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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We have a few meetings where some males just want to fuck without any kissing etc. C dislikes that. Seems very selfish ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I apply a simple philosophy to swinging - if you don't enjoy kissing your meets, then how can you really enjoy sex with them?

Pucker up!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a few meetings where some males just want to fuck without any kissing etc. C dislikes that. Seems very selfish ?"

We dont meet anyone who are not into kissing..I suggest you include that in your profile, so everyone is on same note..

sex without kissing is like milkshake without milk..

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I love kissing, its one of the things that really gets me going.

Either long slow sensual kissing, or hard rough raunchy kissing.

Each to their own and we are all different but i cant understand people that dont kiss.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't get intimate without kissing. I absolutely love it.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

If there's mutual attraction then fine but some people can get carried away so sometimes a kiss is not always welcomed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If there's mutual attraction then fine but some people can get carried away so sometimes a kiss is not always welcomed "

Surely you wouldn't be kissing them if there wasn't a mutual attraction?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

it's a personal preference surely just as any other sexual act is.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it happened to me a couple of times I didn't like it either, just made me feel used and abused. I check profiles very carefully now but even then that doesnt eliminate those you meet at parties, clubs etc

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

I don't like playing without kissing. Sometimes it's different in a club if there's some group activity going on - but in that case there's usually someone to kiss

A good kiss is the ideal start, middle and end of it all, in my opinion. I'm not sure why kissing is considered more intimate by some than mouth to genitals contact?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never met a single that dont kiss, know a few couples who dont

I can understand why a couples wouldnt kiss as they have each other to kiss on the meet so i suppose to some so long as they getting everything it dont matter where its coming from

but singles not kissing?

i couldnt have sex where i had noone at all to kiss

very clinical

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some like not kissing I suppose because it limits involvement... perhaps as they imagine NSA to be. When you consider that snogging randoms in nightclubs in your formative years didn't lead to neccessarily any strings attached, then the non-kissing for NSA thing becomes a mewk point... (?)

Personally I'm going to want to be kissing em during the sex as well. Nothing like getting that kind of double penetration going to rev the engine

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I don't like playing without kissing. Sometimes it's different in a club if there's some group activity going on - but in that case there's usually someone to kiss

A good kiss is the ideal start, middle and end of it all, in my opinion. I'm not sure why kissing is considered more intimate by some than mouth to genitals contact? "

totally agree...we have been told by few that kissing is a very intimate and personal thing, but i am not sure why it is any different from oral activities ?.. you will not engage in oral acts, if you dont fancy the person in first place, so whats the issue with kissing the person ?... anyway, each to themselves, as long as its made clear in their profile, so no surprises during the meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You just got to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The way I see it. You're very happy to have your genitalia connect, why not your lips? Having sex is a very intimate thing, NSA or not. Kissing is just another lovely addition to it all, in my opinion.

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

We think kissing shows you're not just using the other person for sex but have some sense of them as a person. We both love the long, slow kissing mixed with slow thrusting at the start, the quick passionate kisses when you're both very turned on, and the slow kisses when you've cum and are cuddling, before the next round. Kissing your other half when she/he is fucking someone else is pretty good too!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think kissing shows you're not just using the other person for sex but have some sense of them as a person. We both love the long, slow kissing mixed with slow thrusting at the start, the quick passionate kisses when you're both very turned on, and the slow kisses when you've cum and are cuddling, before the next round. Kissing your other half when she/he is fucking someone else is pretty good too!"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feels as though there's something missing if I don't kiss while being intimate with someone.

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

I'm gagging for a snog. Whos first? Queue in straight line, starting here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely if ever kiss. Would rather not kiss at all. But sometimes I feel it hurries them along.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

pucker up guys...........but no tongues thanks xxxxxxxxxxxx

Kissing rocks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think kissing shows you're not just using the other person for sex but have some sense of them as a person. We both love the long, slow kissing mixed with slow thrusting at the start, the quick passionate kisses when you're both very turned on, and the slow kisses when you've cum and are cuddling, before the next round. Kissing your other half when she/he is fucking someone else is pretty good too!"

Bingo!

Couldn't agree more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it is the intimacy that is the major turn on for me.

Sex without it is like doing the pots - mundane !

I have however lost count of the amount of men that won't kiss.

Kissing is gay, having another guys cock up your arse apparently isn't !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think kissing shows you're not just using the other person for sex but have some sense of them as a person. We both love the long, slow kissing mixed with slow thrusting at the start, the quick passionate kisses when you're both very turned on, and the slow kisses when you've cum and are cuddling, before the next round. Kissing your other half when she/he is fucking someone else is pretty good too!"

See I agree with that with a partner but I'd never ever cuddle up and kiss after a meet. And I've compromised on occasionally kissing at start but I just make sure I can't be kissed during sex.

I do enjoy kissing a loved one while having sex with someone else. But then I have to have a connection to someone to kiss them.

Cali

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"it's a personal preference surely just as any other sexual act is. "

Totally agree... personal choice and we all have them, just as long as everyone knows, they can choose to meet or not meet.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

It very much depends on preferences and how you play. The form of play we engage in doesn't necessitate kissing - in a group situation, it's the 'act' that turns us on, not the individuals involved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing, no fucking. Kissing and touching get me going, just love it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the part that gets me throbbing and really turned on. Without it hard to feel a true connection

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester


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I have however lost count of the amount of men that won't kiss.

Kissing is gay, having another guys cock up your arse apparently isn't ! "

pmsl!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a few meetings where some males just want to fuck without any kissing etc. C dislikes that. Seems very selfish ?"

Not just the males!

We dont kiss others and out of courtesy don't kiss each other during a meet. We're upfront about this on our profile so there are no misunderstandings. Neither of us find it necessary to kiss for good sex as we can separate the two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely if ever kiss. Would rather not kiss at all. But sometimes I feel it hurries them along.

Cali"

why would you meet someone then want to hurry them along

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be honest kissing on a meet does nothing for me,if anything having a coffee or ashtray tasting tongue rammed down my throat is a real turn off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be honest kissing on a meet does nothing for me,if anything having a coffee or ashtray tasting tongue rammed down my throat is a real turn off "

This is why mints, aniseeds or cough sweets should be a standard part or anyones meeting kit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I rarely if ever kiss. Would rather not kiss at all. But sometimes I feel it hurries them along.

Cali

why would you meet someone then want to hurry them along "

Because they may be taking ages. I don't want ages. Just a quick fuck or suck.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We met a single guy once who didnt kiss ( we didnt know that before we started playin). We nick named him mr no emotion. Kissin really gets me goin so was a let dwn really

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By *ittle_brat_evie!!Woman
over a year ago

evesham


"To be honest kissing on a meet does nothing for me,if anything having a coffee or ashtray tasting tongue rammed down my throat is a real turn off "

see i dont mind kissing a bloke that smokes and trie to cover ti up with a mint...iquite like the taste, weird i know

kissing is essential for me, turns me on so much. plus its a great filler while they are getting round 2, 3, 4, 5......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm just the opersite. I have met up with a number of couples at clubs where the woman doesn't want to kiss. For me it's so important to kiss. So important to make it good sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

half the fun of sex is kissing it sets the mood and done right can be erotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We have a few meetings where some males just want to fuck without any kissing etc. C dislikes that. Seems very selfish ?"

And many women wont kiss others than their hubbie. I don't see where fair comes into it myself I just see it as personal choice like condoms, anal and if you do bi or not.

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