FabSwingers.com forum: How i can send attractive message

By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

Hey there

I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??

And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world

But would like to hear from u and tips or advices

Is messages like : I would like to meet

Up to meet

Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are bad???

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

"Hey there

I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??

And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world

But would like to hear from u and tips or advices

Is messages like : I would like to meet

Up to meet

Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are bad???"

That type of message to me is bad. Try paying someone a compliment or asking a question about their profile or photos.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Read their profile and based on that ask them an interesting question. I hate the examples you have given and would never respond to messages like that.

If someone’s put some effort in they are more likely to get a response, even if it’s a no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Simple logic really, read the profile, and write your message in conjunction of what it’s says.

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

Aha

Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?

U look gorgeous in the last pic

U r too hotty with that cum in ur face

Are these gd

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

Aha

I thought these make it more sexy ?? but sure gonna try to be more genius with messages

I like ur curves btw

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

Aha

Seems like this is the right way tho as u all agreed and mentioned same point

Gonna try my best tho and hope get replied

Ur bio is???? And ur video there just next level

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Most people are not compatible with most other people. Because of this, most messages will ultimately react a dead end. Poorer messages are likely to get there sooner, as they're not giving the sender much, if any, chances at all.

Read around the forum for other advice on this. Don't engage in chat that presumes anything.

Be yourself. Your message and profile need to sell you, not the you that the forum advise you to be. Recipients invariably view and read the profile of the sender before reading the message. Ensure it is top notch and sells you.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Aha

Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?

U look gorgeous in the last pic

U r too hotty with that cum in ur face

Are these gd "

Avoid like the plague

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

"Hey there

I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??

And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world

But would like to hear from u and tips or advices

Is messages like : I would like to meet

Up to meet

Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are bad???"

Skip all text speak

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

Aha i get it

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By *hloetTV/TS
over a year ago

Nottingham

Always makes me laugh when a guy asks me what he should write in a message to me. It's basically asking me to have a conversation with myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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"Aha

Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?

U look gorgeous in the last pic

U r too hotty with that cum in ur face

Are these gd "

Is this some kind of wind up???

Gentlemanly messages written in proper English and honed to the profile will see you in good stead.

'U want fuk' would dry up the moistest of soakin' minges in a second.

(I might give the 'U r 2 hotty...'one a go though

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Add a bit of humour and most importantly…offer cake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All individuals like compliments differently. It's like a game of Jenga. You play very tactfully and even that one brick that you thought was the golden one could knock it down.

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By *tephTV67TV/TS
over a year ago

Cheshire

First thing I’ll do when I get a message is check out their profile. If it’s weak and uninspired I’ll probably not go any further. The caveat would be if the message had everything the profile was lacking.

So my advice is create a profile worth reading and pictures worth salivating over. Then tailor your message to that person’s profile. Especially hint that something in your profile matches their interests or what they’re looking for in a meeting.

A ‘fancy a fuk’ message will maybe get one reply in a hundred and I doubt it’ll be pleasant

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

I cant tell if the OP is making spoof suggestions or not?!

What would you say if you went up to a woman in a pub, or even a Swinger's Club,for that matter?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should be natural. Every message is or should be individual/personal telling someone what to say to isn’t so…

Just message someone like you would approach them in person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Put

in it

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Aha

Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?

U look gorgeous in the last pic

U r too hotty with that cum in ur face

Are these gd "

If that’s what your sending no wonder your not having much luck

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By *alentTeaseMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

You have no chance. There are so many annoying people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You have no chance. There are so many annoying people "

Annoying in what way? How does that not give him a chance?

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By *avie65Man
over a year ago

In the west.

I'm just going to put the popcorn in the microwave.

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Aha

Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?

U look gorgeous in the last pic

U r too hotty with that cum in ur face

Are these gd

If that’s what your sending no wonder your not having much luck"

This^^^ if you cant naturally to a woman you have no chance. Sexual messages get you blocked instantly with most on here. Respect is key!

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

"It should be natural. Every message is or should be individual/personal telling someone what to say to isn’t so…

Just message someone like you would approach them in person"

Now this guy talks sense. Even then you aint guaranteed a fuck.

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Totnes

Go to socials better than a decade of messages

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Aha

Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?

U look gorgeous in the last pic

U r too hotty with that cum in ur face

Are these gd "

Perfect to send to couples, don’t forget to ask them

If you can “fuck your slut wife hard up the ass”

You will soon be beating them off with a shitty stick

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

")Aha

Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?

U look gorgeous in the last pic

U r too hotty with that cum in ur face

Are these gd

Is this some kind of wind up???

Gentlemanly messages written in proper English and honed to the profile will see you in good stead.

'U want fuk' would dry up the moistest of soakin' minges in a second.

(I might give the 'U r 2 hotty...'one a go though

Pussies will dry up like a prune in the sun with hid banter.

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"Aha

Even if it’s not related to sex or something naughty u mean just like general question about what they mention in their bio?

U look gorgeous in the last pic

U r too hotty with that cum in ur face

Are these gd

If that’s what your sending no wonder your not having much luck"

I’m leaving fab now, the rest of us men don’t stand a chance !

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By *lan157Man
over a year ago

a village near Haywards Heath in East Sussex

This is what works OP. Read a woman's profile in full at least 3 times and be sure you meet everyone one of her stated essential requirements.Write your message with good grammar and spelling and no text speak.Attach a face photo. Write about things on her profile and don't write about sex.It won't work every time but worth you trying . Remember you are trying to get a reply in the first instance .

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By *uzboxCouple
over a year ago

Northwich

Me thinks that the OP is extracting the urine

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

[Removed by poster at 18/02/22 16:46:04]

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

"I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ?"

