FabSwingers.com forum: Essex Social

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

We see posts on here a lot about socials (organised nights) all over the country for like minded local people to get to know each other etc but haven't seen one for Essex since we have been on here.

Does anyone know if we have missed something or if they just don't happen in this area?

Any help would be appreciated x

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

We’ve not seen many at all. It is strange how Essex seems to be a bit of a desert for clubs too.

Still, if you find one that looks old fun then think of us and pop us a message about it - we’d love a social.

J&L xx

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By *algraMan
over a year ago

Colchester

There is not a lot going on in Essex as London is too close and swallows every thing up .. it would be good to see something in Essex as its a hike to get London for us in North Essex

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

There's one in the U.K. forum being advertised at the moment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be very interested in an Essex social as it’s not too far for us to travel

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

This is a promising start and gives us hope that there is some interested parties in and around Essex xx

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

What’s everyone’s preferred style of socials?

1: public area within pub/bar/hotel

2: private venue/bar/room

3: private home

4: private room in hotel

5: other?

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

No 3 for me

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"No 3 for me"

Remembering it’s only a social. Would you enjoy a “come dine with me” or a more a canapé & Chardonnay soirée ?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Private area within a bar, by holding it in a hotel it might lead some to believe more than a social is on offer

Holding it in a public place, people can choose if they want to take it back to their hotels/homes afterwards

Plus a hotel are likely to charge you for the space where pubs/bars will normally reserve an area for free, plus asking people to pay towards things always makes some uneasy/unwilling to commit, some will want to pay in the day etc (although personally I think it's a good idea to sell tickets to cover costs etc as that way you'll get a good idea on numbers etc & if people are no shows you're not left out of pocket)

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Private area within a bar, by holding it in a hotel it might lead some to believe more than a social is on offer

Holding it in a public place, people can choose if they want to take it back to their hotels/homes afterwards

that makes a lot of sense.

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By *hristopherd999Man
over a year ago

Brentwood

"No 3 for me

Remembering it’s only a social. Would you enjoy a “come dine with me” or a more a canapé & Chardonnay soirée ?"

canapé & Chardonnay soirée or something like that, it's a bit less formal

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

Essex guy here. Thanks for starting the thread. Finding anyone on here in Essex seems to be tricky.

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By *uffolkClareClactonDaveCouple
over a year ago

Felixstowe/Clacton-on-Sea

"Essex guy here. Thanks for starting the thread. Finding anyone on here in Essex seems to be tricky. "

There's plenty on here from Essex mate but they tend to stick to clubs in London or Jaydees (our favourite), The Annex, Penthouse Playrooms or VA.

I'd love to come to a social but I'll likely be on my own as I live in Clacton and Mistress Clare lives in Felixstowe.

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

Yeah I think it’s because I don’t really do clubs that I find it hard to meet people. Not sure they are for me but I know a lot like them.

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By *asques and boxersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford and dept16

If its any where near the kent boarder wonder if we could sneak in without a passport.lol

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By *L RogueMan
over a year ago

London

In East London so not far.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have started a thread last week about arranging a social in the Essex area, roughly the Chelmsford area. Have a look and message if interested ????

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By *razy ShenanigansCouple
over a year ago

Chelmsford

We'd be interested in Chelmsford/Essex based events, socials or otherwise

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By *ssexSwitchMan
over a year ago

hornchurch

Did you have any luck with the thread? Guys can’t message you so i couldn’t check lol

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

No 3. Private home. Even if it is a social.

As long as everyone knows they are just there for a social and chats, and there are not needy guys that think they are going to get lucky.

It’s nice chatting t9 people on here but would be nice t9 chat in person too

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

^ definitely.

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

It’s normally the younger that spoil that sort of scenario

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We hold a social once a month, we found a lovely little independent pub who closes for the night for us, so maybe look out for something like that, our first one we had we held in a pub and people eating their dinner very close to us meant we couldn't have the conversation we wanted. The new venue is aware of the group and we can chat about what we want and not get looks lol.

I wouldn't attend a social in someone's home I have never met, even if it was billed as social only, I would feel that maybe not everyone would see it that way.

Good luck x

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Down in Essex at the begining of April. A nice relaxing evening with others would be Fab ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m in Essex and find there is a lack of socials, meets and clubs. There was once a swingers club in Colchester but, it got closed before I had the chance to visit.

Would be up for socials and naughty meets in north Essex (maybe all of Essex as I travel a little for work).

