FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to Swingers Chat

Fucking the wife infront of her hubby Qs

Jump to newest
 

By *evaquit OP   Couple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

What are the positive and negatives to this from the invited guys point of view? What's the turn on for you, is the hubby being present a hindrance or a pleasure.

Would love to hear your thoughts. Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uteinasuitMan
over a year ago

Herts

Can be strange to start with but watching her looking at her husband whilst you stretch her pussy. Getting faster and deeper as she begs and moans for your cock until she completely loses it and begs you to come deep inside her then her looking back at her husband knowing how naughty she's been

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *mizhereMan
over a year ago

Thame area

I’ve often done it and enjoy the experience

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ab_indianMan
over a year ago

Berkshire and MK

As a third who has joined couples. Provided both hubby and wife want hubby there, I have always found it a massive turn on for all.

I have found that knowing hubby is enjoying his wife being pleasured adds to the moment for both me and her as well.

If everyone is comfortable with each other I have found no negatives with the couples that I have met and played with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *urlycatMan
over a year ago

Southampton


"As a third who has joined couples. Provided both hubby and wife want hubby there, I have always found it a massive turn on for all.

I have found that knowing hubby is enjoying his wife being pleasured adds to the moment for both me and her as well.

This is pretty much my experience too. If everyone is happy it enhances the whole atmosphere and adds to the meet.

If everyone is comfortable with each other I have found no negatives with the couples that I have met and played with. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love doing it seeing the hubby's face as his wife takes every inch is amazing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That looks a lot of inches to take!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One of my favourite things to do.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aul40nwMan
over a year ago

wirral

Always wanted to fo this but still looking for the right couple

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ihullfunMan
over a year ago

hull

I helped a couple out with been there extra and it was fun for all. I love pleasuring her knowing it turned them both on. Think the main thing is that the couple are both happy with trying something new together with someone else involved

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I love being watched by hubby. It is a real turn on to know that you are having his wife and that they both really enjoy it.

I love that look a wife gives hubby when you first enter her - it is almost always a look of absolute love but also one that says “now I am focussing on me for the next hour”. Bliss!

I love the social dynamic of being allowed into a couples relationship and getting on well with both of them.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Honestly - its sounds bad but the invading of the marriage vows thing....

Knowing she is enjoying another cock inside her.

The feeling of power as you fuck the wife, the feeling of your cock inside her, as the husband just looks on...

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ncemoreroundthesunCouple
over a year ago

on the move


"I love being watched by hubby. It is a real turn on to know that you are having his wife and that they both really enjoy it.

I love that look a wife gives hubby when you first enter her - it is almost always a look of absolute love but also one that says “now I am focussing on me for the next hour”. Bliss!

I love the social dynamic of being allowed into a couples relationship and getting on well with both of them."

Well said

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My ex and I had a few meets where she was fully pleasure by another guy while I watch. Has so horny seeing her take their cock in her holes amd the pure pleasure on her face as she justet herself go to her inner slut.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spot on.


"Honestly - its sounds bad but the invading of the marriage vows thing....

Knowing she is enjoying another cock inside her.

The feeling of power as you fuck the wife, the feeling of your cock inside her, as the husband just looks on...

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Can be a bit nerve wrecking for the lucky gent it’s all down to trust.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love both dynamics not really a negative for any of them, love watching her with a guy and find it hard not to join in, if she’s on her own waiting for the pics and videos to come through and then her to come home and have great sex.. win win for all xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *avelovesfeetMan
over a year ago

Kettering

I love doing this. Turns me on knowing he is enjoying it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The turn on for me is that is taboo ,the wife is someone else's wife not mine and strictly speaking is off limits in the normal vanilla world,yet I get the opportunity to play

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *evaquit OP   Couple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I love being watched by hubby. It is a real turn on to know that you are having his wife and that they both really enjoy it.

I love that look a wife gives hubby when you first enter her - it is almost always a look of absolute love but also one that says “now I am focussing on me for the next hour”. Bliss!

I love the social dynamic of being allowed into a couples relationship and getting on well with both of them."

