FabSwingers.com forum: Do you let your wife play alone or always present?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences

I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening

Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

I always play alone. V stays at home & watches on an app, i go off to play.

We cant host & have children so cant both travel.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.

For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.

I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.

For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.

I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.

I don't mean let she could do whatever she likes but I just couldn't see her doing that .she's not that type but who knows I didn't know she would be into this lmao

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.

For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.

I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.

I don't mean let she could do whatever she likes but I just couldn't see her doing that .she's not that type but who knows I didn't know she would be into this lmao"

I've discovered I enjoy all sorts of things that I hadn't even considered 15 years ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.

For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.

I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.

I don't mean let she could do whatever she likes but I just couldn't see her doing that .she's not that type but who knows I didn't know she would be into this lmao

I've discovered I enjoy all sorts of things that I hadn't even considered 15 years ago

Yes I guess time will tell .. I hope that doesn't happen that she wants to play alone anyway I wouldn't be happy with that but then il get "well why did you get into this lifestyle" won't i

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

When we started I was adamant I'd only meet alone as I wouldn't be able to be myself and relax with my husband present & he was fine with that as long as I let him know so he knew I was safe

Fast forward a few months & we had our first theeesome together abd I quickly realised I didn't care whether he was there or not

Since then he has been present but mainly because we like to film & take photos during our meets, so he plays camera man while I'm having fun

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

To me swinging is adding to our sex life not instead of our sexlife I wouldn’t want to meet someone/ or people without him. Also he is my safety net incase it’s dodgy etc

Before anyone says it i’m not saying meeting alone is wrong it’s just not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played alone as has hubby. It not something we do often but of the chance is there and we are both comfortable it's all good

Mrs x

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences

I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening

Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "

i with you on the play together but she dos play same room on her own when i worn out

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

We both play separately on occasions.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"To me swinging is adding to our sex life not instead of our sexlife I wouldn’t want to meet someone/ or people without him. Also he is my safety net incase it’s dodgy etc

Before anyone says it i’m not saying meeting alone is wrong it’s just not for me"

Sensible reply well said . I agree

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By *ouplecu2015Couple
over a year ago

Reading

My wife go alone 1 time and I tell her she can go when she want

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My wife go alone 1 time and I tell her she can go when she want"

Love your media !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm a wife, I'm meeting alone. Husband doesn't "let" me as he doesn't own me. It is a mutual agreement. He always knows who I'm meeting and when.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife lets me stay at home when she meets her lover

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By *verready5000Man
over a year ago

mansfield

If we actually did meet and play, I’d like to be there all the time for the sights sounds smells etc

Plus photos, videos and obviously joining in!!!!

Everyone is different!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Carlos let's Mrs fandangos play alone, she has hours of fun in Lidl.

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By *he SmithsCouple
over a year ago

East Devon & London

Mrs Smith is bi so she attends Skirt Club parties and meets other bi girls privately by herself.

In return she’s happy I meet couples on my own.

‘Letting’ isn’t really the correct adjective, it’s more a case of respecting each other’s desires and both enjoying all that that brings.

One day she’ll bring a friend home!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

She likes ladies, so her sexuality needs means she does occasionally.

She has been with other men, not for awhile for some reason.

I play alone to satisfy my D/s need.

However, we prefer to play with others together.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We both meet alone, me moreso than the hubby but our preference is meeting together

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences

I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening

we now happily play seperately

Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences

I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening

we now happily play seperately

Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We always meet as a couple. But as a Hot Wife couple I'm in full control so have met regular fab friends alone when I've needed satisfying x

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We’re in the together camp but that’s our choice right now

There aren’t some seriously hot people in this thread xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Together but if both agree, we’re happy for missus to play alone….. aslong as there photos

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By *hatsthisMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

"My wife lets me stay at home when she meets her lover"

Ha ha that would work for me

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By *armandwet50Couple
over a year ago

Out of UK

"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.

For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.

I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.

Surely the "mutual agreement" is to "let" either partner play alone?

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

I play alone then tell hubby everything when I get home

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By *izzy.miss.lizzyCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

I don't play alone.

I will meet others with Husband present only.

He doesn't always want to join in, that's up to him... but if he isn't there, it doesn't happen.

Other way around too.

Our swinging only works when we do it with both present even if only one plays.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My wife meets trusted friends alone.

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By *uitedSuitorMan
over a year ago

Halifax / Leeds

Sometimes. I prefer when she's there though. I will only cum inside her, nobody else...and we all know that it feels amazing!

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By *issA_MrMMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

We have done both and absolutely loved it.

Met a great gentleman at a club and knew he had chemistry with my gorgeous lady. He got in touch saying he’d love to see her again.

Who was I to stop this from happening.

So whilst I was at work she popped round to his for round 2.

Made for the horniest afternoon as she sent me photos and even left a voicemail on my phone.

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By *dquestCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough

Not our thing. We enjoy seeing each other too much.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

I used to meet a married MF couple for a while, the man wasn't allowed to cum inside me (condom), but everything else was allowed. Couldn't understand why so stopped meeting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes I’m not aware lol

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By *ixenandStag69Couple
over a year ago

Derbyshire

"I always play alone. V stays at home & watches on an app, i go off to play.