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What’s everyone’s preferred style of socials?

1: public area within pub/bar/hotel

2: private venue/bar/room

3: private home

4: private room in hotel

5: other?"

We'd say number 1 for us so it's a social and it doesn't get confused with a club sort of night.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 1, in a public area of a bar, pub or hotel is good. A social meet, a drink or two, connections made, fun to be had

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"What’s everyone’s preferred style of socials?

1: public area within pub/bar/hotel

2: private venue/bar/room

3: private home

4: private room in hotel

5: other?

We'd say number 1 for us so it's a social and it doesn't get confused with a club sort of night. "

Agree.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I saw one advertised for Essex when I first joined a couple of years ago but I've not seen anything since. Would those just across the border be welcome?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I saw one advertised for Essex when I first joined a couple of years ago but I've not seen anything since. Would those just across the border be welcome? "

Across the boarder or not, you’d be very welcome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We would be interested in this , somewhere with a bar sounds good. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I arranged a few Essex socials about 10 years ago and I always work better just a group of people meeting in a pub as soon as you start charging or getting people to buy tickets that's when the numbers drop

We used to use the Halfway House in Brentwood and there's plenty of hotels nearby if anyone wants to take it any further

After we done a couple of social meets, within set 1 or 2 up at clubs which really worked well

I would happy to help if anyone is interested in sitting one up

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By *weetPea-kMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Id love to be part of an Essex group social and to actually get the chance to meet and chat rather than sending messages on here and being ignored

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Following along with this as I’m Essex and found areas to be very quiet. Would love to be involved in a social. Meet more like minded people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The more noise we make about it the more people will want to come x

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By *algraMan
over a year ago

Colchester

Organising it in a pub attached to a Premier Inn is A good idea as those who want to play can book rooms ..the pubs tend to be large an we can get an area to ourselves

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By *untimescolchesterMan
over a year ago

Colchester

Definitely interested in an Essex social, had one in Colchester just in a pub. Was fun!

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"What’s everyone’s preferred style of socials?

1: public area within pub/bar/hotel

2: private venue/bar/room

3: private home

4: private room in hotel

5: other?

We'd say number 1 for us so it's a social and it doesn't get confused with a club sort of night. "

I'd say number 1 too. Be happy to pop along and say hi

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A pub meet sounds good, just not sure I’d actually be brave enough to go lol

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By *ssexguyandyMan
over a year ago

Grays

Sounds good are single guys invited to these socials??

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"A pub meet sounds good, just not sure I’d actually be brave enough to go lol"

Nerves are natural. I hate weddings and corporate events etc. The trick is to alway know your “exit strategy” - like “if we aren’t enjoying it, we can leave” or “we’d like to stay but not only talk to people you’d be interesting in meeting with” then maybe think of some simple polite “thank you but no thank you” lines.

For this you’ll just be going to a pub and saying hello. But if that gets the nerves jangling then just enjoy the pub, and let others say hey to you. Then if you’re still not enjoying it, use your exit strategy so you can enjoy something else instead.

Hope it helps xx

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Sounds good are single guys invited to these socials??"

Some may, other may not but I’m sure it’d be in big bold lettering on the tag line if there were limits or exclusions though

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By *im2203Couple
over a year ago

colchester

We would be up for it . Pub with a hotel close by would be good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep going with numbers and maybe we might get enough for one to be organised

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By *voKid21Man
over a year ago

Tiptree

I’m in Lexden, Colchester. Pretty new to the world of swinging and not getting much luck on here really but would still be great to meet some new people and make some new friends.

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By *ewfun400Couple
over a year ago

Romford

We would definitely be interested in coming to a social - nice chat, no pressure, meet some people - sounds great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to go to that

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By *veryonelovesdaveMan
over a year ago

Ipswich

"What’s everyone’s preferred style of socials?

1: public area within pub/bar/hotel

2: private venue/bar/room

3: private home

4: private room in hotel

5: other?

I'd say 1, I'd be very interested if this was to happen

We'd say number 1 for us so it's a social and it doesn't get confused with a club sort of night. "

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By *iftyishMan
over a year ago

South Coast

Would love to go, married, live in Southampton but visit my Dad once every 6-7 weeks. Never been to a social nor a club either.

