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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We have never heard of the above can anyone tell us please what it is. Does it hurt lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We have never heard of the above can anyone tell us please what it is. Does it hurt lol

its long lasting sex basically

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've heard of it and am not sure of what exactly is involved, although think it is a spiritual form of sex involving breating. I know a well know pop star is a fan of it with his wife. I guess I could have googled it...

I could be wrong...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I've heard of it and am not sure of what exactly is involved, although think it is a spiritual form of sex involving breating. I know a well know pop star is a fan of it with his wife. I guess I could have googled it...

I could be wrong... "
Is it like a Vulcan mind meld then lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Spelt it wrong mate, it's sex in a trick tent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sting is a big fan of it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The art and aim of tantric sex is not the orgasm but making the journey to orgasm last a long time and involve every part of you so that when eventually you do orgasm its truly amazing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"sting is a big fan of it x"

And here was me trying not to mention names lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The art and aim of tantric sex is not the orgasm but making the journey to orgasm last a long time and involve every part of you so that when eventually you do orgasm its truly amazing"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watched many programs on TV about it, would love to try it sometime, just not sure i am disciplined enough though.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

can be borring thou

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By *uriouskinky2Couple
over a year ago

wrexham

C4 screened a documentary about it back in 1993 called Sacred Sex. Worth a watch if you can find a copy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can be borring thou"

Not if done properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"can be borring thou

Not if done properly

Exactly.... The whole body is orgasmic.

Ebony

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Anyone for a quickie.....?

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By *lare GTV/TS
over a year ago

South of Sleaford

I have an interest in Tantric sex and her is what a friend who seems to know what he is talking about quoted:

"Tantrism is essentially female-centred sex worship dating back to pre-history in India, Indo-china, SE Asia. The name comes form Tantras which were later scriptures written by sacred harlots. The main focus of tantrism is the lingam-yoni, i.e., the conjunction of male and female principles. The sacred mantra: om mani padme om, the jewell in the lotus (literally, penis in the vulva) is the most sacred tantric mantra. In adoring the female principle, tantrism gives women more spiritual power than men. The only way for a man to achieve such divinity was through sexual and emotion union with a woman. The rite was called maithuna, which in latin is coitus reservantus, i.e., sex without male orgasm. The notion being that a man needs to store up his vital fluids and learn to absorb the orgasms of his partner through his penis and prolong sex for many hours."

A 'quicky' does not work for me. With the right partner I achieve multiple orgasms which go on for several minutes. During and after the orgasms I am in a different space and it takes some time to come back to planet earth. Hence my interest in the tantric practices to enhance and prolong the pleasure for myself and who I am with.

Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The art and aim of tantric sex is not the orgasm but making the journey to orgasm last a long time and involve every part of you so that when eventually you do orgasm its truly amazing"

wow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's very much what we do.We include massage as well. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have an interest in Tantric sex and her is what a friend who seems to know what he is talking about quoted:

Hope this helps. "

Very much so, thanks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The art and aim of tantric sex is not the orgasm but making the journey to orgasm last a long time and involve every part of you so that when eventually you do orgasm its truly amazing"

Sounds awesome!

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I've done FRANTIC sex but not Tantric sex. Would I still get a nice cup of tea afterwards?

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

Stafford

"I have an interest in Tantric sex and her is what a friend who seems to know what he is talking about quoted:

Hope this helps. "

Yep this is about right but I would add the following:

- The physical part of tantra is the tip of the iceberg. Its a whole system of taking the basal parts of your soul and turning them into spiritual sacraments. This includes other things such as death etc.

- There are three degrees of tantric sex. Pleasuring somebody else, pleasuring yourself and pleasuring a deity. I have managed the third only spontaneously during dreams whilst sleeping.

- The delaying orgasm thing happens spontaneously if you do the meditations long enough and frequently enough. The orgasms also become massive when included as part of a ritual context. Sometimes the feeling from them has lasted up to a couple of weeks afterwards.

- The female thing comes from the fact that tantra works by absorption whereas all other occult practices work by precipitation. This absorption can be poetically considered as the womb into which the seeds of thought forms can be placed to germinate. All godesses of tantra are dark, great and cover space and time. Nuit (Egyptian - the night sky), and Kali Durga (Hindu) are better know examples that you may not realize.

- Tantra.... Occult? Well yes: Buddha wrote the Sutras for the conventional and the Tantras for the occult side of Buddhism.

- Finally... you can spot a tantric Buddhist deity as they have a red coloured body.

Sorry to gas on..... hope you found it interesting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Wow so enlightening

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By *ilfandme206Couple
over a year ago

North Kerry

I think this sounds wonderful, I would love to give it a try, anyone know where i can find out more

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

My ex wife thought i had mastered the art of tantric sex.

...really she was just so ugly that I couldnt't cum

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

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Your local high street book shop with have material and the net is a good source if you search.

Sadly most of the best stuff is written in an awful pseudo academic hard to read style.

