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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Who else likes having spreader bars used on them?

As a male sub, I love the feeling of vulnerability with me genitals and butthole available for easy access. Love some pegging and mild CBT when being tied to a spreader bar. Pretty sure women enjoy it too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being fitted with them or using them sounds horny to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have used one before. Was mostly for their pleasure than mine. I'm pretty dull when it comes to all that kind of stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spreader bar used and I was also handcuffed to the headboard so I was completely vulnerable. Luckily I trusted the male I was with but the apprehension so what he would do to me was amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is on my list of things to try

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well may have lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Spreader bar used and I was also handcuffed to the headboard so I was completely vulnerable. Luckily I trusted the male I was with but the apprehension so what he would do to me was amazing "

Spreader bars plus handcuffs are quite a combination

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By *wingcouple30Couple
over a year ago

Newport

Being a complete and utter nympho slut I love them and have one

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I am rather fond of the spreader bar. It's very versatile with a bit of imagination. Plus I'm personally a fan of the using chain and cold metal anyway. The feel, weight and sound has a particular psychological effect, especially in a desolate space.

Mr

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Think they are great, there ability to expose vulnerability of consequence in the mind is stunning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have wanted Mr NBVN to make me a spreader bar for ages. Hopefully he will see this thread.....hint darling

NBVN x

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

I make custom spreader bars for friends and thoroughly enjoy using them and seeing them being used.

They have lots of uses other than just a spreader bar. Posture correction being a favourite.

J

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We really enjoy this kind of play and have even built our own spreader bar

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I didn't know people make their own spreader bars. What advantage does that have over the ones you buy in shops?

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By *ecky and justCouple
over a year ago

Godalming

For me they’re just different and individual.

Mine are made from alternative materials.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't know people make their own spreader bars. What advantage does that have over the ones you buy in shops?"

Just get a broom handle and some screws. Cheap and does the job.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't know people make their own spreader bars. What advantage does that have over the ones you buy in shops?"

Made to measure

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't know people make their own spreader bars. What advantage does that have over the ones you buy in shops?

Just get a broom handle and some screws. Cheap and does the job. "

As a minimalist, I love the idea

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't know people make their own spreader bars. What advantage does that have over the ones you buy in shops?

Made to measure "

Ah. That makes sense. The longer the better At the same time I don't want to be doing splits.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I didn't know people make their own spreader bars. What advantage does that have over the ones you buy in shops?

Made to measure

Ah. That makes sense. The longer the better At the same time I don't want to be doing splits."

That's why you build it to where you feel exposed but at the limit of what is comfortable.

Plus with your own, you can add as many holes for attachments as you like

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I didn't know people make their own spreader bars. What advantage does that have over the ones you buy in shops?

Made to measure

Ah. That makes sense. The longer the better At the same time I don't want to be doing splits.

That's why you build it to where you feel exposed but at the limit of what is comfortable.

Plus with your own, you can add as many holes for attachments as you like "

Thanks. I will learn how to do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

I use them a lot in photographing female models in kink/bdsm scenarios, they are quite a popular with the models.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol adjustable length mop from the range, drill a hole in the screw on end, cpl of carabiners....job done, less than a fiver, and it still looks like a mop handle too..(kids are nosey buggers)

Anyone wants a pic or 2 on how i did it just ask

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

it's on my curious about list

both as to try it on me, and me try it on others

maybe one day... when we are looking to add to our already quite full toy cupboard

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"I didn't know people make their own spreader bars. What advantage does that have over the ones you buy in shops?

Just get a broom handle and some screws. Cheap and does the job. "

2 poles with 3 woods drilled the middle being the screwed lock.

Makes it adjustable and can be locked tight

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Lots of DIY expers on here. Thanks for the tips everyone

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