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"I have a very attractive fwb (female) Should I introduce her to here? If so any ideas how to approach the subject peeps? " We must assume she doesn't know about this side of you and that you are worried she might not be happy about it ?. I Tony had a female fwb that I added to my single guy profile for a while, yet we met on here... | |||
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"I have a very attractive fwb (female) Should I introduce her to here? If so any ideas how to approach the subject peeps? We must assume she doesn't know about this side of you and that you are worried she might not be happy about it ?. I Tony had a female fwb that I added to my single guy profile for a while, yet we met on here..." So….if I’m honest. Totally honest. I’m worried that If introduced I may end up fading in to the background and being a distant memory of hers… | |||
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"I have a very attractive fwb (female) Should I introduce her to here? If so any ideas how to approach the subject peeps? We must assume she doesn't know about this side of you and that you are worried she might not be happy about it ?. I Tony had a female fwb that I added to my single guy profile for a while, yet we met on here... So….if I’m honest. Totally honest. I’m worried that If introduced I may end up fading in to the background and being a distant memory of hers…" Don't do it! | |||
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"Does that effect my question then ? " Some men say they want to 'persuade' a woman into swinging and she has no idea of his plans. He just wants to use her as sex bait to get more meets. So the question was probably to suss out if that's what you're doing. | |||
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"Does that effect my question then ? Some men say they want to 'persuade' a woman into swinging and she has no idea of his plans. He just wants to use her as sex bait to get more meets. So the question was probably to suss out if that's what you're doing. " My concerns are that if she found new more interesting fwb then I would be left on the side line thinking why did I introduce her to here. But also we could have fun. But this is going way off my intial question lol. | |||
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"Does that effect my question then ? Some men say they want to 'persuade' a woman into swinging and she has no idea of his plans. He just wants to use her as sex bait to get more meets. So the question was probably to suss out if that's what you're doing. My concerns are that if she found new more interesting fwb then I would be left on the side line thinking why did I introduce her to here. But also we could have fun. But this is going way off my intial question lol. " Thats the thing though, she is your FWB. You aren't in a relationship so you should be happy with whatever she chooses. | |||
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"Does that effect my question then ? Some men say they want to 'persuade' a woman into swinging and she has no idea of his plans. He just wants to use her as sex bait to get more meets. So the question was probably to suss out if that's what you're doing. My concerns are that if she found new more interesting fwb then I would be left on the side line thinking why did I introduce her to here. But also we could have fun. But this is going way off my intial question lol. " This happened to a pal of mine, he was introduced to fab and clubs by his then fb, who sadly became jealous. He dumped her and had a swingingly great time | |||
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"I have a very attractive fwb (female) Should I introduce her to here? If so any ideas how to approach the subject peeps? We must assume she doesn't know about this side of you and that you are worried she might not be happy about it ?. I Tony had a female fwb that I added to my single guy profile for a while, yet we met on here... So….if I’m honest. Totally honest. I’m worried that If introduced I may end up fading in to the background and being a distant memory of hers…" That's life my friend, happens in mormal relationships too. Maybe carry on as is for a while till your friendship is hopefully stronger and more secure ?. The friendship with my fwb had simply run its course and she didn't fight to keep it going (many dont have what it takes). We're now looking forward to meeting a couple this weekend who will hopefully become long term naughty friends for both of us | |||
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"Does that effect my question then ? Some men say they want to 'persuade' a woman into swinging and she has no idea of his plans. He just wants to use her as sex bait to get more meets. So the question was probably to suss out if that's what you're doing. My concerns are that if she found new more interesting fwb then I would be left on the side line thinking why did I introduce her to here. But also we could have fun. But this is going way off my intial question lol. Thats the thing though, she is your FWB. You aren't in a relationship so you should be happy with whatever she chooses." | |||
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"Does that effect my question then ? Some men say they want to 'persuade' a woman into swinging and she has no idea of his plans. He just wants to use her as sex bait to get more meets. So the question was probably to suss out if that's what you're doing. My concerns are that if she found new more interesting fwb then I would be left on the side line thinking why did I introduce her to here. But also we could have fun. But this is going way off my intial question lol. " She may, she may not leave you on the sideline. If she's happy with what she has with you - she won't be running away. By your own admission you meet other people. I'm guessing she meets others too. She may find another fwb elsewhere and sooner or later she'll find this site too. It's rather well known these days. What would she say if she found you on here and you never told her about it? If something is meant to happen - you can't prevent it. | |||
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"I have a very attractive fwb (female) Should I introduce her to here? If so any ideas how to approach the subject peeps? " Only you can know if you should. For me the best way to broach a subject is to say it outright with no ambiguity or euphemisms but that might not be so for your friend. | |||
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"Does that effect my question then ? Some men say they want to 'persuade' a woman into swinging and she has no idea of his plans. He just wants to use her as sex bait to get more meets. So the question was probably to suss out if that's what you're doing. My concerns are that if she found new more interesting fwb then I would be left on the side line thinking why did I introduce her to here. But also we could have fun. But this is going way off my intial question lol. She may, she may not leave you on the sideline. If she's happy with what she has with you - she won't be running away. By your own admission you meet other people. I'm guessing she meets others too. She may find another fwb elsewhere and sooner or later she'll find this site too. It's rather well known these days. What would she say if she found you on here and you never told her about it? If something is meant to happen - you can't prevent it." THIS is very true. We both know that we see other people and she might say “why didn’t you tell me about this site!” Right ok. I’m going in. Wish me luck lol | |||
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