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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone on here fine with being used as a object rather than a human? Lol I'm not sure I'd care as its mainly about having sex but alot also want to feel emotionally wanted and that's including males not just women

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

This is not my actual views by the way it's a topic I'm interested in hearing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure about the emotional attachment, but prefer some kind of connection.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Quite a lot of couples treat single men this way

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no definetly want some kind of conection with who i have sex with just feels awkward otherwise.

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.


"Anyone on here fine with being used as a object rather than a human? Lol I'm not sure I'd care as its mainly about having sex but alot also want to feel emotionally wanted and that's including males not just women "

I have used human foot stools and tables before.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"Anyone on here fine with being used as a object rather than a human? "

I remember a thread where people were wanting to be naked buffet tables

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've never participated in a gang bang but I don't imagine there's much social interaction

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds


"I've never participated in a gang bang but I don't imagine there's much social interaction "

There isn't in a glory hole either

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I've never participated in a gang bang but I don't imagine there's much social interaction

There isn't in a glory hole either"

True

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I'd like to be used by either a couple or a female as a fuck toy or clean up boy. Women wearing a strapon makes me go weak at the knee's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.

Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.

Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference. "

I agree.

The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.

Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.

I agree.

The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised. "

Yes it's like some people just turn off their humanity when they join the site. Or see others as bodies only because "it's a sex site". I have replied to some men who send me objectifying messages and describe how they made me feel. They're usually genuinely shocked as they thought that's what I wanted.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like there to be a synergy and connection.

For me the whole persons persona is important otherwise I’m not interested.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.

Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.

I agree.

The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised.

Yes it's like some people just turn off their humanity when they join the site. Or see others as bodies only because "it's a sex site". I have replied to some men who send me objectifying messages and describe how they made me feel. They're usually genuinely shocked as they thought that's what I wanted. "

I do think that there is a genuine misunderstanding on the part of some men who think that the "type of woman" who joins a site like this is somehow different, almost subhuman.

I have also seen couples openly refer to single men as accessories, stunt cocks and human dildos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I'd mind, in fact it would make for a bit if a kinky session - but that's as a bloke with no real group to be categorised in. I understand when you do fit a demographic, being chosen simply because of it would start to get to you down.

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By *umslaveTV/TS
over a year ago

Sheffield

TS are often fetishised by men and sometimes it annoys and sometimes it's not. Best way is to ask and find out. I'm not always in the mood to be fetishised. Porn has a lot to do with that of course and men are pretty simple creatures. I have had meets where I want to be completely depersonalised and treated as a sexual commodity and, tbh, most of those meets have been the best I've had. Sometimes though you just really crave a little intimacy and care. Those meets are pretty difficult to find. Men often ask me "what do you want?" and the reply is either "use me as a set of holes as hard as you can with no thoughts or feelings" or !" just treat me like you would treat a woman". Which one do you think men find more difficult?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.

Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.

I agree.

The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised.

Yes it's like some people just turn off their humanity when they join the site. Or see others as bodies only because "it's a sex site". I have replied to some men who send me objectifying messages and describe how they made me feel. They're usually genuinely shocked as they thought that's what I wanted.

I do think that there is a genuine misunderstanding on the part of some men who think that the "type of woman" who joins a site like this is somehow different, almost subhuman.

I have also seen couples openly refer to single men as accessories, stunt cocks and human dildos. "

Christ, that's just horrible

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By *erwentsidersCouple
over a year ago

Derwentside


"I believe this is from a comment I made on another thread? I'd say that some people enjoy being treated as an object sexually but not many people enjoy it otherwise. So someone might enjoy being used as a cum dumpster etc but still want to be recognised as a human being with feelings.

Personally I find a lot of people here forget there's a difference.

I agree.

The number of times I see people's genuine hurt and confusion dismissed in the forum with trite words such as "move on" astounds me. I do wonder if they realise there's an actual person typing the words. The same applies to the people saying they want to be "used" sexually...it doesn't mean they want to be dehumanised.

Yes it's like some people just turn off their humanity when they join the site. Or see others as bodies only because "it's a sex site". I have replied to some men who send me objectifying messages and describe how they made me feel. They're usually genuinely shocked as they thought that's what I wanted.

I do think that there is a genuine misunderstanding on the part of some men who think that the "type of woman" who joins a site like this is somehow different, almost subhuman.

I have also seen couples openly refer to single men as accessories, stunt cocks and human dildos. "
We use men (mainly in clubs) as accessories, stunt cocks and human dildos

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to be used, but that’s in a D/s scenario and this has to be built too, I couldn’t behave this way with anyone…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like to be used, but that’s in a D/s scenario and this has to be built too, I couldn’t behave this way with anyone…"

Ditto!

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