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By *J198911 OP   Man
over a year ago

United Kingdom

What's everyone's view on this?

Was out with friends and these two girls turned up. They knew one of my friends and got introduced to the ground. One of them was married and started asking me questions about my name etc. We were pretty d*unk, she confessed near my ear (it was loud live music) she's married and that I would be her type of she wasn't taken. I ended up spilling a horrible rose tequilla shot on my fingers and she saw that, and whilst no one was looking she sucked my fingers. I didn't engage, I didn't know what to do and if I had to do anything. All I knew I was rock hard as she and her friend left.

The following day her name was on my Instagram, I remember vaguely she typing it in my phone. But she's married and her other half is all over her insta.

Q: If she would have said, lets fuck etc, what would you have done?

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By *jayjMan
over a year ago

Farringdon, Central London

Looking forward to the answers on this one. Personally, I’d stay away. Trying to live a drama free life.

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset


"What's everyone's view on this?

Was out with friends and these two girls turned up. They knew one of my friends and got introduced to the ground. One of them was married and started asking me questions about my name etc. We were pretty d*unk, she confessed near my ear (it was loud live music) she's married and that I would be her type of she wasn't taken. I ended up spilling a horrible rose tequilla shot on my fingers and she saw that, and whilst no one was looking she sucked my fingers. I didn't engage, I didn't know what to do and if I had to do anything. All I knew I was rock hard as she and her friend left.

The following day her name was on my Instagram, I remember vaguely she typing it in my phone. But she's married and her other half is all over her insta.

Q: If she would have said, lets fuck etc, what would you have done? "

Maybe it was the drink talking and best to stay away , unless your into adding fuel to a fire , would you want to be the reason she’s cheated , and put yourself in her partner position,if you did chase her and have sex with her ?

Hotwife

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By *erces LetiferMan
over a year ago

Somewhere off the edge of the map... 'ere there be monsters

I try to neither condemn nor condone cheating, and understand why people do it in certain circumstances.

But personally consent is an important boundary for me, for all parties concerned.

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Was she fit?

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By *J198911 OP   Man
over a year ago

United Kingdom

Interesting so far, I'd be very curious to know in the heat of the moment if these reasonings come to head.

I haven't pursued her at all after, I was left thinking about the scenario.

And she was fit yes lol

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

I asked mark…

“ the younger me might have said fuck it I only live once, the older me says why bring drama you don’t need to your door”

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By *J198911 OP   Man
over a year ago

United Kingdom

to add...we live in very different places and never met her, possibly I would have done but want to know what every other bloke on here would have done. I think we all want to do the moral thing, but lets be honest with ourselves, how many men can think this way with a few drinks and a hot girl making advances

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Just because she's married doesn't mean she doesn't have an agreement with her partner where on nights out she can fuck other people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont care really

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

It was a woman asking for extra marital sex. Lots of men will say go for it.

If it was the other way round this thread would be full by now of people shouting "home wrecker"

Personally if drink is involved don't go there, people have regrets in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d have probably taken her up on her offer if there was one.. I’m not the one that’s attached so no guilt on my part.. people may dig at me but they probably thinking it haha

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By *andD300Couple
over a year ago

london

I don’t have Instagram and don’t even know how it works.

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By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

I'd have assumed it was just the drink talking and made my excuses.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was on a job in November last year. The customer paid me and then came out with “my husband doesn’t fuck me” “will you?”. Now under normal circumstances I may have fucked her. But decided the best idea was to make my excuses and walk away.

Was a good choice to make as the husband drove into the driveway as I was leaving.

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By *elshcouple4000Couple
over a year ago

Cardiff

I love mine doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love being part of it !

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By *angerousLiaisonsCoupleCouple
over a year ago

London

Don’t do it.

That’s not honourable and there are plenty of women out there for you.

Her husband deserves better.

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

each must decide for themselves

but my advice, don't go there unless you are ready for nasty fall out.

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By *hesblokeMan
over a year ago

Derbyshire village

Nah, no interest in messing with someone else's relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not worth the drama

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d have probably taken her up on her offer if there was one.. I’m not the one that’s attached so no guilt on my part.. people may dig at me but they probably thinking it haha "

She's the one cheating.

Shag her but get tested as she probably fucks around every weekend.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

She said "I'm married. You would be my type if I wasn't taken" then she didn't want to waste her shot and licked it off your fingers. She was flirting but I don't think she was offering sex.

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By *opsy RogersWoman
over a year ago

London


"It was a woman asking for extra marital sex. Lots of men will say go for it.

If it was the other way round this thread would be full by now of people shouting "home wrecker"

Personally if drink is involved don't go there, people have regrets in the morning"

My sentiments entirely. The situation should be based on the level of alcohol consumption.

I think declining a pissed human is always a good idea.

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I wouldn’t do it, I believe in ethical non monogamy, not helping others to cheat on their partners.

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

Many years ago I baby sat for some neighbours. I had always got on well with her and she was a very sexy lady; he was a bit of an arsehole.

When she and hubby got home late he was very d*unk so she helped him upstairs. When she came down she lept at me, kissing and groping me until she seduced me. We fucked in their lounge and that started an intense 6 month affair.

I never criticise others for those things I do myself. What I like about swinging is you can be honest. Sex is fun and you should be able to enjoy it with whom you choose. I do not associate it with love athough I definitely have liked a lot, some people I have met.

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By *iverpool_19Man
over a year ago

liverpool

If you pass up a shag … you’re cheating on yourself

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

Id have taken the opportunity.

Her shit marriage is not my problem.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town

This is known as Hamlets paradox...

To shag or not to shag, that is the question.

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By *J198911 OP   Man
over a year ago

United Kingdom

very interesting to hear both sides.

It's interesting to read people's views especially those who find it morally wrong, but I do believe you're not entirely immersing yourself in the moment. There are chemicals in the air, the finger sucking, "if I wasn't married...". I'd like to see who in that state of mind would turn around and say to the woman "what you're doing is morally wrong and I'm not a home wrecker, goodbye madam".

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"very interesting to hear both sides.

It's interesting to read people's views especially those who find it morally wrong, but I do believe you're not entirely immersing yourself in the moment. There are chemicals in the air, the finger sucking, "if I wasn't married...". I'd like to see who in that state of mind would turn around and say to the woman "what you're doing is morally wrong and I'm not a home wrecker, goodbye madam". "

Loads of people would say no. Fucking someone doesn't happen by accident.

'Well she sucked on my fingers so I had to give her a good dicking.'

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"very interesting to hear both sides.

It's interesting to read people's views especially those who find it morally wrong, but I do believe you're not entirely immersing yourself in the moment. There are chemicals in the air, the finger sucking, "if I wasn't married...". I'd like to see who in that state of mind would turn around and say to the woman "what you're doing is morally wrong and I'm not a home wrecker, goodbye madam". "

Doesn't it depend on how attractive she is?

Also as Outsider says people don't fuck by accident. One of the phrases I really dislike when people are justifying having sex with someone they really shouldn't have is "then the inevitable happened"

Its not inevitable, adults have control over their actions.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

^^also a simple no would suffice

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Nope, she’ll be cheating and that’s not for me.

I won’t facilitate such betrayal.

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