FabSwingers.com forum: desperate desperate people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Can never work out these people who say their looking for anything and anyone.

Dont people have standards anymore. Mean everyone is up for fun, and everybody must have morals and at least a little bit of self respect. Whats with these people aswell who ask what will we be doing when we meet, erm what are they expecting to be playing bingo and watching tele with a cup of tea eating biscuits.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

the second you understand the minds of the population of this place, write it all down... you will get your PhD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can never work out these people who say their looking for anything and anyone.

How other people choose to enjoy their sex life is of no business to me, if they choose to shag a 99 yr old, their choice....

Also well some meets are social ones, it is not all about the "fucking"

Your post is very contradictory

If you have standards and are not desperate, if you met someone and there was no spark, are you still going to shag them and not play bingo instead?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I would rather play bingo to be honest and bingo is boring, unless you win of course

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes agree, there are some strange people around

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I play in cinemas I only have one standard and that's for them not to smell. Okay two as they have to be hard.

Doesn't make me desperate. Just what I want at that time.

Cali

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Some of these people don't understand quite what anything and everything means on a site like this...

I like to give them a wake up! Especially when asked what the kinkiest thing is I've tried.

I was very open minded and sexually adventurous in my twenties and early thirties and sampled a wide variety of activities which I would not do twice. So I have a fair repertoire to choose from!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Interesting post cali , looking at your profile you are only interested in a specific age range so you have set limits. So no it doesnt make you desperate, you get people stating 18 to 99 on their profile. People can be attracted to people of any age i agree but when was the last time you knew somebody who had the hots for a 90 year old pensioner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes but in a club my age range doesn't matter. As I rarely even look up past the cock.

I do like when people tell me they will do anything I say.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

You have got a valid point there cali, not much i can say to that really.

Can tell by your pictures your a very greedy girl.

I like it when a woman tells me what to do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have never once thought that people who have the age range 18-99 year olds actually wanrt to do so, I just assume that they haven't bothered to tick that box. Why do people have to take things quite so literally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I haven't ticked that box, because i don't want to set a hard limit,

with the righ person age is irrelavant, AND just because somebody is within a preset age range wouldn't mean I'd meet them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Interesting post cali , looking at your profile you are only interested in a specific age range so you have set limits. So no it doesnt make you desperate, you get people stating 18 to 99 on their profile. People can be attracted to people of any age i agree but when was the last time you knew somebody who had the hots for a 90 year old pensioner "

Wayne rooney

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think people take alot of comments on here to literal

When i read things like

looking for any age

looks not important

etc

i read into that they dont have a set type and they find attraction in people of verious ages and sizes

not they will fuck anything

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wayne rooney, thats a classic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can never work out these people who say their looking for anything and anyone.

I agree with the first point as in I can't understand people not having some kind of standards, though I don't let it bother me as its their business and I'm far too busy having my own fun!

As for the second though its a fair question. Sure some form of sex will be taking place unless its a social meet. But what kind of fantasy is being acted out upon? Any surprises? Any particular kinks being satisfied? Or on a more basic scale preferred positions? Clothing? The list goes on and most prospective meets would be a little curious I'd have thought, unless they lack imagination and merely want a shag any old way...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Somebody please define standard for me?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Somebody please define standard for me?"

A standard is merely that someone has a perimeter of people they would actually fuck.

It can vary depending upon the person and their tastes.

But someone who states simply that they'd shag anyone implies that they have no such boundaries...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Somebody please define standard for me?

A standard is merely that someone has a perimeter of people they would actually fuck.

It can vary depending upon the person and their tastes.

But someone who states simply that they'd shag anyone implies that they have no such boundaries..."
Thanks - I was quite curious as to how anybody would set a universal "standard" - as it is all about individual choices, likes, dislikes and about how how many compromises they are prepared to make to play?

I mean, don't get me wrong, I have a number of "deal breakers" in terms of who I would meet and play with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Somebody please define standard for me?

A standard is merely that someone has a perimeter of people they would actually fuck.

It can vary depending upon the person and their tastes.

But someone who states simply that they'd shag anyone implies that they have no such boundaries...Thanks - I was quite curious as to how anybody would set a universal "standard" - as it is all about individual choices, likes, dislikes and about how how many compromises they are prepared to make to play?

I mean, don't get me wrong, I have a number of "deal breakers" in terms of who I would meet and play with. "

I never supposed anything but. A woman of your undoubted quality would be able to be selective regarding the folk she chooses to pleasure her...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone has their own standards

If i met a guy and shagged him that someone else thought was ugly that does not mean i have no standards, it just means my tastes are different to theirs

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By *bbandflowCouple
over a year ago

South Devon

"Somebody please define standard for me?

A standard is merely that someone has a perimeter of people they would actually fuck.

It can vary depending upon the person and their tastes.

But someone who states simply that they'd shag anyone implies that they have no such boundaries..."

That's still a standard..though not to every ones taste

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"Somebody please define standard for me?

A standard is merely that someone has a perimeter of people they would actually fuck.

It can vary depending upon the person and their tastes.

I mean, don't get me wrong, I have a number of "deal breakers" in terms of who I would meet and play with.

I never supposed anything but. A woman of your undoubted quality would be able to be selective regarding the folk she chooses to pleasure her..."
Thank you

I was also really interested and I am not sure if I am expressing it correctly... Suppose somebody has an age range of 18 to 25 or 40 to 45 or 50 to 55 or whatever... they would be considered fussy?

At what point does an age range (and that is just one example) make a person desperate?

Some people say 18 to 99 is desperate as it is the widest. (Now to me that just means they are not bothered about age)

But for those who do feel it shows somebody is desperate... at what age range do they become desperate and at what range are they still fussy?

