I can think of two clubs I've walked out of, and been asked by blokes hanging round outside "Any women in mate?", and I've replied "Why do you think I'm leaving at this time?" "

You should say there's loads of women but no men so you fucked them all and now off home to recover... and the women already left very satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love hearing and reading single guys at parties or clubs complaining about the lack of action, here is a heads up fellas, just because a woman is at a party doesn't mean your guaranteed any action, single guy moaning to me it cost him £70 for the evening and he hadn't gotten any! Heads up maybe go over and talk to a single lady or couple, attempt a conversation, make some complimentary remarks and be genuine and you will increase your chances ten fold, think of it this way, that woman may be there to have fun but think of the guy as well, would you just let anyone jump in your car, rag the shit out of it and throw you the keys back after? Show some respect it will get you a lot more action and respect.

Better idea . What single men need to do is adopt the same approach for they do on the website Which has yielded them great success. They need to stand outside the entrance so they don't have to pay entrance fee don't say anything and have a sign round the neck that says 'anyone up for a fuck' and an arrow pointing down to there exposed cock that you didnt want to see but had no choice. Maybe up to 100 women will see not once but twice on the way out end of night.

Course in a year's time will have to endure this post ' Single females and couples id welcome any advice on my cardboard cut sign and how I can improve it. Ive stood outside this club for a year. Always be respectful I've put in the hard graft I don't understand Why get blanked. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never brought dogging into it, something we have no intention of getting involved in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Never brought dogging into it, something we have no intention of getting involved in"

Who chose your profile name?

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Love hearing and reading single guys at parties or clubs complaining about the lack of action, here is a heads up fellas, just because a woman is at a party doesn't mean your guaranteed any action, single guy moaning to me it cost him £70 for the evening and he hadn't gotten any! Heads up maybe go over and talk to a single lady or couple, attempt a conversation, make some complimentary remarks and be genuine and you will increase your chances ten fold, think of it this way, that woman may be there to have fun but think of the guy as well, would you just let anyone jump in your car, rag the shit out of it and throw you the keys back after? Show some respect it will get you a lot more action and respect.

Better idea . What single men need to do is adopt the same approach for they do on the website Which has yielded them great success. They need to stand outside the entrance so they don't have to pay entrance fee don't say anything and have a sign round the neck that says 'anyone up for a fuck' and an arrow pointing down to there exposed cock that you didnt want to see but had no choice. Maybe up to 100 women will see not once but twice on the way out end of night.

Course in a year's time will have to endure this post ' Single females and couples id welcome any advice on my cardboard cut sign and how I can improve it. Ive stood outside this club for a year. Always be respectful I've put in the hard graft I don't understand Why get blanked.

To be fair mate; I can think of two clubs I've walked out of, and been asked by blokes hanging round outside "Any women in mate?", and I've replied "Why do you think I'm leaving at this time?"

You should say there's loads of women but no men so you fucked them all and now off home to recover... and the women already left very satisfied. "

Maybe in a parallel universe it might be believed there was a club with loads of women in it, but no men....

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"Never brought dogging into it, something we have no intention of getting involved in"

Yea, i know. I brought it in. Wasn't being serious...or funny and clever as it transpires

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By *anny197097Man
over a year ago

knob Creek

Bloody hell OP

You should try being a single guy in a club who politely turns down an offer from the female of the couple..

Then get the guy from the couple and his friends give you a mouthful of abuse, saying I should be lucky as a single guy because we’re 10 a Penny and shouldn’t refuse a woman..

Guys I’m sure are guilty of some bad behaviour in clubs, but couples are much worse in my experience!!

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

Well said. £70 is a joke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always have fun at parties you got to be a gentleman and take your time just FYI lol

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way


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& I'm sure you also get disrespectful women, there's good & bad in all groups but from personal experience it's the couples I'm more weary of "

This to be honest, had way worse experiences with couples. Particularly the male half thinking having a partner means he can do whatever he likes.

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I'm sure there are a lot of couples that go to clubs thinking they hold all the keys as to who, what, how and when they want fun and if it doesn't go the way they want it to they get pissed off, just the same as a single female would. There should be conversations and attractions before any sex, unless the person just wants/needs a quick shag. Female and couples are just as guilty as some guys are. I know females that go out with only a £5 on them and expect the guys to pay for them all night and wonder why they get called names etc at the end of the night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"single guys are awesome and you don't need to spend £70 just a cheap bottle of wine and a bag of Haribo "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I totally understand about the ranting about cost & expecting something in return

But the lack of respect certainly isn't isolated to single guys, my two worst experiences in clubs both involved couples

The first in a Hottub the guy kept trying to insert his toes inside me, once I pushed his foot away, second time I made eye contact mouthed no & pushed his foot away again & the third time I told him to fuck off - I was discreet the first time out of respect to his wife who may not of been aware of his inappropriateness, I shouldn't of bothered because she promptly told me it's not her husbands fault I'm a frigid bitch who should perhaps rethink going to clubs if I didn't want to be touched

The second incident a guy grabbed my boobs when I pushed his hands away & told him to get off, his wife waved from across the room and shouted 'oh don't mind him he's my husband, boobs are he's thing, he's ok to touch them he's not one of those creepy single guys'

& I'm sure you also get disrespectful women, there's good & bad in all groups but from personal experience it's the couples I'm more weary of "

U deserve a medal. Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

With regards to the £70 that wasn't the price for admittance to the club that was supposedly his total outlay for the evening but as previously stated for that he could have probably got several knee trembles off some lady of the night or crack whore lol

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By *hancer666Man
over a year ago

Redbourn


"With regards to the £70 that wasn't the price for admittance to the club that was supposedly his total outlay for the evening but as previously stated for that he could have probably got several knee trembles off some lady of the night or crack whore lol"

Frankly a conversation two people had, away from fab.com should have remained in the club. Point can be made without the need to share any of the conversation, which we only had one person's edited highlight excerpt.

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