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What's the most common age for swinging?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I'd say 40 from what I've seen . I'm wondering if me and the misses are maybe still too young she's 28 I'm 33 . Still have plenty of time right ?

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

You have loads of time. Met some cracking and rather hot people on the scene who are into their 50s and 60s +. As long as its still enjoyable for us we intend to keep going without a cut off date.

As a side note I think the average age is coming down. Younger people are increasingly becoming more open to ideas of alternative relationships, sexual freedom and non-monogamy. However that doesn't mean they're all flocking here or to clubs as they tend to favour other forms of social media and communication and don't lable them selves as swingers per se.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock


"You have loads of time. Met some cracking and rather hot people on the scene who are into their 50s and 60s +. As long as its still enjoyable for us we intend to keep going without a cut off date.

As a side note I think the average age is coming down. Younger people are increasingly becoming more open to ideas of alternative relationships, sexual freedom and non-monogamy. However that doesn't mean they're all flocking here or to clubs as they tend to favour other forms of social media and communication and don't lable them selves as swingers per se."

I agree I'd say the average age in this site is mid 40s but it's definitely coming down, younger people these days are more open to exploring their sexuality, are open to the idea of non traditional relationships

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We started here while we were both in our late 20s now approaching 40

Think the average is probably around our age now but if anything we think we should have done even more when we were younger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say the average on here is 40s but plenty that are older too and having a great time xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes we got time I think my wife would prefer to be in her mid 30s than now 28 . In 5 years time our kids will be teens

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Ask her..

Maybe she works prefer starting now, we started in our 20s but now think we should have done even more. Although it is harder when the kids are young and a busy with family stuff.

Get a couples profile and let her see the messages and interaction instead of you deciding for her, as at the moment it sounds from most of your posts that this is just something that's in your own head.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask her..

Maybe she works prefer starting now, we started in our 20s but now think we should have done even more. Although it is harder when the kids are young and a busy with family stuff.

Get a couples profile and let her see the messages and interaction instead of you deciding for her, as at the moment it sounds from most of your posts that this is just something that's in your own head.

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It's not honestly. It's something we both want to do but it's just obviously we have young kids. 5 years down the line that's a different story. We are enjoying as a fantasy at the mo . Just getting some knowledge of the swinging scene and what's the best way to actually go about it when we want to go ahead with it all . We are too young we both agree that . Like I said another 5 years we both said we can think about taking it to reality but now is not the right time for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ask her..

Maybe she works prefer starting now, we started in our 20s but now think we should have done even more. Although it is harder when the kids are young and a busy with family stuff.

Get a couples profile and let her see the messages and interaction instead of you deciding for her, as at the moment it sounds from most of your posts that this is just something that's in your own head.

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And to your question yes I did ask she said around 35 seems a good time for her

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By *edonist79Man
over a year ago

Trowbridge

I started at 25. My gf who i got into swinging is 20.

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By *rTongueMan
over a year ago

...

Think I started with an ex I’d have been 28 and she would’ve been 25

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I got into the adult sex scene at about 15 after an affair with a married lady.

Since then I’ve played with married women for cuckold couples in a regular basis

Obviously the internet didn’t become readily available until I was in my 30’s and this particular site arrived when I was 45.

I would say I enjoyed the scene more at the mid 40ish stage it seemed more fun

Even though I hear more younger people are joining the lifestyle I find it becoming more taboo.

Yes it was all whispers and twitching curtains in the past but at least people spoke about it

Now it feels like you need to go to confession for coming in the site now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say it's mainly couples 40+ from what I've seen, we're a relatively young couple into swinging and rarely come across other couples our age (hubbys 28 I'm 26) but they are out there if you look hard enough xx

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