FabSwingers.com forum: Bi guys in couples

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

So how many people out there are put off by a guy being bi? Personally i love it, seeing guys being comfortable with each other (mostly orally) is a huge turn on. My hubby is totally manly, loves women and states that he mostly plays straight, we are very aware of boundaries and everyone being comfortable. Yet we see a lot of couples who are disgusted in this....surely we all have different preferences and we all enjoy things others may not...yet the couples in question keep looking at us.and our pics....curious maybe?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think there's anything wrong with it, Dave is bi curious and wouldn't be put off by the guy in a couple being bi. How far he'd go would depend on the couple/the man but I'd be happy him going all the way if he wanted. Same with anything, can always say no thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's nothing wrong with at all if that is what you are into. Personally, I am not bi at all, and Perky has no interest in or desire to watch me doing anything with another guy.

Tbh not sure what I would say if she DID want to watch me with another guy though. Subjects not come up yet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although not in a couple I am looking to experience and satisfy my curious side! Like your man I prefer pussy, but am just curious!

I did the honest thing and changed my profile to say so!

Sometimes it pays to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am orally bi only but only if the hubby is comfy with it etc,prefer pussy but in a 3 some where you all share its a massive turn on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am orally bi only but only if the hubby is comfy with it etc,prefer pussy but in a 3 some where you all share its a massive turn on"

Ditto!

And having clear guidelines on my profile and curious in my status has never done me any harm!

Those couples paranoid or just uncomfortable/not interested in such things - that's their prerogative - and there's more than enough openminded folk out there and those that realise that curious doesn't automatically mean I'm planning on molesting every guy in a couple I meet!

Happy days!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only play with bi guys now, we think its alot more fun, relaxed an dirty. John is bi an manly, i lv to see 2 manly guys enjoyin each other an enjoyin me, lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have had a lot of prejudice over the years , I am openly fully bi , snog suck fuck give or take ! Will only play with bi cpls or cpl where the male is bi, that being said we all have our limits , safe sex being mine , and I always respect othersimits and boundaries !!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To echo 'two swingers' above, I've found much the same (when playing as a couple) that being a full Bi couple (and openly declaring so) means that you're swimming in a much smaller pool.

Im not sure why - maybe some are not comfortable with the idea that I might accidentally roll over during a play meet and wind up with the others guys cock wedged in my mouth??

I mean I gave up dropping soap bars on peoples living room floors years ago!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we wouldn't have a threesome with a straight guy, what would be the point ? would be too worried about what I can and can't touch. Squames likes to be licked while being fucked.impossible with a straight guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we wouldn't have a threesome with a straight guy, what would be the point ? would be too worried about what I can and can't touch. Squames likes to be licked while being fucked.impossible with a straight guy."

oh unless he's black, then I'm happy to watch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My OH and I have both had orally bi experiences. We don't class ourselves as being bi because we don't actively seek this out and wouldn't want to play in this way all the time. But if the situation arises then neither of us balk at someone of the same sex touching us.

We both wanted to see what it was like and swinging for us is to try out things that we've always wondered about. I am not particularly keen on going down on women, have tried it and its not for me, bit I've had women asking if they can go down on me and iv e let them and enjoyed it.

My OH is the same, he's glad he's tried this and he enjoyed the experience and no doubt if the situation arises and he's comfortable it will happen again, but the majority of the time we play as a straight couple which is why we have chosen this option on our profile.

If my OH wanted to experience a full sexual experience with a man then it wouldn't bother me but he doesn't want to. I believe in being experimental and having variety so people who are adventurous always appeal to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ahh great to read all these. He was thinking about changing his status to straight as a lot of cpls have said they wont play with bi but why should he. Their loss

after all as said earlier it doesnt make him some kind of predator to other men!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"So how many people out there are put off by a guy being bi? Personally i love it, seeing guys being comfortable with each other (mostly orally) is a huge turn on. My hubby is totally manly, loves women and states that he mostly plays straight, we are very aware of boundaries and everyone being comfortable. Yet we see a lot of couples who are disgusted in this....surely we all have different preferences and we all enjoy things others may not...yet the couples in question keep looking at us.and our pics....curious maybe?"
and he has a fantastically suckable cock xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ahh great to read all these. He was thinking about changing his status to straight as a lot of cpls have said they wont play with bi but why should he. Their loss

after all as said earlier it doesnt make him some kind of predator to other men!! "

Ive seen couples have two profiles - one with the guy as Straight and one with the Guy as Bi - just to try and maximise the playing field. Single Guys pull this trick too.

But you're right, why try to be something your not just to please someone else who cant accept you for who you really are?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As said in lots of other threads, we hav alot of guys msg us sayin they are bi even tho their profile says str8, or they msg us sayin im ok with bein sucked but not returnin the favour. we aint desperate, lol. Rather hav quality play than quantity play, all sharing is better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This may ruffle feathers but here goes, after all, the OP did ask the question.

We won't meet bi guys simply because the thought of having sex with a guy who has sex with other guys is a complete turn off for both of us.

Its not that we're homophobic because that would imply that we're frightened by them, which isn't true.

We have no problem being with gay or bi guys socialy, have been on many occassions, just not sexualy.

One of the reasons we've stopped meeting is, that going by the plethora of bi male topics on the forums, the site is becoming more like a gay site.

