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"Assistance? Like when men get their wives d*unk because they won't have sex with people sober? Happens all the time. " Haha nope not d*unk I mean like did they need to have a foreplay to get them going | |||
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"Assistance? Like when men get their wives d*unk because they won't have sex with people sober? Happens all the time. Haha nope not d*unk I mean like did they need to have a foreplay to get them going " There are some women who enjoy just being penetrated with no foreplay. Good luck to them  . It's often seen in porn and I was watching Cheaters last night where a couple literally just fucked.
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"Assistance? Like when men get their wives d*unk because they won't have sex with people sober? Happens all the time. Haha nope not d*unk I mean like did they need to have a foreplay to get them going There are some women who enjoy just being penetrated with no foreplay. Good luck to them . It's often seen in porn and I was watching Cheaters last night where a couple literally just fucked.
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"Assistance? Like when men get their wives d*unk because they won't have sex with people sober? Happens all the time. Haha nope not d*unk I mean like did they need to have a foreplay to get them going There are some women who enjoy just being penetrated with no foreplay. Good luck to them . It's often seen in porn and I was watching Cheaters last night where a couple literally just fucked.
It's not for me.
Porn has a lot to answer for. "On mainstream telly last night the guy was ready, so she was too. I said to Mr N "not much foreplay goes on round there!" | |||
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"Assistance? Like when men get their wives d*unk because they won't have sex with people sober? Happens all the time. Haha nope not d*unk I mean like did they need to have a foreplay to get them going There are some women who enjoy just being penetrated with no foreplay. Good luck to them . It's often seen in porn and I was watching Cheaters last night where a couple literally just fucked.
It's not for me.
Porn has a lot to answer for.
On mainstream telly last night the guy was ready, so she was too. I said to Mr N "not much foreplay goes on round there!" "Was that on BBC iplayer | |||
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"And that was the second time in that series that I'd seen it.
Probably a male writer. "I don't know. The assumption seemed to be that because the guy had ed she would be ready, grateful and happy to fuck him at any time he got an erection . Including when he woke her up one morning and when she got home after a night out having had an upsetting encounter.  | |||
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"Assistance? Like when men get their wives d*unk because they won't have sex with people sober? Happens all the time. Haha nope not d*unk I mean like did they need to have a foreplay to get them going There are some women who enjoy just being penetrated with no foreplay. Good luck to them . It's often seen in porn and I was watching Cheaters last night where a couple literally just fucked.
It's not for me.
Porn has a lot to answer for.
On mainstream telly last night the guy was ready, so she was too. I said to Mr N "not much foreplay goes on round there!"
Was that on BBC iplayer"I watched it on actual telly but I think it's on iplayer. I quite enjoy it  | |||
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"And that was the second time in that series that I'd seen it.
Probably a male writer.
I don't know. The assumption seemed to be that because the guy had ed she would be ready, grateful and happy to fuck him at any time he got an erection . Including when he woke her up one morning and when she got home after a night out having had an upsetting encounter. "Some men are lovely. Some men........... | |||
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"Ladies when you first met another man in your relationship with your husband how wet was you . Was you soaking wet and excited or was you nervous and needed some assistance to relax your nerves ." Anyway we've digressed. The first time I was very nervous indeed. Mr N had dinner ready for me when I got home from work and I had a glass of wine with it to relax me a bit. I was in full control though and had agreed before hand. The whole situation was nerve wracking and exciting at the same time and we all enjoyed ourselves immensely. I definitely couldn't just go straight to fucking though. | |||
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"And that was the second time in that series that I'd seen it.
Probably a male writer.
I don't know. The assumption seemed to be that because the guy had ed she would be ready, grateful and happy to fuck him at any time he got an erection . Including when he woke her up one morning and when she got home after a night out having had an upsetting encounter.
Some men are lovely.