Well we'd ignore you simply because your profile picture appears on three other web sites. Now it *could* be that you're a model and they are legitimately using your photo. But it's far more likely that you've stolen it and are therefore NOT going to look like that.

(Bry)

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By *exy wife and her CuckCouple
over a year ago

Angus

"Me thinks that the OP is extracting the urine "

Yep that's my thoughts too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Say something interesting and complimentary op, lots of people get so many messages that you have to stand out from the crowd.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lol! This has to be a wind-up, surely

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

I get it

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

I don’t know cuz my lack of experience I thought it’s gd idea to take some tips and yh u all lovely

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

Oh that’s nice

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

I always offer but gonna add the humor tho

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

I felt that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Oh that’s nice "

Use reply +quote so we know who you are replying to…

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

Soo helpful

Great ??

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By *uicyiguanaCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

Pretty sure this guy has a fake account and is taking the mick.

Just reverse serach his profile pic.

How so many fake profiles get verified is beyond me.

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

I found it easier there as i can say like about drinks or vibes there and start chatting, there will sure get a reply either way if yh or nh but here just ignored ??

Like ur curves btw

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

That’s helpful

Thx

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

I’ll do

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

That’s funny ??

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"Pretty sure this guy has a fake account and is taking the mick.

Just reverse serach his profile pic.

How so many fake profiles get verified is beyond me."

Report him

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"Oh that’s nice

Use reply +quote so we know who you are replying to…"

Oh sry

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

"I’ll do

Use "reply and quote" otherwise no-one knows who/what you're replying to.

(Bry)

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By *uicyiguanaCouple
over a year ago

Yeovil

"Pretty sure this guy has a fake account and is taking the mick.

Just reverse serach his profile pic.

How so many fake profiles get verified is beyond me.

Report him"

Already have, just making it public so others can too

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"Pretty sure this guy has a fake account and is taking the mick.

Just reverse serach his profile pic.

How so many fake profiles get verified is beyond me."

Yh hun sry this is not me there as I’m playing discreet

But I’m photo verified and just join this world

Sry for that

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"I’ll do

Use "reply and quote" otherwise no-one knows who/what you're replying to.

(Bry)"

Yh sry they just told me

I’m sry don’t know that much here

Thank u

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"Pretty sure this guy has a fake account and is taking the mick.

Just reverse serach his profile pic.

How so many fake profiles get verified is beyond me.

Report him"

Sry why ?

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ?

(Bry)"

Yh yh I’m so sorry i just mentioned that’s not me but I’m photo verified

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

"I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ?

(Bry)

Yh yh I’m so sorry i just mentioned that’s not me but I’m photo verified

You are not allowed to use others photos pretending they are your own. Being photo verified means nothing

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Fake account. Google shows this pic on liposuction site.

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ?

(Bry)

I’m sry gonna delete it now

Yh yh I’m so sorry i just mentioned that’s not me but I’m photo verified

You are not allowed to use others photos pretending they are your own. Being photo verified means nothing"

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"Fake account. Google shows this pic on liposuction site. "

I’m so sry yh that’s not me but I’ll delete it

Btw each time i chat with anyone i tell them and send my face pic

But not pretending this is me

So sry for that

Apologies

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

So sry all of u

I’m not pretending to be anyone

I just delete that pic and I’m so sry for that

Excuse my lack of experience here

Thank you all for ur messages and advices u gave me

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By *ad Bod 2023Man
over a year ago

Beverley

"Hey there

I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??

And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world

But would like to hear from u and tips or advices

Is messages like : I would like to meet

Up to meet

Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are bad???"

Try writing in English and not text speak or whatever it is you're writing in.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

nr Stamford

"So sry all of u

I’m not pretending to be anyone

I just delete that pic and I’m so sry for that

Excuse my lack of experience here

Thank you all for ur messages and advices u gave me

Credit for removing the picture and even for coming back to your thread and reading replies - far too many guys ask for advice then never acknowledge it.

It looks like English isn't your first language, so you're up against it a bit. But try and avoid "text speak" - in other words, type out your full words. Maybe say something on your profile about where you're from, and even start off your messages explaining that you're (whatever nationality) and excuse the mistakes.

That might even be a bonus - Char has a big thing for foreign accents and I'm sure others do, too.

(Bry)

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"Hey there

I found it really difficult send messages and get replied, as most of the time get ignored ??

And I’m fine with that cuz I’m still don’t have that experience here and in this swingers world

But would like to hear from u and tips or advices

Is messages like : I would like to meet

Up to meet

Wanna please ur wife , can i fuck ur partner are

bad???

Aha

Thank you so much

I will try to write in better way

Try writing in English and not text speak or whatever it is you're writing in. "

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By *auel OP Man
over a year ago

kilpern

"So sry all of u

I’m not pretending to be anyone

I just delete that pic and I’m so sry for that

Excuse my lack of experience here

Thank you all for ur messages and advices u gave me

Credit for removing the picture and even for coming back to your thread and reading replies - far too many guys ask for advice then never acknowledge it.

That might even be a bonus - Char has a big thing for foreign accents and I'm sure others do, too.

(Bry)"

Thank you so much

But yes you are right

English is not my first language and for the last year i was trying my hard to make it good

But yes i got what you mean I’ll try to update my bio with more details about me , and i will start write in English not to speak which is what i was doing actually

Appreciate your tips

Stay safe ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

advice from the forums just make your profile not you and like the 100s who ask every week all the same boring profiles that will still get you no where ... why cant you just be you learn as your going along as a woman i want to know from your profile if im interested or not from the real you not you pretending to be someone else from advice you've taken ...

your taking advice from the smallest crowd on fab ...half of whom never play ??? be yourself lets see the real you so people can make there minds up for themselves ....the real reason your getting nowhere is down to the fact there are 100s xx of men per women thats the real reason tour getting nowhere ...

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