The one guy we met during the 'interlude' actually said to me that he got off more with me there watching and it was this dynamic primarily why he was in the scene. Was a little surprised tbh as it was very clear he was being genuine about it.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I love watching the guys face as he cums inside me. Knowing my husband is watching his wife giving so much pleasure to another man. Its the ultimate forbidden fruit in the hedonistic sense x

Mrs N

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ellhungvweMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"I love being watched by hubby. It is a real turn on to know that you are having his wife and that they both really enjoy it.

I love that look a wife gives hubby when you first enter her - it is almost always a look of absolute love but also one that says “now I am focussing on me for the next hour”. Bliss!

I love the social dynamic of being allowed into a couples relationship and getting on well with both of them.

The one guy we met during the 'interlude' actually said to me that he got off more with me there watching and it was this dynamic primarily why he was in the scene. Was a little surprised tbh as it was very clear he was being genuine about it. "

In my experience most husbands love to watch their wife enjoying herself. It is a real thrill for them too to get a different perspective and they all tell me that the reclaim sex after a meet is amazing.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just love the fact she is satisfying her cravings. Getting what she needs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *evaquit OP   Couple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Honestly - its sounds bad but the invading of the marriage vows thing....

Knowing she is enjoying another cock inside her.

The feeling of power as you fuck the wife, the feeling of your cock inside her, as the husband just looks on...

"

That's fine, you're coming to the meet with that energy, feeling like you've something to prove. Those meets are fun, usually a raw hard fuck for the wife, what's not to like.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uteinasuitMan
over a year ago

Herts


"That looks a lot of inches to take! "

I think that makes me the warm up act

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah just raw sexual energy!

Especially if you meet the couple before and have chemistry with the wife.....

So hot!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love watching the guys face as he cums inside me. Knowing my husband is watching his wife giving so much pleasure to another man. Its the ultimate forbidden fruit in the hedonistic sense x

Mrs N"

Exactly this especially if she wanted it bare so filling her with cum

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Love doing it seeing the hubby's face as his wife takes every inch is amazing"

I could never take every inch of that cock. Just looking at your pics frightens me off sorry. Jo

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Love doing it seeing the hubby's face as his wife takes every inch is amazing

I could never take every inch of that cock. Just looking at your pics frightens me off sorry. Jo"

Yeah it is either love it or run screaming from it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uteinasuitMan
over a year ago

Herts


"Love doing it seeing the hubby's face as his wife takes every inch is amazing

I could never take every inch of that cock. Just looking at your pics frightens me off sorry. Jo"
try mine instead

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If there is some small socializing prior to any fun, it can be very pleasureable. Any local couples looking for such

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a hubby who absolutely loves to watch. I can confirm it's an incredible feeling

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Nothing better than seeing your wife ( my ex ) being properly satisfied and cumming by a real man who is good at sex , has stamina and can last properly.

Seeing her in his arms , holding him and kissing him whilst being completely ignored.

Men who fuck other males wives really are the gods of this planet and males that need these men really should show gratitude and step there shoe shining skills .

Eventually I lost my wife to an Adonis but was and still am proud to this day to the sexual pleasure I alowd her to have whilst married.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunkymonkey81Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

If handled correctly with willing parties its such a horny experience even better if the hubby is Bi now thats a turn on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *akey8888Man
over a year ago

London

I have had a couple meets where I have joined a couple. As the invited male whats a big turn on is the naughtiness of it, having the pleasure of making someones wife experience maybe different things that her hubby may not add. Plus you can never beat that expression when you first slide inside, the pure ecstasy on first the wifes then hubbys face is a real intense moment.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

want to see wifes face as stranger enters her

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *evaquit OP   Couple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"

Men who fuck other males wives really are the gods of this planet and males that need these men really should show gratitude and step there shoe shining skills . "

Do you really believe any of this?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead


"What are the positive and negatives to this from the invited guys point of view? What's the turn on for you, is the hubby being present a hindrance or a pleasure.

