FabSwingers.com forum: Do you feel the build up makes the sex more intense?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The talk before the session takes place or even some of you said having a social before going to the hotel room ? I get the anticipation about it definitely. I'd like the thought of him looking at my wife in her dress and heels knowing his going to be getting inside her withing the next hour or so

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Nope I'm a wam bam thank you mam kind of girl, I'm not interested in the chat

I often go from advertising a meet, to fucking & saying goodbye all within the space of 3hrs

If you give people to much time for anticipation lots will lose interest, so many are only here for the chat & wank fodder & I have no interest in providing that service for them

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Nope I'm a wam bam thank you mam kind of girl, I'm not interested in the chat

I often go from advertising a meet, to fucking & saying goodbye all within the space of 3hrs

If you give people to much time for anticipation lots will lose interest, so many are only here for the chat & wank fodder & I have no interest in providing that service for them "

Fair enough

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

For MF couples meeting single men the build up for the male part is maybe the best part of all.

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

When we were swinging the knowledge of a meet in the near future always improved my wife's sex drive.

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By *ames-77Man
52 weeks ago

milton keynes

"For MF couples meeting single men the build up for the male part is maybe the best part of all."

For you as a couple or your talking on behalf of the single males ?

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

"For MF couples meeting single men the build up for the male part is maybe the best part of all.

For you as a couple or your talking on behalf of the single males ?"

The male part of the couple.

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By *ickinNottsMan
52 weeks ago

Hucknall

I like to discuss what we might get up to, and what is or isn't on offer. But pretty much like to know when and where then get on with it.

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By *unandcuriousCouple
52 weeks ago

Antrim

It's deffo gotta add to it

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By *iHungMikeMan
52 weeks ago

Shaw

Flirting and seducing and hot kissing is such a turn on

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By *eliWoman
52 weeks ago

Yes definitely. I adore anticipation, love when there's all that sexual tension and things flow and erupt.

I feel a bit... flat without it. Like the sex can be good, fun, hot but not the explosive intensity I crave. Fuck my mind and then my throat/cunt.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
52 weeks ago

Wherever

I can’t have sex without any build up beforehand but I guess I’m just weird like that.

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By *rozac_fairyCouple
52 weeks ago

Birmingham

Nope, not with guys.

I've come to realise alot of single guys don't really flirt that well and it gets boring. I prefer quick flirting in clubs, can decide after afew minutes whether I'm interested or not. And then figure out if I want to play that night or wait.

With women though, the anticipation is absolutely incredible

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By (user no longer on site)
52 weeks ago

I get bored of chatting, I like to agree a meet and get on with it.

I don't like plain a meet more than a day or two in advance so not much change of taking.

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By *uri00620Woman
52 weeks ago

Croydon

No, I don't want endless chat or planning meets far into the future.

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By *oxy jWoman
52 weeks ago

somerset

"Nope I'm a wam bam thank you mam kind of girl, I'm not interested in the chat

I often go from advertising a meet, to fucking & saying goodbye all within the space of 3hrs

If you give people to much time for anticipation lots will lose interest, so many are only here for the chat & wank fodder & I have no interest in providing that service for them "

can relate to this ... if nothing is sorted for a meet in 6 or 7 days then it aint going to happen i just switch of ... i often if meeting a new guy go from chatting that day to playing that day .. i dont do social with guys stopped that a long long time ago .. how much do you need to know to meet for swinging fun there is a thing such as too much ...

been on this scene 30++ years right from the beginning of the internet chat groups were the way until the big swinging sites before fab and tho swinging has always had a social side its nothing like todays drawb out socials ...

we/i learnt on fab along time ago the more you chat the less likely it will happen so we got more spontaneous and what happened was we went from every other meet being a let down to 99% of meets being successful so we dont pre plan anymore than 7 days ... sexual attraction is a must but not the only thing needed i do everything via fab no phone no apps no cams no emails just fab and it works very well ...i will do socials with couples and women because i enjoy them but to swing with a guy then social for me not needed ... and im super picky as we should all be ..

but everyone will and must do thing there own way we are all different

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