Some men..........."It was interesting to me that it was assumed that his erection was the most important thing. There was no evidence b of him being sexual with his wife in any other way. | |||
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"Assistance? Like when men get their wives d*unk because they won't have sex with people sober? Happens all the time. " It happened to me once. The husband kept asking if I had any more drink as she would be fine once she had more. Needless to say I asked them to leave. I understand sometimes a glass or two of wine or something to relax but the lady shouldn't need to get d*unk. | |||
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"Assistance? Like when men get their wives d*unk because they won't have sex with people sober? Happens all the time. It happened to me once. The husband kept asking if I had any more drink as she would be fine once she had more. Needless to say I asked them to leave. I understand sometimes a glass or two of wine or something to relax but the lady shouldn't need to get d*unk. " | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked" Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? | |||
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"I don't really thinking mixing alcohol for a first encounter is a good idea at all tbh that's just my opinion though. I know people are nervous but it feels its just like going against their will" I like to share a glass of something with the men I'm going to get up close and personal with. It's a nice social thing to do. I don't like the idea of someone having to get properly d*unk to have sex. We met a couple for a social once and the woman drank 12 vodkas, some of which were doubles. Things didn't go any further | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think?" I'm not single LOL | |||
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"I don't really thinking mixing alcohol for a first encounter is a good idea at all tbh that's just my opinion though. I know people are nervous but it feels its just like going against their will I like to share a glass of something with the men I'm going to get up close and personal with. It's a nice social thing to do. I don't like the idea of someone having to get properly d*unk to have sex. We met a couple for a social once and the woman drank 12 vodkas, some of which were doubles. Things didn't go any further " Oh yeah that's cool I meant to the point of getting d*unk . Everyone's got to be in a good state of mind | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think?" And crude? This is a sex forum buddy ! I don't think their talking about me I think they mean the thing that was on TV! Lol | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL" I see but you’re on as a single chap? | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL" Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions. | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? And crude? This is a sex forum buddy ! I don't think their talking about me I think they mean the thing that was on TV! Lol" We aren't. The discussion went off at a tangent. Which it often does on here. | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL I see but you’re on as a single chap?" He's made his position clear | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions. "Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol . | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? And crude? This is a sex forum buddy ! I don't think their talking about me I think they mean the thing that was on TV! Lol" It maybe a recreational sex sire ( I have been rounded on for using that term) but some of the OPs / topics are crude!. I think one lady above labels such forum topics wank fodder, I happen to agree. | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL I see but you’re on as a single chap?" Read my bio . My wife will join me in a couple profile when she's ready I'm not pushing her to come on here . She said she will come on here in her own time ..so I'm talking to others to get to know the ropes of this lifestyle | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol . "We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track? | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?"Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for "You'll find that happens. So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one? | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for
You'll find that happens.
So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one?"So my wife would be very nervous more than me for sure . She's made it clear she would like to take this into a reality eventually but it's getting over the actual meeting barrier isn't it . I feel once she gets going she will love it and enjoy herself I think she would feel very naughty  you always hope it turns out in your mind . I spoke to lady yesterday she mentioned she was very nervous before she did it but once she did she was glad she did that seems the most cases for alot of women. I think once them chemicals go to her brain she will switch and be a naughty girl. We have young children at the mo she said if we didn't we would do it soon rather than later | |||
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"So the first time we did it, I needed W to help me get going, totally nervous that he wouldn’t like what was going on, as we all know a fantasy becoming a reality can often backfire! I’ve had no issues after the first time because we had amazing sex together afterwards and we both now know it’s what we actually enjoy… but W needs to interact with me during the experience otherwise it’s not a turn on for me at all. Mrs x" Yeah my wife said that's one of the reasons she likes it to because it's something that will turn me on her being naughty for me . It's definitely a thing I think you do together ..I don't get these men who let their wife's go alone with guys that's weird to me but thats my opinion | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for
You'll find that happens.
So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one?
So my wife would be very nervous more than me for sure . She's made it clear she would like to take this into a reality eventually but it's getting over the actual meeting barrier isn't it . I feel once she gets going she will love it and enjoy herself I think she would feel very naughty you always hope it turns out in your mind . I spoke to lady yesterday she mentioned she was very nervous before she did it but once she did she was glad she did that seems the most cases for alot of women. I think once them chemicals go to her brain she will switch and be a naughty girl. We have young children at the mo she said if we didn't we would do it soon rather than later "Never make the mistake of assuming you know how your wife will feel, or you for that matter. Many men have been taken by surprise that the reality is not at all like the fantasy | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for
You'll find that happens.
So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one?
So my wife would be very nervous more than me for sure . She's made it clear she would like to take this into a reality eventually but it's getting over the actual meeting barrier isn't it . I feel once she gets going she will love it and enjoy herself I think she would feel very naughty you always hope it turns out in your mind . I spoke to lady yesterday she mentioned she was very nervous before she did it but once she did she was glad she did that seems the most cases for alot of women. I think once them chemicals go to her brain she will switch and be a naughty girl. We have young children at the mo she said if we didn't we would do it soon rather than later
Never make the mistake of assuming you know how your wife will feel, or you for that matter. Many men have been taken by surprise that the reality is not at all like the fantasy "Yeah that's what I'm worried about alot to consider. They say it's better to leave it to the mind sometimes but can't help but taking it to reality one day because it turns us both on so much | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for
You'll find that happens.
So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one?
So my wife would be very nervous more than me for sure . She's made it clear she would like to take this into a reality eventually but it's getting over the actual meeting barrier isn't it . I feel once she gets going she will love it and enjoy herself I think she would feel very naughty you always hope it turns out in your mind . I spoke to lady yesterday she mentioned she was very nervous before she did it but once she did she was glad she did that seems the most cases for alot of women. I think once them chemicals go to her brain she will switch and be a naughty girl. We have young children at the mo she said if we didn't we would do it soon rather than later "Does she really want to try or is it more a fantasy for her? It can be cool to role play and maybe use a dildo as the 'other man'. Are you wanting to meet couples or just men? It's a dangerous game - you can't undo it afterwards. Maybe you could both visit a club and see what you think. | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for
You'll find that happens.
So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one?