Am I making sense lol?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My standards change depending on what im doing and where i am

In real life the type of men i go for are totally different to the type of men i look for on here, simply because what id call my real type is few and far between on here

what im looking for in a guy on a private meets is different to what im looking for in a guy in a club

when i meet someone privately there needs to be a mental and physical attraction, if im spending time talking to and looking at them i need to like what i see and who im with

In clubs if i go in a open room, i just want a shag and to be honest so long as they dont smell and arnt overly old or fat i will play with them, again not because i have no stanfards but because at that time my requirements are different to on 1 on 1 meets and in clubs where most of the time you just shag and go without asking their name does it really matter if they are less than perfect in your eyes

for me different situations require different people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"the second you understand the minds of the population of this place, write it all down... you will get your PhD"

From Sydney University?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Somebody please define standard for me?

A standard is merely that someone has a perimeter of people they would actually fuck.

It can vary depending upon the person and their tastes.

I mean, don't get me wrong, I have a number of "deal breakers" in terms of who I would meet and play with.

I never supposed anything but. A woman of your undoubted quality would be able to be selective regarding the folk she chooses to pleasure her...Thank you

I was also really interested and I am not sure if I am expressing it correctly... Suppose somebody has an age range of 18 to 25 or 40 to 45 or 50 to 55 or whatever... they would be considered fussy?

At what point does an age range (and that is just one example) make a person desperate?

Some people say 18 to 99 is desperate as it is the widest. (Now to me that just means they are not bothered about age)

But for those who do feel it shows somebody is desperate... at what age range do they become desperate and at what range are they still fussy?

Am I making sense lol? "

I think the earlier poster who mentioned ages gave possibly a poor example of a chosen standard compared to some, though people do still use them.

I think attitude, intellect, sense of adventure and whether someone is fanciable to me is a far more important than age.

For example there's some women of sixty I'd much rather enjoy fucking than some my own age. Helen Mirren is one example. Or someone like Selena Scott who has accepted aging happens and while making an effort with her appearance, doesn't attempt to disguise her age (why be ashamed of it, it merely relates to how long you have been on the planet and its one thing no one can avoid) Likewise there's women of nineteen who I find more appealing than some thirty-five year olds too.

Granted there's probably no ninety-five year olds I'd find sexually attractive, but I don't imagine there's too many of them about on here anyway...

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"My standards change depending on what im doing and where i am

In real life the type of men i go for are totally different to the type of men i look for on here, simply because what id call my real type is few and far between on here

what im looking for in a guy on a private meets is different to what im looking for in a guy in a club

when i meet someone privately there needs to be a mental and physical attraction, if im spending time talking to and looking at them i need to like what i see and who im with

for me different situations require different people"
Actually that is such a good point and yeah, you are right, in real life outside the scene I would probably be looking for something different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive played with many really young guys in clubs, i would never meet a 19/20 year old on a private meet and i deffo wouldnt go out with someone that age away from swinging, but i will in clubs

is that dropping standards?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

"ive played with many really young guys in clubs, i would never meet a 19/20 year old on a private meet and i deffo wouldnt go out with someone that age away from swinging, but i will in clubs

is that dropping standards? "
Not at all, you are not dropping standards in my _iew... you are choosing what suits in a given situation! A bit like having some friends to go cycling/ walking etc with... and others to see a play/ opera/ concert...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes but in a club my age range doesn't matter. As I rarely even look up past the cock.

I do like when people tell me they will do anything I say.

I would say that to you

Cali"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people take alot of comments on here to literal

When i read things like

looking for any age

looks not important

etc

i read into that they dont have a set type and they find attraction in people of verious ages and sizes

not they will fuck anything"

I totally agree, that's how I interpret those statements too, that they don't have a set criteria. People are very literal sometimes, look at how many get offended with the second B in BBW

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

"I think people take alot of comments on here to literal

When i read things like

looking for any age

looks not important

etc

i read into that they dont have a set type and they find attraction in people of verious ages and sizes

not they will fuck anything"

That's my interpretation too. However, even if they don't mean that and are "desperate" how other adults choose to use this site is down to them and not open to ridicule!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

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How other people choose to enjoy their sex life is of no business to me, if they choose to shag a 99 yr old, their choice....

snip

Some people lie about their age...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps to some it's all about the personality and far less about looks or age.

Just a thought.

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

"I think people take alot of comments on here to literal

When i read things like

looking for any age

looks not important

etc

i read into that they dont have a set type and they find attraction in people of verious ages and sizes

not they will fuck anything

That's my interpretation too. However, even if they don't mean that and are "desperate" how other adults choose to use this site is down to them and not open to ridicule!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think people take alot of comments on here to literal

When i read things like

looking for any age

looks not important

etc

i read into that they dont have a set type and they find attraction in people of verious ages and sizes

not they will fuck anything

I totally agree, that's how I interpret those statements too, that they don't have a set criteria. People are very literal sometimes, look at how many get offended with the second B in BBW

someone gag that woman before she starts a riot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Matching handbag and shoes?

Never leaving the house without a clean hanky?

A li'l dolly in a crocheted frock, hiding a bog roll?

Never swallowing anyone's cum who hasn't a PhD?

It's all subjective.

One person's 'no standards', because they don't limit who and what they're looking for, is another person's openminded, and non-putting people in little boxes type.

Forget age brackets, and whether someome's a smoker, I think there should be a 'Will meet a moaning Minnie' option...or not.

All personal preference.

Horses for courses.

Well I say horse.

I'd perhaps do a thoroughbred, if it was very well groomed.

I couldn't meet a mule, or a silly ass.

Even if it was just for a game of bingo.

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