FabSwingers.com forum: Taking the leap of faith

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

OK I'm very interested in your first meet.

Sharing my wife has been a long fantasy of mine now for some years. And after lots of dirty talk watching the wife go absolutely wild when I tell her I want to see her fuck someone in front of me is a huge huge turn on.

So we have agreed baby steps for now. Same room fucking seems to turn us both on or the thought of it certainly does.

How was your first meet. Did you go slow of just jump straight in.

Happy Sunday all

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

I've just finished writing a book on this subject.

Mrs N

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A drink at a nearby pub then jumped straight in. Funnily enough since then we have gone retrograde

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

I (he) brought it up a few times over the years and then more and more frequently by the time we found this place. Mrs actually said, 'look, if we're going to do it let's just do it' think she was done with all my talk, five weeks later she was having sex with a guy infront of me, so we jumped straight in I guess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a single male point of view who meets couples ….

I met my first couple at a bar for a few drinks , sat and chatted , got on great then i went to the toilet , came out and the wife was waiting outside the toilets for me and grabbed me for a kiss . When we returned to the table to hubby we all laughed and it was game on .

We met a week later at a hotel bar , had a drink then went up to the room and me and wifey had amazing sex while hubby sat and watched .

Some couples like a good social before just to make sure but i have had meets where its straight round to their house or hotel and straight down to business , everyone is different and wants different things

What ever works for you guys just go with it , takw your time , make the rules clear and have fun . I hope you have lots of naughty fun mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We took baby steps. Went to clubs and just played with each other and got used to being naked around others. We tried a few different things before our first threesome and just made sure we talked through everything we did. Obviously others will have different approaches but that worked well for us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We took baby steps. Went to clubs and just played with each other and got used to being naked around others. We tried a few different things before our first threesome and just made sure we talked through everything we did. Obviously others will have different approaches but that worked well for us."

That’s exactly how we’re playing it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That’s exactly how we’re playing it x"

It actually took us a long time to get there but that was mostly due to the pandemic. We sort of jumped straight into it once clubs reopened but we’ve still got a lot on our bucket list that we’re working our way up to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no couple are the same so just do your thing .... blogs books internet sites will not give you your answer there no set of rules theres no one way ...trust what you both want and stick to your guns ...only you know what you want ..not others

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"no couple are the same so just do your thing .... blogs books internet sites will not give you your answer there no set of rules theres no one way ...trust what you both want and stick to your guns ...only you know what you want ..not others"

So true!

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

My first swinging experience was with my GF (at that time) and I fucking, whilst a photographer and his mate watched and took pictures of us.

Gbat

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By *ensual 2Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

So true!"
very true we are all on different levels of experience in the land of swing ... little steps for us .. but well worth the wait .. a special moment when it finally happens

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

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By *arry monk40Man
over a year ago

Telford

I went slow watching first then slowly moved up the gears social was important to all 3 of us ended up an exclusive for 2 and half years of great fun and company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We spoke about it alot . We are taking baby steps . We both agreed we want to do it . It's just when as we have young children

she's only 28 so she said give it another couple years or so until the kids are more grown up

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By *lirtyAndFunCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Jumped straight in. V's biggest turn on is also seeing me with others. Our first meet was straight into me going off with a guy & filming it all for him to watch.

I love having sex and the rush of having someone else inside me was incredible & V absolutely loved watching & hearing it happen.

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