Would love to hear your thoughts. Xx"

For me it’s all enjoyable as what turns me in is the others are enjoying themselves.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Il show hubbys how to wapp there mrs

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Il show hubbys how to wapp there mrs "
im messing i hate to share

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As a third who has joined couples. Provided both hubby and wife want hubby there, I have always found it a massive turn on for all.

I have found that knowing hubby is enjoying his wife being pleasured adds to the moment for both me and her as well.

If everyone is comfortable with each other I have found no negatives with the couples that I have met and played with. "

Good comment

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Even better if it's a black guy ploughing your wife

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it normal because we are all equal and are all in it together even for hubby just watches I will still say to him are you enjoying watching us or turn us to give hubby a bet view

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only meet hot wives alone now it’s far less drama .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *wingcouple30Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I find it a turn on me being a nympho slut Every boyfriend i have had i have always fucked other guys in front of them they always love it so do i

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elaxed KinkCouple
over a year ago

Hemel Hempstead

I love hubby watching me being naughty and fucked hard. My favourite thing to do is look deep into my hubby’s eyes and at the exact moment i feel the guy fucking me cum I either blow my hubby a kiss or tell him I love him

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Meeting women alone as to meeting in couples, for the most there was always more fun alone. I can only think of a few couples where they were open enough to fully enjoy themselves either sitting back, in a different room or doing exactly as they pleased with each other without the idea that it might be off-putting to the (me) the guy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *esYesOMGYes!Man
over a year ago

Didsbury

Positives.

She knows what she likes.

She doesn’t get possessive.

She knows she’s turning on her hubby and she loves it.

She can let go completely knowing her hubby has her back.

He can join in and tip her over the edge with pleasure, NOTHING beats seeing a woman come really hard!

Negatives

…

..

.

Nope.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I only love it when it feels comfortable that both guy and wife want I had a few meets where I didn’t go through with it when it didn’t feel right I always have a meet first to get the feel if it is right it is more fun than

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock

Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x"

One love, no offence intended, each to their own, yet they're bellend's and pussy's which you'd likely still carry a meet with & fuck, instead of saying that to their faces and not walking out on.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *murphMan
over a year ago

drogheda

I only love it when it feels comfortable that both guy and wife want I had a few meets where I didn’t go through with it when it didn’t feel right I always have a meet first to get the feel if it is right it is more fun than

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Something I really enjoy and also enjoyed when with a partner/wife, watching another man fuck her.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

I prefer a threesome to just meeting the wife, but of course I am willing to put aside my own pleasure to help out!!!

Gbat

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the moans and groans of her while getting pleasured by a hot hunk , turns me on as a hubby.

Few times I watched she cumming when getting it from the top is amazing .

On other hand, also feels proud that you have such a beautiful naughty wife .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock

[Removed by poster at 27/02/22 12:31:25]

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

One love, no offence intended, each to their own, yet they're bellend's and pussy's which you'd likely still carry a meet with & fuck, instead of saying that to their faces and not walking out on. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

One love, no offence intended, each to their own, yet they're bellend's and pussy's which you'd likely still carry a meet with & fuck, instead of saying that to their faces and not walking out on. "

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest, I’m too busy focussing on his wife to be looking at the husband

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

Being mostly the guest of the couple for a threesome, its really not a problem having husband just watching isn't a problem.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *elrose57Couple
over a year ago

reading

not everyone is the same and if everyone was like you then what would all the guys on here do, it might make them look at your wife and lick there lips


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ulu and MonkeyCouple
over a year ago

Durham

Really hot

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd fuck the husband infront of the wife

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ilthyfuntimezMan
over a year ago

harefield

Personally, I love putting on a show for hubby. I just love giving pleasure. So if the wife is in need of an extra pair of hands and the hubby enjoys seeing and joining his wife with another

man. Then it’s a win/win/win

Can’t think of a single downside..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ello HarveyMan
over a year ago

Lots of places

As above. Love putting on a show for the husband of his wife being naughty as if he’s present it’s because he enjoys seeing her in that scenario so doesn’t bother me at all.

