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"Yep and it’s not nice… we’re all adults no need for playground games… " I guess people get desensitised and forget it's another person they're messing around with... | |||
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"Unfortunately very common on here " And other sites too... Not mentioning names lol | |||
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"It's pretty crap. Two guys I had a social scheduled with cancelled then ghosted me recently. It's why I'm not meeting. I've had enough!" What sort of clown shoe wearing bozo ghosts you? Their loss. | |||
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"Anyone else found themselves spending hours chatting to an enthusiastic individual, only to find they've discovered someone more exciting the next day and they're not interested any more? Obviously to be expected, but it seems the more effort you put in the less you get back. No better than I remember tinder being lol." Yes pretty common on here. That’s why I mostly go to clubs | |||
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"Anyone else found themselves spending hours chatting to an enthusiastic individual, only to find they've discovered someone more exciting the next day and they're not interested any more? Obviously to be expected, but it seems the more effort you put in the less you get back. No better than I remember tinder being lol. Yes pretty common on here. That’s why I mostly go to clubs " Same here. Clubs and social events are a way to find the real folk. Not saying there are not real folk on fab, you just gotta wade through the time wasters and dreamers to find them. | |||
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"It's pretty crap. Two guys I had a social scheduled with cancelled then ghosted me recently. It's why I'm not meeting. I've had enough! What sort of clown shoe wearing bozo ghosts you? Their loss." Lol. Thank you | |||
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"Being Ghosted is awful, not only is it a waste of time; but it’s confusing, especially when you have no idea why? and at times takes an emotional an mental toll on you. I had to take a break because of it. " This is the trouble, I get when someone's not interested or you don't connect, but when you've been having great conversation and they decided to ignore you, it makes it harder to try again next time. | |||
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"I can spend weeks chatting to people then they go quiet. I've found women to be worse than men/couples on that front." Too much choice I think! | |||
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"Anyone else found themselves spending hours chatting to an enthusiastic individual, only to find they've discovered someone more exciting the next day and they're not interested any more? Obviously to be expected, but it seems the more effort you put in the less you get back. No better than I remember tinder being lol." Treat them mean keeps them keen! | |||
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"Yes this happens a lot on here. It even happened after meeting for a drink. Everything went well kiss at the end etc. and then vanish. I completely understand if I’m not their type but just say. I think the problem on here is people always think there is someone better. " I think you're probably right. I've had guys meet me, we had a fab time, then they ghost. Started to wonder what was wrong with me. | |||
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"Anyone else found themselves spending hours chatting to an enthusiastic individual, only to find they've discovered someone more exciting the next day and they're not interested any more? Obviously to be expected, but it seems the more effort you put in the less you get back. No better than I remember tinder being lol." Happens to us all unfortunately Learning not to take it too personally helps and I just think well if they were that fickle they won't have been much fun | |||
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"You lot are chatting with people on here??" No! We are replying to comments on a forum. | |||
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"Being Ghosted is awful, not only is it a waste of time; but it’s confusing, especially when you have no idea why? and at times takes an emotional an mental toll on you. I had to take a break because of it. This is the trouble, I get when someone's not interested or you don't connect, but when you've been having great conversation and they decided to ignore you, it makes it harder to try again next time." Yep, in my particular instance. This individual told me I was one of her “best” (her words, not mine I promise LOL). Literally asked me to come and meet her, then…block on social media. Totally fucked with my head. | |||
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" Yep, in my particular instance. This individual told me I was one of her “best” (her words, not mine I promise LOL). Literally asked me to come and meet her, then…block on social media. Totally fucked with my head." Mate I feel for you, no logical explanation most of the time. Such a disappointment | |||
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"Yep and it’s not nice… we’re all adults no need for playground games… I guess people get desensitised and forget it's another person they're messing around with..." I think after 8 months I deserved more respect! X | |||
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"Being Ghosted is awful, not only is it a waste of time; but it’s confusing, especially when you have no idea why? and at times takes an emotional an mental toll on you. I had to take a break because of it. " Very true x | |||
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"It's pretty crap. Two guys I had a social scheduled with cancelled then ghosted me recently. It's why I'm not meeting. I've had enough! What sort of clown shoe wearing bozo ghosts you? Their loss." I know I don’t get it myself. Inconceivable is just lovely. | |||
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"It's pretty crap. Two guys I had a social scheduled with cancelled then ghosted me recently. It's why I'm not meeting. I've had enough! What sort of clown shoe wearing bozo ghosts you? Their loss. I know I don’t get it myself. Inconceivable is just lovely." Oh thank you very much. I expect someone better/easier etc came along. | |||
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"Almost as bad as been blocked without chatting to the person who blocked you" Is that aimed at me? | |||
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"Almost as bad as been blocked without chatting to the person who blocked you Is that aimed at me? " Christ no, definitely not aimed at anyone in particular, was just a statement that's all, definitely no offence meant towards anyone | |||
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"Almost as bad as been blocked without chatting to the person who blocked you Is that aimed at me? Christ no, definitely not aimed at anyone in particular, was just a statement that's all, definitely no offence meant towards anyone" Oh ok. It's just we live near each other. I can understand it's off putting when you don't know why you're blocked. I've been blocked and don't know why! | |||
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"Fem A here we just experienced this yesterday. Cpl arranged to meet, had FF phone call which was chatty and we both laughed and then they sent us a video explaining they were happy to come to ours with btl wine and chat with no expectations of anything. A time was arranged. 45mins before they were due a message sent to us saying they would be with us 30mins earlier than planned, fine we were OK then 15mins before they are due message to say she had cold feet. Then they unfriended & nothing. Now we are not under any illusion this happens but why not be honest and give the respect to us that we gave them. We are all adults after all. Feels like a slap in the face, but highlights the downside of Fab. Today is another day, onwards and upwards. X" The vagaries and unpredictably of recreational sex! | |||
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"Yep and it’s not nice… we’re all adults no need for playground games… I guess people get desensitised and forget it's another person they're messing around with..." Hats off to you, so true and a problem with the Internet full stop, hence keyboard aggression which sees arguments take off rapidly over seemingly trivial issues. | |||
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"Yes this happens a lot on here. It even happened after meeting for a drink. Everything went well kiss at the end etc. and then vanish. I completely understand if I’m not their type but just say. I think the problem on here is people always think there is someone better. " This is so true x Hotwife | |||
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"I can spend weeks chatting to people then they go quiet. I've found women to be worse than men/couples on that front." Agreed. I generally suspect that said women are actually men using fake accounts. | |||
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"Anyone else found themselves spending hours chatting to an enthusiastic individual, only to find they've discovered someone more exciting the next day and they're not interested any more? Obviously to be expected, but it seems the more effort you put in the less you get back. No better than I remember tinder being lol." It happens all too often, but that's life - they don't have to talk if they don't want to. I just wish them all the best and hope they have a happy life. | |||
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