FabSwingers.com forum: First time at a club ....

By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Anybody here in Fab-land ever wanted to visit a club but too nervous to try ?

I'm curious to see how many would love to try a visit but nerves prevent them x

Mrs N

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've wanted to try a club for ages. Our friends invited us along with them a few weeks ago, it was actually really fun and not at all nerve racking

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I want to visit but I hate big gatherings. Get nervous and anxious so stuck in the middle lol

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

I went to my first a few weeks ago on my own, and it was a brilliant combination of been totality relaxed and so turned on by what was happening in front of my eyes, a brand new but fantastic feeling - give it a go x

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By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We prefer going to a club to home meets. Clubs are far more exciting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would love to go but far too scared! One day x

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By *ovingeachotherCouple
over a year ago

Devizes

We are desperate to go to a club but want to go with another couple for moral support! X

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

I'm scared too

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By *LiamMan
over a year ago

Midlands

Am I the only one who doesn't want to go to a club

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

I always go my self everyone makes you feel welcome

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

Me definitely an don't know of any close to Wigan

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

"Me definitely an don't know of any close to Wigan "

Closest one to Wigan is probably No.3 in Chorley, but there are loads in the NW!

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By *jekimMan
over a year ago

Wigan

"Me definitely an don't know of any close to Wigan

Closest one to Wigan is probably No.3 in Chorley, but there are loads in the NW! "
haha thanks very much just need someone brave go with now haha

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By *aughtycp1 OP Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"We are desperate to go to a club but want to go with another couple for moral support! X"

We enjoy the social side of the lifestyle as much as having fun. So if any couple ever wanted to join us at our favourite club Liberty Elite, we would be very happy to join up with newbies for the moral support. Once you are inside you realise there is nothing to be nervous about. Everyone is so friendly and the place is so chilled x

Mrs N

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By *D89Man
over a year ago

Castle Donington

Been considering going to a club for a while. I got invited last time I was on here but I've heard some clubs can be funny with the amount of single guys going so I've been put off it for a while.

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By *andy 1Couple
over a year ago

northeast

no prob with single guys at infusions they r all welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We went to a club prior to lockdown with a bunch of friends and did not like the vibe however, since lockdown we have been visiting another club on our own, most weekends.

It depends what kind of atmosphere the club you want to be, the one we go to is chilled out, with a dance floor area and play rooms off elsewhere, which is exactly what I like.

It can be nerve racking and seeing people dressed so differently is a bit of an eye opener at first but you soon get used to it.

Honestly best thing we ever did was bite the bullet.

We never go expecting to play with others (I'm damned if I am paying £40 and not getting a fuck from doughnut before we leave lol), we go to chat and dance mainly, anytning else is a bonus.

Danish x

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

I’ve wanted to go to a club for some time now, probably more for the social side than anything else. Just worried I’d be sitting there in my own talking to myself

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By *jayjMan
over a year ago

Farringdon, Central London

Definitely been pondering on it for a while. And for sure, a little nervous of having to brave it on my own!

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By *imBanksMan
over a year ago

Letchworth

Been as a couple with the ex but never on my own. Would love to try again

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

I went to Chams for the first time in December. I was as nervous as anything, but loved it.

I don’t think I’d ever have braved it alone, but having my other half to go with made the big difference.

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By *hatMinxOverThereWoman
over a year ago

42 Wallaby Way

I’ve been as a couple and with a male friend but never alone. Not sure I’d manage it alone haha

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By *ugarandspicecoupleCouple
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Yes! We are pretty new to the whole idea of swinging so the idea of going to a club before private meets appeals to us as we can have a real life experience of the scene without getting involved if we don't feel like it.

It's just finding the right place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We prefer going to a club to home meets. Clubs are far more exciting x"

We are the same, we dived straight into the club scene and love it, still haven't done a private meet and probably never will

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By *nchantedRoseWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

Been lots of times as a couple. Tonight's my first night going alone

Looking forward to it but also a little nervous

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By *jayjMan
over a year ago

Farringdon, Central London

"Been lots of times as a couple. Tonight's my first night going alone

Looking forward to it but also a little nervous

Good luck!

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By *nchantedRoseWoman
over a year ago

cardiff

"Been lots of times as a couple. Tonight's my first night going alone

Looking forward to it but also a little nervous

Good luck!

Thank you

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By *he HandiemanMan
over a year ago

north west

Ive never been one but wouldnt mind experiencing it at least once

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