Personally I prefer filming solo meets to send to him, but also doesn’t bother me if he’s there.

When playing with a couple it’s their rules and I adapt as totally get the 3rd wheel role I’m used for

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had the pleasure as yet but for me it's the fact that's its someone else's wife and they would in a traditional relationship be unavailable.

Being invited to fuck his wife I would imagine feels like your breaking the rules if you like. I find the thought very exciting.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to have the opportunity to devour a gorgeous woman in front of her husband.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *evaquit OP   Couple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"I'd fuck the husband infront of the wife "

That's hot!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inksAPlentyCouple
over a year ago

Bedfordshire


"I'd fuck the husband infront of the wife "

I've done that

Ms x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the positive and negatives to this from the invited guys point of view? What's the turn on for you, is the hubby being present a hindrance or a pleasure.

Would love to hear your thoughts. Xx"

For me personally I just approach like an actor for a role and I give it my all. I enjoy showing a man what he can't give his wife/gf. Hearing her scream, hearing her say to him, she doesn't allow him to do stuff (like say anal) because he's too small. Watching him in amazement of my stamina.

I enjoy the spotlight and I like to shine. In terms of the guy being present, as long as he understands his role, doesn't interfere, we're all good. I enjoy fucking so it really doesn't matter a great deal if he's there or not, as long as I have free reign to please his Missus in a way he never can.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *errynjuneCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

I love having my tiny dicked cuckold there and in his cage. Almost as much as he enjoys being there watching me enjoy a lovely big hard cock.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *evaquit OP   Couple
over a year ago

Catthorpe


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x"

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ashaPCouple
over a year ago

derby

It’s hot. It’s the forbidden nature that’s the turn on for us

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It’s hot. It’s the forbidden nature that’s the turn on for us"

That in a nutshell is my answer to

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ayandreamCouple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

The wife loves me watching her being pleasured, and likewise I love seeing it. Sometimes I feel sorry for the guys as it must be hard when someone else is watching. Some guys really get a kick and others get stagefright. I think personally it is much easier for a woman as most of them love being watched to be honest.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

We always make the guy feel welcome and at ease, hubby fully encourages the guy and love seeing me enjoying other men

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Him here. Hoping to do this soon with the right person. For me it's the enjoyment she will get from it that I love... Been the center of attention. Theres nothing like eye contact while she's enjoying her self. That said it works both ways as we both love watching each other. Perfect. T & C

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest."
perfectly put

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest."

Hahaha whoops, easy tiger.. my bad..

i didn't mean to upset anyone.. it was a d*unken rant to be honest with you. I could of worded it a lot nicer I suppose..

oh well, maybe I’ll keep my opinion to myself next time my sincere apologies to all offended

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ayandreamCouple
over a year ago

CAMBERLEY

Swinging is a big community and everyone has their own kinks. We should never judge anyone else even though some things may not to be your taste. Over the years we have evolved and things we said we would never do at first seem second nature now.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock


"Swinging is a big community and everyone has their own kinks. We should never judge anyone else even though some things may not to be your taste. Over the years we have evolved and things we said we would never do at first seem second nature now. "

The original question was what was our personal point of view was about being in that specific situation.. and i gave mine like a d*unken, foul mouthed horrible prick of a man.. I really do apologise, im quite embarrassed to be honest.. onwards and upwards x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

When I joined my mate and his misses many years ago having him watching made it hard to cum but on the other hand she didn’t mind because I lasted ages wich allowed her to cum many times

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest."

Well said... I know my wife inside out I know how to make her cum in minutes. I know all her sweet spots and what she likes . For me it would be more of a mfm scene anyway but still I'd want to watch her get lost in the moment and be the centre of attention. Nothing pussy about it .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest.

Well said... I know my wife inside out I know how to make her cum in minutes. I know all her sweet spots and what she likes . For me it would be more of a mfm scene anyway but still I'd want to watch her get lost in the moment and be the centre of attention. Nothing pussy about it . "

This is now my 3rd apology I believe.. please ignore my silly d*unken bullshit post… sorry again for offending x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Negatives: it's like first time having sex with some one - multiplied by two. Some communication and fumbling involved for all.