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

about ten years ago we had lots of essex socials at the halfway house and eureekas

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

There seems to be a lot of male interest for sure. Hopefully more couples and women get involved along the way x

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"There seems to be a lot of male interest for sure. Hopefully more couples and women get involved along the way x"
definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just looking at venues, would people be up for a bar in Chelmsford. Obviously hotels are near by if people should hit it off and the rest of us can carry on drinking and chatting x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just looking at venues, would people be up for a bar in Chelmsford. Obviously hotels are near by if people should hit it off and the rest of us can carry on drinking and chatting x"

Chelmsford is a great central location I think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ok I’ll hunt a good venue. How is the middle of March looking for everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I’ll hunt a good venue. How is the middle of March looking for everyone "

March is crazy busy for me including hosting a social

but go with the majority, hopefully I can come to the next one

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Ok I’ll hunt a good venue. How is the middle of March looking for everyone

March is crazy busy for me including hosting a social

but go with the majority, hopefully I can come to the next one

When would be good for you…love you to be there

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

We as newbies would love to go to a social meet at a pub/bar etc, would be great to be able to chat to others, and as mentioned by others as long as it’s just a social and not a meet for chancers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A pub meet sounds good, just not sure I’d actually be brave enough to go lol

Hope it helps xx

Lol thank you xx

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By *ucelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

"Just looking at venues, would people be up for a bar in Chelmsford. Obviously hotels are near by if people should hit it off and the rest of us can carry on drinking and chatting x"

We are in Essex too. Love a social invite

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Just looking at venues, would people be up for a bar in Chelmsford. Obviously hotels are near by if people should hit it off and the rest of us can carry on drinking and chatting x"

Chelmsford would work fine for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does seam very baron around here!

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

"I have started a thread last week about arranging a social in the Essex area, roughly the Chelmsford area. Have a look and message if interested ????"

Hi, we’re interested, couldn’t find the thread you mentioned? Would be good to meet other couples etc, we would also be nervous but want to meet like minded others

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon

Would be nice to meet and chat to some couples with out any pressure on either party. Just be nice to laugh, chat, flirt and get to know . And the see what else happens at a later date

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By *hatshisfaceMan
over a year ago

ipswich

"It does seam very baron around here! "

It’s a Sudbury thing! If you ever fancy a beer let me know

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By *nthony692020Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Well up for a social

Bar sounds good

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By *weetPea-kMan
over a year ago

chelmsford

Any update on this yet ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd love to attend an Essex social xx

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Sign me up, will bring snacks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We'd be interested on an Essex meet up

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Social sounds good, but where?

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"Social sounds good, but where? "

Chelmsford was mentioned a little further up in the thread and seemed to get a fair amount of agreement.

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By *algraMan
over a year ago

Colchester

Chelmsford sounds good as its central and easy for everyone to get to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for a social and chelmsford is a good place to meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm up for a Essex social

I'm only in Croydon

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Chelmsford works for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A social would be good

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

L said there used to a swingers social night in a pub she worked at in Southend. Wouldn’t have a clue if it still happens tho

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By *y naughty hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

Sounds like a plan. Seems like we should pick a date and venue and turn up if you want on the day.

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I will get ironing

want to be in my finest garments lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm interested. Looking to meet some like minded people, in particular females for friendship within this community.

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

Well it seems quite a few of us are wanting this meet, anyone got any suggestions or experience how to move this forward ?

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Need to pick a bar or pub with a large space

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By *indurFunkyBusinessWoman
over a year ago

East Anglia

I would be interested in this

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By *winckle toesMan
over a year ago

norwich

Pub n fun sounds ideal to me

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By *nthony692020Man
over a year ago

chelmsford

Pub would be good then we can chat etc.

Tony

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I've also noticed and would be quite eager to do myself. I have access to a handful of very nice venues around Chigwell, Brentwood and Southend with areas in each that are separate from the main rooms and perfect to be used as play areas, I also know some VERY open minded DJ's that could play some great House music for everyone to dance, touch, admire and play along to. I've run House Music events for the last 4 years in London and Ibiza but have been so keen to throw some truly hedonistic parties that are all about embracing and enjoying that sexual energy. Just never known where to advertise or if the demand was even there for it! This forum gives me a bit of hope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

