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Cannot accomodate/cannot travel

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By *anuel ducati OP   Man
over a year ago

leyburn

Is this some kind of code that I don't know about?, what conclusion should I get from this, anybody know?

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By *lzee2Man
over a year ago

Stansted

Haha yes, I’ve been wondering about this ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They can't meet at home and don't have access to a car is how I understand it. They also only want to do social or club meets.

If they and you want to meet then I'm sure something can be worked out.

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By *anuel ducati OP   Man
over a year ago

leyburn


"Haha yes, I’ve been wondering about this .. "

I thought it was just me

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By *anuel ducati OP   Man
over a year ago

leyburn


"They can't meet at home and don't have access to a car is how I understand it. They also only want to do social or club meets.

If they and you want to meet then I'm sure something can be worked out."

Ok, that sounds reasonable, thanks for your input.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"They can't meet at home and don't have access to a car is how I understand it. They also only want to do social or club meets.

If they and you want to meet then I'm sure something can be worked out."

Exactly this.

Can't accomodate speaks for itself and can't travel usually means they need to stay within a reasonable distance from home. Might be happy to travel 10 miles away but not 50 sort of thing.

Is this not common knowledge?

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By *edantic SheilaWoman
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

I have this on my profile..I can't accommodate in the family home for obvious reasons. I don't drive so I specified the distance range I am willing to travel...I have travelled further than that tho

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By *anuel ducati OP   Man
over a year ago

leyburn


"They can't meet at home and don't have access to a car is how I understand it. They also only want to do social or club meets.

If they and you want to meet then I'm sure something can be worked out.

Exactly this.

Can't accomodate speaks for itself and can't travel usually means they need to stay within a reasonable distance from home. Might be happy to travel 10 miles away but not 50 sort of thing.

Is this not common knowledge?

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Thanks, I suppose everybody's interpretation could be different but I think yours sounds most likely.

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By *anuel ducati OP   Man
over a year ago

leyburn


"I have this on my profile..I can't accommodate in the family home for obvious reasons. I don't drive so I specified the distance range I am willing to travel...I have travelled further than that tho "

Thanks, so if you don't drive but you specify a range you are willing to travel, would that be by public transport or taxi or perhaps a lift from a friend maybe?.

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By *iceButtSlimMan
over a year ago

somewhere

I also look at it as someone who is just here for the forums and keeping contact with others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just want to meet in a hotel close to home, or have someone pick them up in a car, who knows.

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By *anuel ducati OP   Man
over a year ago

leyburn


"Maybe they just want to meet in a hotel close to home, or have someone pick them up in a car, who knows."

Yes it seems there could be as many different interpretations as there are people on the planet. I just wondered if there was a standard meaning that I didn't know about. I am very grateful for everybody's help.

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By *eterinpantiesukMan
over a year ago

southam

Possibly want to play in a van nearby

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

1. They only meet locally (some interpret "travel" as hundreds of miles)

2. They only meet in clubs

3. They only do cam play

4. They're not meeting at the moment

5. It might be on their profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best to just check with the person whos profile its on as many have different ways of managing meets. As others have said club meets, hotels, will only travel an hour by train etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I use it as a filter really, its stopped all the 'meet now' messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you say Can travel, people assume you will travel from London to Edinburgh to fuck them.

If you say Can accommodate, people assume you are happy for them to turn up uninvited day or night.

Easier to tick No to both.

If people had any sense they would talk to the profile owner as though they were a human being and not just some sex meat.

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By *anuel ducati OP   Man
over a year ago

leyburn

This is all good information and very helpful, I really appreciate it, I feel very touched that so many people have taken the time to reach out, thankyou and happy fabbing xx

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is this some kind of code that I don't know about?, what conclusion should I get from this, anybody know?"

Fab isn’t complicated; if in doubt, ask

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