Positives:

seeing thier faces as I slid in...

her cumming a couple of times from different cocks & fingers...

seriously hot and sexy way to pass an afternoon

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.


"Love doing it seeing the hubby's face as his wife takes every inch is amazing

I could never take every inch of that cock. Just looking at your pics frightens me off sorry. Jo try mine instead "

Nice curve. Jo

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest.

Well said... I know my wife inside out I know how to make her cum in minutes. I know all her sweet spots and what she likes . For me it would be more of a mfm scene anyway but still I'd want to watch her get lost in the moment and be the centre of attention. Nothing pussy about it .

This is now my 3rd apology I believe.. please ignore my silly d*unken bullshit post… sorry again for offending x"

Got to be honest I usually double down, treble down and keep digging till the thread gets closed before I say I've fucked up. Think they've got it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest.

Well said... I know my wife inside out I know how to make her cum in minutes. I know all her sweet spots and what she likes . For me it would be more of a mfm scene anyway but still I'd want to watch her get lost in the moment and be the centre of attention. Nothing pussy about it .

This is now my 3rd apology I believe.. please ignore my silly d*unken bullshit post… sorry again for offending x

Got to be honest I usually double down, treble down and keep digging till the thread gets closed before I say I've fucked up. Think they've got it "

I really hope so fella..lol

im better off saying nothing from now on I reckon, especially when 2 or 3 days in to the sesh

very much my bad….

Happy fabbing everyone x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ixen-XWoman
over a year ago

Unicornville Utopia And Lovin It X

Interesting read and as a vixen hotwife great to see the point of veiw from the other side x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ustfun009Man
over a year ago

oxford

This is on my to do bucket list...i would love to be watched...just trying to find a willing couple near me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its always a pleasure as its usually what the couple really wants and enjoys. For many the husband enjoys watching his wife getting fucked and she enjoys giving him a good 'show'. It removes the threat and fear of the unknown for the husband and I think can stop any feelings of jealousy or insecurity. If it works for them to both be there then I am all for it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have done both.

The wife has sent videos,pics, and even used a voice recorder on meets and sent it to me at work and once whilst I was at the football(made it pretty hard to concentrate on the game).

Also I've been in the room to just watch which is amazing as you get to see your wife in full flow really enjoying herself.

And we've had threesomes, all exceptional for different reasons but ultimately the same result which is all three of us getting maximum enjoyment.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being watched by hubby. It is a real turn on to know that you are having his wife and that they both really enjoy it.

I love that look a wife gives hubby when you first enter her - it is almost always a look of absolute love but also one that says “now I am focussing on me for the next hour”. Bliss!

I love the social dynamic of being allowed into a couples relationship and getting on well with both of them.

Well said "

This

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ickedwillyCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

Love sharing her

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love watching the wife relax and give in to fact she’s aroused by an older guy

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to confess that it is the very fact that the husband or partner knows, encourages and watches his wife that gives me the pleasures I crave off here.

Knowing that my presence adds to their pleasures and personal desires makes me ache.

In the past I have simply licked another man’s wife as he kissed her and other times started the fun and had the hubby join and double the fun for the hotwife. Every encounter is a turn on when all parties give and take something from it. ??

Rick

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ougntinaCouple
over a year ago

chigwell

thats very honest of you, but we have to agree. exciting to know the guy is getting off on the taboos with a married wife.


"Honestly - its sounds bad but the invading of the marriage vows thing....

Knowing she is enjoying another cock inside her.

The feeling of power as you fuck the wife, the feeling of your cock inside her, as the husband just looks on...

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our first experience today with me not being there and whilst I loved the txt updates I far prefer having the full view of it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *permdonorMan
over a year ago

Derby

A cpl wanted to get pregnant and had tried for a long time I joined them and we both fucked her together for about three months she got pregnant and had the baby we agreed never to do a DNA test he said without it he can believe she is his...ive helped other cpls since

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I love being watched by hubby. It is a real turn on to know that you are having his wife and that they both really enjoy it.

