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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Had interesting conversation recently with Couple at club who reckon that arranging meets and the amount of no shows and time wasters was actually other couples!.

We all know the bad press guys get particularly from Couples but was intrigued that it appears that couples are too.

Should they be stained by the same brush?

posted this as it followed chat had whilst out dogging as you do with fellow guy who had arranged to meet couple that night drove to where they told him to and on 2 occasions told him they where 5 mins away on third call / message they blocked him after they didn't show up after 20 mins of waiting.

Perhaps another case of couple arranging to meet 6 guys on the night then deciding who was the lucky fellow?

Guess its nature of this site theres both Guys and Couples who are time wasters,just leaves the rest of us genuine people trawling through the flotsum

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

If we had a fiver for every time a couple said they'd meet us in a club but didn't, we could pay for a nice break away somewhere

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If we had a fiver for every time a couple said they'd meet us in a club but didn't, we could pay for a nice break away somewhere "

Guess we all would be away and no play lol.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16


"If we had a fiver for every time a couple said they'd meet us in a club but didn't, we could pay for a nice break away somewhere

Guess we all would be away and no play lol."

We have had as many disappointments from males and couples but always found additional pebbles some of which are real gems! Its just like prospecting you sift a ton to find an ounce. One step closer to a bright shinny thing lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think sometimes people back out for whatever reason but just a "sorry can't meet" just be good manners

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Think sometimes people back out for whatever reason but just a "sorry can't meet" just be good manners"

Oh yes if only

Admin take note

Would save so much frustration and despair on here

As they say manners cost nothing

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By *illloganMan
over a year ago

Essex

I think some get too excited, have an orgasm then can't be bothered!

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By *herryEatersCouple
over a year ago

East Cheshire


"Had interesting conversation recently with Couple at club who reckon that arranging meets and the amount of no shows and time wasters was actually other couples!.

We all know the bad press guys get particularly from Couples but was intrigued that it appears that couples are too.

Should they be stained by the same brush?

posted this as it followed chat had whilst out dogging as you do with fellow guy who had arranged to meet couple that night drove to where they told him to and on 2 occasions told him they where 5 mins away on third call / message they blocked him after they didn't show up after 20 mins of waiting.

Perhaps another case of couple arranging to meet 6 guys on the night then deciding who was the lucky fellow?

Guess its nature of this site theres both Guys and Couples who are time wasters,just leaves the rest of us genuine people trawling through the flotsum

"

We joined initially around 8 years ago. Our experience is roughly equal across guys, girls and couples !. Last letdown was a couple while we were driving to theirs ! (yes they were messing us around). A few years ago another couple admitted they were keeping us in second place just incase their chosen meet failed... this was TEN MINUTES BEFORE THE MEET TIME. Cherry was angry to say the least, took her years to get ready lol. Yes single girls have let us down too, and the odd guy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I gave up in meeting couples, because I got let down to many times. Or the couple suddenly turned into a single man.

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Had interesting conversation recently with Couple at club who reckon that arranging meets and the amount of no shows and time wasters was actually other couples!.

We all know the bad press guys get particularly from Couples but was intrigued that it appears that couples are too.

Should they be stained by the same brush?

posted this as it followed chat had whilst out dogging as you do with fellow guy who had arranged to meet couple that night drove to where they told him to and on 2 occasions told him they where 5 mins away on third call / message they blocked him after they didn't show up after 20 mins of waiting.

Perhaps another case of couple arranging to meet 6 guys on the night then deciding who was the lucky fellow?

Guess its nature of this site theres both Guys and Couples who are time wasters,just leaves the rest of us genuine people trawling through the flotsum

"

You've singled out women single women do it as well

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By *otwifeHusbandCouple
over a year ago

Dorset

I definitely think there should be something on fab to warn other of certain people especially if it happen on multi able occasions, we all lead busy life’s and time is valuable , just a simple we’ve changed our mind or something come up would help .

We arrange to meet a guy for a coffee as he was working local , said he was here for the week working , chatted loads he told us the hotel he was staying in and that he’d meet for a coffee first , we message that morning to check he was still okay to meet , yeah said he be there , he never showed up , we message to say we was there and to this day it’s been left unread even tho we’ve seen him active on here ,

If they change there mind then fine say so ,

Hotwife

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I definitely think there should be something on fab to warn other of certain people especially if it happen on multi able occasions, we all lead busy life’s and time is valuable , just a simple we’ve changed our mind or something come up would help .

We arrange to meet a guy for a coffee as he was working local , said he was here for the week working , chatted loads he told us the hotel he was staying in and that he’d meet for a coffee first , we message that morning to check he was still okay to meet , yeah said he be there , he never showed up , we message to say we was there and to this day it’s been left unread even tho we’ve seen him active on here ,

If they change there mind then fine say so ,

Hotwife "

Wonder whether Admin follow this thread?

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Had interesting conversation recently with Couple at club who reckon that arranging meets and the amount of no shows and time wasters was actually other couples!.

We all know the bad press guys get particularly from Couples but was intrigued that it appears that couples are too.

Should they be stained by the same brush?

posted this as it followed chat had whilst out dogging as you do with fellow guy who had arranged to meet couple that night drove to where they told him to and on 2 occasions told him they where 5 mins away on third call / message they blocked him after they didn't show up after 20 mins of waiting.

Perhaps another case of couple arranging to meet 6 guys on the night then deciding who was the lucky fellow?

Guess its nature of this site theres both Guys and Couples who are time wasters,just leaves the rest of us genuine people trawling through the flotsum

"

I’ve found more men are time wasters on here or fantasists. Just to add that I don’t believe all men on here are!

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By *oupleexeter30Couple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've been let down numerous times! Most ghost us an hour before the meet or come up with some ridiculous excuse. Best one we've had from a single guy was he was on his way but changed his mind as his car was due an MOT in 4 days LOL

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By *ancelot1633Man
over a year ago

folkstone


"We've been let down numerous times! Most ghost us an hour before the meet or come up with some ridiculous excuse. Best one we've had from a single guy was he was on his way but changed his mind as his car was due an MOT in 4 days LOL"

Sneaky feckers those surprise MOT’s. Life can always get in the way but there is no excuse for leaving people hanging.

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