People are wanting a social rather then a place to play

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"This is something I've also noticed and would be quite eager to do myself. I have access to a handful of very nice venues around Chigwell, Brentwood and Southend with areas in each that are separate from the main rooms and perfect to be used as play areas, I also know some VERY open minded DJ's that could play some great House music for everyone to dance, touch, admire and play along to. I've run House Music events for the last 4 years in London and Ibiza but have been so keen to throw some truly hedonistic parties that are all about embracing and enjoying that sexual energy. Just never known where to advertise or if the demand was even there for it! This forum gives me a bit of hope

I think you've misunderstood this particular posr, it's advertising a social meet not a play meet, socials aren't held in swingers venues for a reason

It was established early on in the thread that people wanted a bar rather than a bar attached to a hotel as the idea with socials is it's exactly that no play, if you host it in or attached to a hotel you'll always get the odd few thinking they can push things making the whole vibe/atmosphere different

Your idea is good, (I commented on your other post) but not for a social

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clue is in the title. SOCIAL

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

Clue is in the title. SOCIAL"

never are they completely social thats why the best ones are at hotels

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

for some reason essex has always been difficult place for clubs and parties combination of hostile police and local authorities

several have started over the years and been closed down

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clue is in the title. SOCIAL

never are they completely social thats why the best ones are at hotels

I do hope if you come you don't come with any expectations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Clue is in the title. SOCIAL

never are they completely social thats why the best ones are at hotels

I do hope if you come you don't come with any expectations

Or anyone else for that matter

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By *o new WinksMan
over a year ago

BSE

The socials i have been to have resulted in a few people having instant chemistry and taking the night to bars or hotels.

Thats great. That is the ultimate aim of meeting fellow swingers. But the Social itself has usually been just that.

Some ladies were told off for getting friendly in the toilets at the York one a few years ago, but that is it.

I am interested in popping down if its north Essex.

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By *rSpriteandMsClitBangCouple
over a year ago

hadleigh

"for some reason essex has always been difficult place for clubs and parties combination of hostile police and local authorities

several have started over the years and been closed down"

This is what I have heard too. A friend of ours looked into setting up a club, but there were insurmountable hurdles involved.

There was a planned Essex social a couple of years back that got kiboshed by covid.

We'd love to come along if another gets planned, I love meeting lots of cheeky people!

Ms ClitBang xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OK!!! I have decided to arrange a Essex social on Saturday 30th April in the Half Way House on the A127

If interested in going message me on here or privately and I will put up a list of people going on a regular basis

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"OK!!! I have decided to arrange a Essex social on Saturday 30th April in the Half Way House on the A127

If interested in going message me on here or privately and I will put up a list of people going on a regular basis "

I'm in.

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By *andonmessMan
over a year ago

A world all of his own

"OK!!! I have decided to arrange a Essex social on Saturday 30th April in the Half Way House on the A127

If interested in going message me on here or privately and I will put up a list of people going on a regular basis "

I'm in

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

Count me in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done guys and girls x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't wait

xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If you're interested in going put your name on this separate thread for me

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/1280021

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m definitely up for it ! Be nice to meet people with no pressure instead of sleezy messages assuming us single ladies will meet up and sleep with anything lol Halfway house is good and Chelmsford is a bit far for me x

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham

Anything organised social-wise is in the meets & parties section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We’ve looked under meets for 30th April and can’t find anything ? "

https://m.fabswingers.com/forum/meets/1280021

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By *ussraneCouple
over a year ago

Romford

Had a blonde moment lol, found it now, our names down

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By *aving_great_funMan
over a year ago

London

I have arranged several socials. Just remind me and I will give you a shout next time...

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

I'm in the carpark already haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm in the carpark already haha

Lol hope you've packed a picnic, you've got a long wait!!

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"I'm in the carpark already haha

Lol hope you've packed a picnic, you've got a long wait!!

Haha got a few snacks & bit of road kill , should be good for 2hrs or so lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The new thread is now up for the Essex social on 30th April

Anyone on list please send us your contact details on WhatsApp, kik or telegram xxx

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Would you know the rations 9f interest so far? Is it looking like a sausage fest or good mix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have stopped taking any more single men to keep it a good mix

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"We have stopped taking any more single men to keep it a good mix "

That's good for the rations & bad as I missed out

other time maybe, cheers for updating having a good 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Joker lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really can't wait.... might book a hotel depending if I can discount on my Hilton honors..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sounds like a plan. Seems like we should pick a date and venue and turn up if you want on the day. "

Guys we have organised a social on the 30th April x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We see posts on here a lot about socials (organised nights) all over the country for like minded local people to get to know each other etc but haven't seen one for Essex since we have been on here.