Also; to be fair, it isn't the easiest thing to explain since all the big experiences one has are highly personal in nature. I don't really do psychobabble or monologues: I'm aware that it makes me sound like a complete tosser....LOL

I literally bumped into somebody that lived this life and we corresponded for more than a decade about it. It marked a massive turning point in my life.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your local high street book shop with have material and the net is a good source if you search.

Sadly most of the best stuff is written in an awful pseudo academic hard to read style.

I literally bumped into somebody that lived this life and we corresponded for more than a decade about it. It marked a massive turning point in my life. "

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Intruiging idea, something new... does anyone do classes ?

I need a teacher i think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had a tantric massage.....bloody marvellous!!

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By *--Cinders---Couple
over a year ago

a place near Blackpool

so have i...fantastic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tantra is simply the connection and balance of human energy to the world around us. The life force of the planet working in harmony.

You may have heard of Ying & Yang; the balance of two opposite energies.

Each of us has both male and female energy. Tantra teachings refer to 2 tantric gods, Shiva the male and Shakti the female who are depicted as follows.

Shakti is depicted as a coiled serpent located at the base of the spine. Energies are awakened and combined as the serpent uncoils and rises up the body though the Chakra's to meet Shiva at the crown of the head.

The meeting of the two energies in the mind is said to release us from inhibitions and stresses and give us the ability to see the world through new eyes.

This connection with the beauty of the world around us happens when our energies, or Ying and yang combine and work in harmony.

Have you ever woken up feeling great, in a positive, happy state of mind but don't quite know why? It's usually because the serpent has risen during sleep, awakened the chakras and connected in the mind giving us those feelings of joy and euphoria.

Of all the energies, Sexual energy is the driving force, without it there would be no procreation and the world would cease to exist. Sexual energy if not released can have negative effects on us. Anger, frustration, stress etc can often be attributed to unspent sexual energy.

Although I don't practice tantric sex, I am a tantric masseur and use the same principles in my massage.

Tantric massage opens up your chakras and allows the serpent to rise. The excess sexual energy is released through orgasm or held in to use as core energy if you wish.

Tantric massage helps you to recognise and control these energies so that you can use them positively in life.

Tantric sex is best left for committed couples who know each other very well as you need to connect on a physical and spiritual level.

Tantric massage can be enjoyed by anyone as long as you are open and relaxed.

Hope this helps!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Although it does sound extremely interesting, and I have travelled the astral plain, I don't think I could concentrate deep enough with a partner from FAB to achieve the heightened states.

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

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Serious tantric work is mostly practiced as a solo masturbatory rite. Its surprisingly difficult to find the right partner who is sufficiently attuned to know exactly when to make the seer cum.

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

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"Although it does sound extremely interesting, and I have travelled the astral plain, I don't think I could concentrate deep enough with a partner from FAB to achieve the heightened states."

Ok try this....

Invoke the Enochian angel of water Saiinov and go meet him on the astral. Ask him to send you a physical consort that is your true soul life partner.

Banish and entirely forget about what you have done...... See what happens next...

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By *at with MikeCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"sting is a big fan of it x

And here was me trying not to mention names lol"

I heard that one of the best things about tantric sex was that it keeps Sting out of the recording studio for days at a time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Although it does sound extremely interesting, and I have travelled the astral plain, I don't think I could concentrate deep enough with a partner from FAB to achieve the heightened states.

Ok try this....

Invoke the Enochian angel of water Saiinov and go meet him on the astral. Ask him to send you a physical consort that is your true soul life partner.

Banish and entirely forget about what you have done...... See what happens next..."

I'll give it a go. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Still no wiser

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

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"Still no wiser

OK maybe this will help.

You know how stretching and gentle physical exercise such as yoga relaxes you? Well: meditation is merely putting your mind in "relaxing" or energizing positions (or states).

Your body has channels and centers of energy and energy is present around us all the time. Ever felt somebody look at you and turn around to see them staring at you? Ever walked into a room and felt a bad atmosphere? Ever felt deep upset and the way that the energy crowds into your solar plexus? Acupuncture directly works on these energy flows to alter them.

Orgasm unleashes large amounts of these energies which can be used to catapult you into altered states of consciousness where these energies can be perceived and manipulated.

What to do with this new found ability is a moot point. Many beginners want to get rich, laid and even: usually in that order. And that's certainly what I did.

After this one may start to think about the deeper things in life and this is where it can get very profound if you are of an appropriate mind.

Some think about healing Mrs Jones down the road. Whilst this is quite noble in itself I tend to want to crank it up a bit.... How about healing the entire planet for example??

The only difference between a "normal" person and a Buddha is that the normal person is riddled with doubts that this can be done whereas the Buddha's faith is second nature and as natural to him as the forces of gravity are to us all.

Tantra is one such system of perceiving and manipulating these energies in a personal development framework.

I have worked at this quite a bit, not disappeared up my own arse and still worry about the gas bill (Well: occasionally).

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