I love that look a wife gives hubby when you first enter her - it is almost always a look of absolute love but also one that says “now I am focussing on me for the next hour”. Bliss!

I love the social dynamic of being allowed into a couples relationship and getting on well with both of them."

This is a great mindset and always the kind of guy we look for when adding a third to the dynamic

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *amish SMan
over a year ago

Eastleigh

If they are both getting what they want out it then surely it is a bonus 3 ways.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *entleman_of_pleasureMan
over a year ago

Manchester

This thread is a bit of sausage fest, isn't it?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Love watching the mrs in ecstacy as shes taking a big hard cock .

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What are the positive and negatives to this from the invited guys point of view? What's the turn on for you, is the hubby being present a hindrance or a pleasure.

Would love to hear your thoughts. Xx"

For me a pleasure. To put on a show with his wife for his benefit. The look in his face as he sees the lady he loves pleasured. Well worth it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *histle79Man
over a year ago

Guildford

I like seeing the wife watching her husband as I’m fucking her. Can be pretty intense at times.

Also had it though where the bf freaked out a bit and had to leave us to it for a while. But he came back and we DP’d her together

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest."

Exactly this!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"

thats very honest of you, but we have to agree. exciting to know the guy is getting off on the taboos with a married wife.

Yes it is very horny to experience with a guy involved who has an idea of the effect

Honestly - its sounds bad but the invading of the marriage vows thing....

Knowing she is enjoying another cock inside her.

The feeling of power as you fuck the wife, the feeling of your cock inside her, as the husband just looks on...

"

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *egetsmewet100Couple
over a year ago

thurrock


"Men who are happy to watch other men fuck there wives while they just stand there like a bellend with there pricks in their hand are absolute pussy’s if u ask me haha … your married ffs … all trust when the husbands not about would be gone for me…

Each to there own obviously, just not a bit of me..

no offence intended, just my opinion..

one love x

I hear you, even if I consider it an odd opinion on a swingers site, anyway.

How's this scenario for you?

The hubby can seriously fuck his wife, he knows this implicitly and so does she, no issues in that department but gets off on seeing his wife fuck and she loves him watching her fuck. The other guy is insignificant feelings wise but brings his best game to the meet thinking he's fucking the wife better than the hubby ever could or has.

Hubby watches, his own confidence isn't a factor, he knows her better than any stranger wanting to be the hero, he's fully dressed and has no cock in hand knowing his woman is first and foremost fulfilling their joint pleasure in a joint decision situation whilst also wanting the third person to get their absolute rocks off which is our aim, why? Well, Mrs gets to lose herself in the moment thus showing off her sexual prowess which is exactly the way hubby wants to see her and therefore fulfilling both of their swinging desires.

As I said from the off I found your post odd from a swingers perspective but not surprised as it was a typical vanilla point of view so hopefully this little bit of an insight puts you right and offers you some self reflection time particulary on your thoughts as to who's the unspoken 'pussy' as you put it in such a scenario.

Just being honest.

Exactly this!! "

Did u miss my grovelling apologies???

Please just ignore my d*unken stupidity and try to move on with your lives ffs..

Actually getting boring now.. merry Christmas x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *igfun911Man
over a year ago

East Lancashire


"What are the positive and negatives to this from the invited guys point of view? What's the turn on for you, is the hubby being present a hindrance or a pleasure.

Would love to hear your thoughts. Xx"

A real turn on for me with partner watching or taking part

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *lippy02Man
over a year ago

edinburgh


"What are the positive and negatives to this from the invited guys point of view? What's the turn on for you, is the hubby being present a hindrance or a pleasure.

Would love to hear your thoughts. Xx

A real turn on for me with partner watching or taking part "

My earlier commen got mixed in .

Stated that it is really ly good when guy involved has an idea of the effect it has on the husband whatever scenarios taking place as the wife is enjoying cock

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top