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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

So frustrated as to why a couple just recently contacted me added me as a friend after 1 email checked out all my pics and have now deleted me after I replied and asked them about a potential meet at Partners.Didn't realise I was so hideous or rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Typical behaviour for some - they want to look over your private pics and then decide you're not for them. Don't read too much into it...

onwards and upwards!

Wolf

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By *orkieMan
over a year ago

Who knows

Happens frequently on here

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Typical behaviour for some - they want to look over your private pics and then decide you're not for them. Don't read too much into it...

onwards and upwards!

Wolf

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You're right of course ,more annoyed at being sucked in I suppose.Been on here long enough to no better but sometimes horny hormones get the better of my mindset

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Typical behaviour for some - they want to look over your private pics and then decide you're not for them. Don't read too much into it...

onwards and upwards!

Wolf

You're right of course ,more annoyed at being sucked in I suppose.Been on here long enough to no better but sometimes horny hormones get the better of my mindset"
upwards indeed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Typical behaviour for some - they want to look over your private pics and then decide you're not for them. Don't read too much into it...

onwards and upwards!

Wolf

You're right of course ,more annoyed at being sucked in I suppose.Been on here long enough to no better but sometimes horny hormones get the better of my mindset"

It's just bad manners to be honest. I must admit, we have done the same thing (added as a friend, then deleted after one look) but only where the public pics didn't really show anything or a decent face pic wasn't forthcoming. When we have done that, I always send them a message to explain. Some take it in good part, but others just get shitty about it. At the end of the day, we all have to make a decision about someone we have contacted or vice versa, and if it takes adding them as a friend, checking out their private pics and then saying 'No', then it has to be that way.

Don't ever take it personally, but it is still bad manners to do it the way they have.

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

bad manners yes.I don' take it personally I accept I am not everyones cup o tea,its not something I would do.Just wish people wouldn't be so rude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bad manners yes.I don' take it personally I accept I am not everyones cup o tea,its not something I would do.Just wish people wouldn't be so rude."
Have tried to message you privately about something but your age range filter won't allow.

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield

hang on will have a look

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So frustrated as to why a couple just recently contacted me added me as a friend after 1 email checked out all my pics and have now deleted me after I replied and asked them about a potential meet at Partners.Didn't realise I was so hideous or rude. "

Well you look fine to me. Maybe see you in Partners one day.

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"bad manners yes.I don' take it personally I accept I am not everyones cup o tea,its not something I would do.Just wish people wouldn't be so rude.Have tried to message you privately about something but your age range filter won't allow.

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I have changed my age range now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So frustrated as to why a couple just recently contacted me added me as a friend after 1 email checked out all my pics and have now deleted me after I replied and asked them about a potential meet at Partners.Didn't realise I was so hideous or rude. "

Would give them directions to specsavers.....you look lush

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"So frustrated as to why a couple just recently contacted me added me as a friend after 1 email checked out all my pics and have now deleted me after I replied and asked them about a potential meet at Partners.Didn't realise I was so hideous or rude.

Well you look fine to me. Maybe see you in Partners one day."
yeah I tend to go Saturdays about once every month or so

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"So frustrated as to why a couple just recently contacted me added me as a friend after 1 email checked out all my pics and have now deleted me after I replied and asked them about a potential meet at Partners.Didn't realise I was so hideous or rude.

Would give them directions to specsavers.....you look lush "

So kind thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tried to wink at you but it said it wouldn't let me as I'm not a site supporter.

So here's a wink.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"So frustrated as to why a couple just recently contacted me added me as a friend after 1 email checked out all my pics and have now deleted me after I replied and asked them about a potential meet at Partners.Didn't realise I was so hideous or rude.

Well you look fine to me. Maybe see you in Partners one day.yeah I tend to go Saturdays about once every month or so"

I'll bear that in mind.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Tried to wink at you but it said it wouldn't let me as I'm not a site supporter.

So here's a wink. "

Lets hope the winking and fluttering eyelash emoticons have made up for his deletion.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know

I just looked at your pictures and you look okay to me....Perhaps the one with your face could have had a bit more light so you can see your face a bit better, don't worry about it their loss not yours

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"I just looked at your pictures and you look okay to me....Perhaps the one with your face could have had a bit more light so you can see your face a bit better, don't worry about it their loss not yours "
better face pic now on thanks for the tip

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By *laphe1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Huddersfield


"Tried to wink at you but it said it wouldn't let me as I'm not a site supporter.

So here's a wink.

Lets hope the winking and fluttering eyelash emoticons have made up for his deletion. "
they have thanks,I feel like James Brown now

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