It seems that, reading many of the replies on these threads, you can't trust hardly any guy to be straight anymore, whether in a couple or single.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

so one of the reasons that you've stopped meeting bi guys is because there is too many bi/gay posts on these forums.

certainly can't fault your logic there.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Not all bi guys fuck, good to.see a difference.of.opinion tho

and maybe all.guys.do have a bi.streak but.just.aint honest.enough to.admit it? x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not all bi guys fuck, good to.see a difference.of.opinion tho

and maybe all.guys.do have a bi.streak but.just.aint honest.enough to.admit it? x"

I did!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly! we're not all out there "gaying it up" prancing around like a bunch of freddy mercury look-a-likes!! I've never had sex with another man but i'm confident in my sexuality enough to get up close and personal with anyones genitalia!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We dont always do guy on guy fuckin, its if we are in the mood for it, thats normaly sumthin we do if play with that person a second time, but nice to hav the option if we all feel like playin that way, plus i lv to be licked whilst im bein fucked so as said earlier bi guys are more into it an not worried where their tongue strays to, lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Exactly! we're not all out there "gaying it up" prancing around like a bunch of freddy mercury look-a-likes!! I've never had sex with another man but i'm confident in my sexuality enough to get up close and personal with anyones genitalia! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And bi guys are more likely to.give you a good pussy dp without any awkwardness mmm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may ruffle feathers but here goes, after all, the OP did ask the question.

We won't meet bi guys simply because the thought of having sex with a guy who has sex with other guys is a complete turn off for both of us.

Its not that we're homophobic because that would imply that we're frightened by them, which isn't true.

We have no problem being with gay or bi guys socialy, have been on many occassions, just not sexualy.

One of the reasons we've stopped meeting is, that going by the plethora of bi male topics on the forums, the site is becoming more like a gay site.

It seems that, reading many of the replies on these threads, you can't trust hardly any guy to be straight anymore, whether in a couple or single.

XXXX"
I know what you are saying once soon a time you could spot a gay guy most shave there head, goatie beard , leathers ! Now they just look normal !

Just saying like

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may ruffle feathers but here goes, after all, the OP did ask the question.

We won't meet bi guys simply because the thought of having sex with a guy who has sex with other guys is a complete turn off for both of us.

Its not that we're homophobic because that would imply that we're frightened by them, which isn't true.

We have no problem being with gay or bi guys socialy, have been on many occassions, just not sexualy.

One of the reasons we've stopped meeting is, that going by the plethora of bi male topics on the forums, the site is becoming more like a gay site.

It seems that, reading many of the replies on these threads, you can't trust hardly any guy to be straight anymore, whether in a couple or single.

XXXX I know what you are saying once soon a time you could spot a gay guy most shave there head, goatie beard , leathers ! Now they just look normal !

Just saying like "

pmsl

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Haha.coz they are normal.

We play with.straight.guys.too but.when.a.bi guy comes along it just makes everything more adventurous.

ps i.am not attracted to the.ymca look and the.hubby aint attracted to any guys.... he just likes sucking cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"And bi guys are more likely to.give you a good pussy dp without any awkwardness mmm x"
oh yes we both know this

, ive met this cpl a number of times now and my profile says im str8 but i dont mind playing with the guy half of a couple, i dont class myself as bi, i have no attraction to men at all and wouldent meet a man for a 1 on 1, if its in a couple its always fun to be involved with both parties as theres alot more fun to be had, end of the day if your so shallow minded as to think a Bi lad gunna jump on you just because your a bloke you need to give your head a wobble

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Ohhh Scotty.....I was actually thinking about Friday night when i mentioned the DP mmmm stretched to the max haha x

Very true what you said tho

Maybe the guys who are repulsed are the ones who aint admitted it yet x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha.coz they are normal.

We play with.straight.guys.too but.when.a.bi guy comes along it just makes everything more adventurous.

ps i.am not attracted to the.ymca look and the.hubby aint attracted to any guys.... he just likes sucking cock

we hav played with str8 guys in the past but bi guys def spice it up an its about both of us playin an enjoyin so thats why we stick to both. An no OH didnt jump on the str8 cock as soon as he saw it, dunno why people assume a bi guy will jump on the male. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This may ruffle feathers but here goes, after all, the OP did ask the question.

We won't meet bi guys simply because the thought of having sex with a guy who has sex with other guys is a complete turn off for both of us.

Its not that we're homophobic because that would imply that we're frightened by them, which isn't true.

We have no problem being with gay or bi guys socialy, have been on many occassions, just not sexualy.

One of the reasons we've stopped meeting is, that going by the plethora of bi male topics on the forums, the site is becoming more like a gay site.

It seems that, reading many of the replies on these threads, you can't trust hardly any guy to be straight anymore, whether in a couple or single.

XXXX"

I am bi and so is he. We are happy to play with anyone as long as we are all happy.

I don't have any issues with your comments at all, it's your personal choice.

I won't play with everyone, I have my own likes and dislikes. So of course you are entitled to yours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Haha.coz they are normal.

We play with.straight.guys.too but.when.a.bi guy comes along it just makes everything more adventurous.

ps i.am not attracted to the.ymca look and the.hubby aint attracted to any guys.... he just likes sucking cock

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great post , I use bi as a label as it makes it easy for others ! What I would rather say is that I don't let gender , sexuality , or sexual orientation limit my ability to be intimate !

But people might think I was some kind interlectual rather than the muscular thug that I am !!!!

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By *ll of a QuiverCouple
over a year ago

Douglas

"And bi guys are more likely to.give you a good pussy dp without any awkwardness mmm x"

Just how Di likes it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Mmm cant beat it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Amen to that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive lost the thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"ive lost the thread

...then the next thing you know you've dropped a stitch!

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