Does anyone know if we have missed something or if they just don't happen in this area?

Any help would be è x"

If anyone is interested in the Essex social contact me or Lula4012.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe we have found out why there's no Socials in Essex, got loads of interest in our one planned on the 30th April and then when we try to get confirmed numbers most people don't even reply!!!!!

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

"Maybe we have found out why there's no Socials in Essex, got loads of interest in our one planned on the 30th April and then when we try to get confirmed numbers most people don't even reply!!!!!"

Sums up this site mate, so many timewasters (men/women and couples!). I will be there!

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Maybe we have found out why there's no Socials in Essex, got loads of interest in our one planned on the 30th April and then when we try to get confirmed numbers most people don't even reply!!!!!

Sums up this site mate, so many timewasters (men/women and couples!). I will be there! "

They probably think they don't need to reply as the details of the venue was plastered all over the forums, I know it's supposedly changed but you can bet plenty will still show up at the original venue, they'll just be two socials instead of one

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

"Maybe we have found out why there's no Socials in Essex, got loads of interest in our one planned on the 30th April and then when we try to get confirmed numbers most people don't even reply!!!!!

Sums up this site mate, so many timewasters (men/women and couples!). I will be there!

Perhaps, however from my experience regarding socials lots of keyboard warriors say yes yes however they cant walk the walk after talking the talk...

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Maybe we have found out why there's no Socials in Essex, got loads of interest in our one planned on the 30th April and then when we try to get confirmed numbers most people don't even reply!!!!!

Sums up this site mate, so many timewasters (men/women and couples!). I will be there!

Perhaps, however from my experience regarding socials lots of keyboard warriors say yes yes however they cant walk the walk after talking the talk..."

No those types like the wank fodder they'd be saying yes until the day getting all excited at the thought of meeting up then go silent on the day

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By *educerMan
over a year ago

Brentwood

"Maybe we have found out why there's no Socials in Essex, got loads of interest in our one planned on the 30th April and then when we try to get confirmed numbers most people don't even reply!!!!!

Sums up this site mate, so many timewasters (men/women and couples!). I will be there!

Perhaps, however from my experience regarding socials lots of keyboard warriors say yes yes however they cant walk the walk after talking the talk...

No those types like the wank fodder they'd be saying yes until the day getting all excited at the thought of meeting up then go silent on the day

very true

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By *y naughty hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

What are the details we may be interested

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"What are the details we may be interested "

There's a post in the meets section if you comment on that someone will message you

Or if you scroll up a bit there's details of the two organisers who you can message directly

It's in the 30th April I believe but the venue has apparently been changed from the one mentioned in this thread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d be definitely up for it

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By *y naughty hotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Maldon

Ok great thanks will look in the meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Guys message and will message back with all the details x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe

The venue has definitely been changed and everyone who expressed an interest in attending has been contacted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Essexcouples30s & sauceytwo let's us know if your interested in the social on the 30th April xx

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By *aysOfOurLivesCouple
over a year ago

Essex

"Essexcouples30s & sauceytwo let's us know if your interested in the social on the 30th April xx"
we are interested but it’s too soon to guarantee attendance (work related)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh dear I have missed it

However I could not attend due to work, hopefully next time

Enjoy peps whoever is going…..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Essexcouples30s & sauceytwo let's us know if your interested in the social on the 30th April xx we are interested but it’s too soon to guarantee attendance (work related)"

No worries can you message me direct and I can then put you on the contact list x

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

Back in the early to mid 2000's, there was a monthly Essex Social. It was held at The Palms off the A127 near Gallows Corner. It was run by friends of ours and was very popular.

There were no private areas, apart from those stopping in the hotel and we mixed with other parties all evening. We could have a bite to eat, we could use the garden.

It was great at the end of the evening or when someone had to leave for home. Our dear friends "Comegetus" (from another place) were leaving and the lady and my lady entwined as they kissed to say goodnight.

It was good, but the problem with private areas is then you inject a cost. With the area in a bar or hotel, everyone is responsible for their own refreshments and it just made it so much better.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Could somebody privately message us the details please?

We are currently working but we are trying to sort that out x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could somebody privately message us the details please?

We are currently working but we are trying to sort that out x"

Message me and I send you the details x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last few spaces left for single ladies and couples !!

Essex socials don't happen very often so please do not miss out xx

Trying to keep the numbers even so everyone can have a good night xxx

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