So my wife would be very nervous more than me for sure . She's made it clear she would like to take this into a reality eventually but it's getting over the actual meeting barrier isn't it . I feel once she gets going she will love it and enjoy herself I think she would feel very naughty you always hope it turns out in your mind . I spoke to lady yesterday she mentioned she was very nervous before she did it but once she did she was glad she did that seems the most cases for alot of women. I think once them chemicals go to her brain she will switch and be a naughty girl. We have young children at the mo she said if we didn't we would do it soon rather than later
Does she really want to try or is it more a fantasy for her? It can be cool to role play and maybe use a dildo as the 'other man'.
Are you wanting to meet couples or just men?
It's a dangerous game - you can't undo it afterwards.
Maybe you could both visit a club and see what you think. "That's how we started using the dildos and dirty talk etc .watching interracial porn together . We both openly had a chat we want to make it a reality one day . We have young children so that's the obstacle at the moment .she said she would do it soon if we didn't have young kids . We are actually going to a hotel this weekend . She said she wants to rehearse it teasing me what she would do in real life .yeah we been together for 10+ years so we spoke about once it happens you can't undo it. We are really happy together and we have an amazing sex life to we are just a kinky couple always have been! | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for
You'll find that happens.
So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one?
So my wife would be very nervous more than me for sure . She's made it clear she would like to take this into a reality eventually but it's getting over the actual meeting barrier isn't it . I feel once she gets going she will love it and enjoy herself I think she would feel very naughty you always hope it turns out in your mind . I spoke to lady yesterday she mentioned she was very nervous before she did it but once she did she was glad she did that seems the most cases for alot of women. I think once them chemicals go to her brain she will switch and be a naughty girl. We have young children at the mo she said if we didn't we would do it soon rather than later
Does she really want to try or is it more a fantasy for her? It can be cool to role play and maybe use a dildo as the 'other man'.
Are you wanting to meet couples or just men?
It's a dangerous game - you can't undo it afterwards.
Maybe you could both visit a club and see what you think. "We want to meet a M for a MFM or for me just to watch that's our fantasy | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for
You'll find that happens.
So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one?
So my wife would be very nervous more than me for sure . She's made it clear she would like to take this into a reality eventually but it's getting over the actual meeting barrier isn't it . I feel once she gets going she will love it and enjoy herself I think she would feel very naughty you always hope it turns out in your mind . I spoke to lady yesterday she mentioned she was very nervous before she did it but once she did she was glad she did that seems the most cases for alot of women. I think once them chemicals go to her brain she will switch and be a naughty girl. We have young children at the mo she said if we didn't we would do it soon rather than later
Does she really want to try or is it more a fantasy for her? It can be cool to role play and maybe use a dildo as the 'other man'.
Are you wanting to meet couples or just men?
It's a dangerous game - you can't undo it afterwards.
Maybe you could both visit a club and see what you think.
We want to meet a M for a MFM or for me just to watch that's our fantasy "I think a single man is easier than a couple. You outnumber him. He may be more nervous than you are. I'd always suggest a social first. Or I'd call the man for a chat to prove I'm real and to suss out how he acted while chatting. Normal conversation, not sex chat. Then you could all 3 meet in the hotel bar for a drink and a chat then up to the room. You could all lie on the bed and chat, letting hands wander. That gets the adrenaline going and things move on naturally. | |||
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"^^yeah a male writer, I just checked Most of the more outrageous and crude forum topics originate from single men. Not all but most! Funny that don’t you think? I'm not single LOL Your thread isn't outrageous or crude. It's clear to me that you're finding your way around fab and asking questions.
Thank you. Someone who understands ..everyone is so uptight on here lol .
We really aren't.
What do you think to my post that described our first meet?
Shall we get this back on track?
Haha yes please ! People on here seem to go off topic alot I noticed and start a whole debate on something else and don't get answers I'm looking for
You'll find that happens.
So! How do you think your first meet would go if you have one?
So my wife would be very nervous more than me for sure . She's made it clear she would like to take this into a reality eventually but it's getting over the actual meeting barrier isn't it . I feel once she gets going she will love it and enjoy herself I think she would feel very naughty you always hope it turns out in your mind . I spoke to lady yesterday she mentioned she was very nervous before she did it but once she did she was glad she did that seems the most cases for alot of women. I think once them chemicals go to her brain she will switch and be a naughty girl. We have young children at the mo she said if we didn't we would do it soon rather than later
Does she really want to try or is it more a fantasy for her? It can be cool to role play and maybe use a dildo as the 'other man'.
Are you wanting to meet couples or just men?
It's a dangerous game - you can't undo it afterwards.
Maybe you could both visit a club and see what you think.
We want to meet a M for a MFM or for me just to watch that's our fantasy
I think a single man is easier than a couple. You outnumber him. He may be more nervous than you are.
I'd always suggest a social first. Or I'd call the man for a chat to prove I'm real and to suss out how he acted while chatting. Normal conversation, not sex chat.
Then you could all 3 meet in the hotel bar for a drink and a chat then up to the room. You could all lie on the bed and chat, letting hands wander. That gets the adrenaline going and things move on naturally. "My wife actually said that today to me saying imagine how nervous the man must feel to his meeting two of us for the first time | |||
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