We cant host & have children so cant both travel."

What is the app called please, we'd love to try doing something like that xx

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

We always play together so hubby always present..

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

We are couple so do everything together

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been discussing the idea of playing alone. Wouldn't of even considered it when we started!

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By *ent1000Man
over a year ago

swanley

Think it depends on what the situation is if you’re all friends and see each other regularly...

Think for the first meeting there’s lots to consider safety for all first

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences

I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening

Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "

We are the same. For us this is about us as a couple wether the play is with couples or singles we get an extra thrill from being there and invovled in the play.

If anyone judges that wrong move on. We will.

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

Always present !

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

We both play alone and together, having a child quite often means one of us stays home while the other goes out.

When we first started I never thought I'd be comfortable with the arrangement, but now find it quite a turn on.

I do enjoy it when the wife send pictures and videos while out.

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By *ubbyandwifeCouple
over a year ago

manchester

She did play alone once but had a bad experience so from that day on I always there

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By *ee And MikeCouple
over a year ago

Cannock

Depends on the guy, how well we know and where our relationship is at with him.

Over the years I’ve stayed at home whilst the guy has taken her out of a date, as cuck it’s both exciting and frustrating !

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

We didn't think we would either for a start but things change and you realise it's all just about having fun.

She has met guys now a couple times on her own and it's been a turn on for both of us, she says she still prefers when I'm there but there was a different excitement to being alone and the same for me. Getting pics and videos sent while not there is pretty horny.

What you think you want now to what your comfortable with and turns you on will change over time.

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By *hrisy69Man
over a year ago

chester/hawarden

"Sometimes I’m not aware lol"

Wishful thinking ??

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By *omer47Man
over a year ago

leigh

I've asked my wife to have a cuckold relationship but she point blank refused. If she had agreed I would have preferred us to play together as I enjoy the watching and taking part at the end, (cleaning up),but would also like the feeling of her coming home after a meet and telling me exactly what happened while she either cages me or releases me to wank while telling me of her fun meet.

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By *ausageNmashCouple
over a year ago

Andover

We have a few trusted regular friends for when I am busy elsewhere but only a trusted few. We seldom meet anyway as life gets in the way.

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By *erby dazzlersCouple
over a year ago

belper

My wife goes out and plays with her “friend” alone.

They go to clubs together and both he and she enjoy the freedom this brings her.

We also attend clubs together and play together with single guys and couples.

So to answer your questions we do both.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, either were both involved or not at all.

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

When we used to swing we did so on the basis that it was an extension of our own lovemaking and fully shared. Much of the thrill was watching as well as the obvious doing.

So always together.

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By *ane_andrew69Couple
over a year ago

cardiff

We mix it up, clubs together and trusted friends Jane meets on her own.

The thrill of them acting like a couple (away from home area) is such a turn on. Kissing in public, holding hands and touching. By the time she comes home the next day I’m rampant

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By *vening SongCouple
over a year ago

diss

Claire used to meet her gf on her own and if they chose to include me it was a bonus I encourage her to meet women alone

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By *nlyfunsMan
over a year ago

When we were here as a couple we did both. But always social first and pics during the meets

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By *urvykat and JayCouple
over a year ago

Ashbourne

Surely a woman and this includes married women can make their own minds up. They are individuals and the term let and giving permission suggests ownership !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had our first cuckold experience yesterday, I was at work when my wife had someone over. Was a great experience all round, the guy was supposedly lovely and very considerate. Could imagine this scenario has the potential to go wrong if the guy involved is a bit mental!

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By *ita7Man
over a year ago

Kettering

I have been meeting alone with my sub for couple if years now, first meet of the year this Friday. First met her as a couple with hubby 4/5 years ago. It was after one hot meet that he said to me she is your sub now. That was real special moment & it's been fantastic hot sex ever since.

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By *onaldandjacquelineCouple
over a year ago

wirral

Have been there so far but would definitely consider this if i could watch on video call .

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences

I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening

Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "

My wife has played with her girlfriends without me, but never with a guy. I would have to know him really well to trust that. Plus I would be so jealous to watch her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I personally have an issue with the term "let" as is suggests ownership.

For the majority of us it's a mutual agreement of the way we choose to swing. Different things work for different people.

I meet alone but only with women, my choice. The majority of my swinging is with my husband, who is also welcome to meet alone, should he choose to...he chooses not to.

well said we do thing we not him not her simple convo between loving adults mr can do as please mrs can do as please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I see alot of men let their wife's alone with the guy..let's hear your experiences

I'm on the other side of the fence I wouldn't let my Mrs play alone and she wouldn't want to either I just couldn't ever imagine that happening

As the female, I don't want, nor would feel comfortable playing alone, and I wouldn't feel comfortable with M playing alone either. We're doing this together, so for us that's how it is.

J x

Each to their own though of course not gonna judge. Just want to hear what you guys do "

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