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What does a man have to do?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What does a man have to do to secure a meet? I’m polite, I reply to all messages and winks, I indulge in endless, non-offensive chat, I share nice pictures of myself (at least I have been told they are nice), I am flexible when I can meet, I am willing to travel 100 mile radius, I keep myself clean, fit, brush my teeth twice a day… but jeezo, I have only limited results in terms of meeting!!! I either have to change sex or maybe try the “fancy a shag” approach… or is there a third way???? Answers appreciated!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

You need to be a woman... It's hard being a bloke looking... Don't give up...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You can be the nicest guy in the world and tick all the boxes but if they dont fancy you then it isnt going to happen you are 1 of hunderds of other single guys competing for the same peoples attention so they can pick and choose to be fair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In this culture seems many of the women have choices who they want to meet... Alot of men on this site, even fewer couples and fewer single,women...

Basically don't give up...

Reading the profile of the person would help alot and not just looking at pics so you find you won't be wasting your time sending just polite emails that sound the same as every person is different.. You won't appeal,to everyone and,sometimes youcjust gotta dive in... I have a similar problem in that a lot of bi/gay women in the forums don't like hairy pussies as I have one... Whilst I wouldn't have sex with woman who is straight. Nor would I have sex with a couple who don't like bi men as my fb is bi too..

So you see everyone different.. You will find peeps you click with along the way..

. Hope this helps, Ebony

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"What does a man have to do to secure a meet? I’m polite, I reply to all messages and winks, I indulge in endless, non-offensive chat, I share nice pictures of myself (at least I have been told they are nice), I am flexible when I can meet, I am willing to travel 100 mile radius, I keep myself clean, fit, brush my teeth twice a day… but jeezo, I have only limited results in terms of meeting!!! I either have to change sex or maybe try the “fancy a shag” approach… or is there a third way???? Answers appreciated! "

see you should be brushing your teeth three times a day

Seriously though it must get a bit disheartening but all we can say is keeep trying and good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You got a lovely bum, just thought I'd say.

If you were nearer, I would indeed consider a meet. Chin up, keep trying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As discussed yesterday evening, you need to forget all the rules and simply learn how to bake !

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks, all helpful advice... Think the sex change might be too severe... but baking more likely within my capabilities!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have the same trouble,you appear to offer what the lady/couples want only to be deleted without even a polite no thanks.i know they get lots of mail from single guys but what about us having to mail them! and they all seem to want chapter and verse

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"As discussed yesterday evening, you need to forget all the rules and simply learn how to bake !"

A very sound proposition

I can cook, but I usually refer to my cooking efforts as 'controlled burning'

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shame you live to far away from me. x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

speak softly but carry a big stick

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By *erseypairCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

get a girlfriend- live with her for few years so you in a strong relantionship then talk to her about the idea of swinging

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

What ever you do it will be wrong, send a one line message... not enough. Send a couple of well thought out paragraphs commenting on their profile and its deleted unread. Send a to the point sexually laden message and its too rude.

All you can do is be yourself and keep plugging away (no pun intended). Oh and even if you read all the profiles and only attempt to contact those that say or suggest they may be looking for someone like you... don't hold your breath waiting for a reply!

It is very difficult for a single guy over 50 to be taken seriously or even to be noticed. But it does work sometimes if you are patient. Good luck.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

hahahahahahahaa...i just dont know what to reply

is that your cock watching TV????

Girls will come...trust me.. they all love bike

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

cheers, good advice... apart from the "get a girlfriend one and persuade her to be a swinger" like me!!! Did that, that's why I'm now single!!!!

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By *ustylikesgentsCouple
over a year ago

North wales coast

some guys would love to have had three meets in 11 months and consider you to be doing well.

sense of humour is quite particular to each person and hard to convey in a profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i agree with ebony..............dont know what the answer is to be honest but i would consider meeting you xxx

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"some guys would love to have had three meets in 11 months and consider you to be doing well.

sense of humour is quite particular to each person and hard to convey in a profile "

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By *ayb1970Man
over a year ago

Somerset

Same for me...start chatting ,polite,non pushy,attractive and then bang deleted, blocked ,called a pest etc etc!!!!

Keep on going!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"some guys would love to have had three meets in 11 months and consider you to be doing well.

sense of humour is quite particular to each person and hard to convey in a profile "

I do have a sense of humour... although when you write it out like that... it's not exactly side-splittingly funny!!! Will review my patter to date to see how I can improve!! thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What does a man have to do to secure a meet? I’m polite, I reply to all messages and winks, I indulge in endless, non-offensive chat, I share nice pictures of myself (at least I have been told they are nice), I am flexible when I can meet, I am willing to travel 100 mile radius, I keep myself clean, fit, brush my teeth twice a day… but jeezo, I have only limited results in terms of meeting!!! I either have to change sex or maybe try the “fancy a shag” approach… or is there a third way???? Answers appreciated! "

make we say put some face pics on ya file babes does help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i doubt u would get a meet here if u have diamond encrusted cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i doubt u would get a meet here if u have diamond encrusted cock "

unless you live in Essex !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oscar Wilde advice. For single male profiles...

"when a man acts he is a puppet. When he describes he is a poet."

And one for the women....

"she will never love you unless you are always at her heels; women like to be bothered"

Ebony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair I don't find it that bad. If your looking for something everyday then you have no chance but I can normally arrange something every 7 to 10 days.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Thanks, all helpful advice... Think the sex change might be too severe... but baking more likely within my capabilities!!! "

You can always try to come back as a woman in the next life...

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield


"Thanks, all helpful advice... Think the sex change might be too severe... but baking more likely within my capabilities!!!

You can always try to come back as a woman in the next life..."
If there were any life after

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