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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We think age is just a number and as long as we click we have no age limit either younger or older what about you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

nope I wouldn't want anyone to much older than me. to be honest about 45 is my upper limit for one on one. groups it's a little different.

however I prefer younger guys.

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I have no age limits.... its about the person for me not how old they are.

Is this because i am old myself ?

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

30 to 40 for me. I won't go with anyone younger than my own child and I prefer someone younger than me.

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By * starr -Woman
over a year ago

Burton on Trent.

I prefer guys a little older than me,but no more than 15 years older.my dad is 52 so anyone older and it would be like shagging me dad,no thank you! And only a few years younger as I dont like the boy look.i like my men to be men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well age is really just a number, it can be a good thing or a bad thing, and when people mention age why do they mostly think of older guys/women, would a woman go with a younger guy who could be in all probability younger than there sons, just a thought, ive been with a few younger girls now from off here , and we have never found it a problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are open minded about age. I rarely click with anyone under 40 but it has happened. Don't have an upper age limit either as again I'd we click we click. Only reason I don't like younger guys is they tend to be immature or arrogant and pushy. Those are things that put me right off but I will chat to younger guys and if we click great of not it's block

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Not really. I've met ladies off here from 22 to 55 and they all had their own unique pleasures and tricks to show me.

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Age has never been an issue for me.

I once had an '18' year old hit on me ... but in subsequent conversation she claimed she was 14! I value my freedom - so anyone who is around the 18 mark - I'd want to see some proof.

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

Men I look for on sites like this fall within a small margin, and age is an important factor for me.

I would get no sexual pleasure dominating a teenager...it only works mentally as well as physically with an older man.

If and when I return to "straightforward" sex I think it will be with younger men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my age limits is 27yrs to 50 upon discretion i wont play with younger than 27 as i have teen kids and its the mom thing with me. i have however had over 50 like i said at discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i take what evers going at the time, within reason.

i dont mind men in their twenties as long as they arent too imature.

have met afew nice ones.

men in their sixties but not much older.

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By * pool 1Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Just a measurement of time has nothing to do with the person.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

My lower age limit used to be around 45 partly because I thought younger men either wouldn't find me attractive or would just think I'd be a grateful easy lay. Mr N said this wasn't so but I found it hard to accept. A guy of 33 approached us seemed nice and the rest is history lol....our age limit is now much lower.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"well age is really just a number, it can be a good thing or a bad thing, and when people mention age why do they mostly think of older guys/women, would a woman go with a younger guy who could be in all probability younger than there sons, just a thought, ive been with a few younger girls now from off here , and we have never found it a problem "

I probably wouldn't go with someone younger than my son but that leaves anyone older than 22. Not sure I understand your point are you saying it's ok for men but not women to have younger lovers or that women are less likely to?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well age is really just a number, it can be a good thing or a bad thing, and when people mention age why do they mostly think of older guys/women, would a woman go with a younger guy who could be in all probability younger than there sons, just a thought, ive been with a few younger girls now from off here , and we have never found it a problem

I probably wouldn't go with someone younger than my son but that leaves anyone older than 22. Not sure I understand your point are you saying it's ok for men but not women to have younger lovers or that women are less likely to?"

well no my point is, its seems more acceptable to people thats its ok for a woman to go with a younger guy, than a girl to go with an older guy

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"well age is really just a number, it can be a good thing or a bad thing, and when people mention age why do they mostly think of older guys/women, would a woman go with a younger guy who could be in all probability younger than there sons, just a thought, ive been with a few younger girls now from off here , and we have never found it a problem

I probably wouldn't go with someone younger than my son but that leaves anyone older than 22. Not sure I understand your point are you saying it's ok for men but not women to have younger lovers or that women are less likely to?

well no my point is, its seems more acceptable to people thats its ok for a woman to go with a younger guy, than a girl to go with an older guy "

I don't really care what is deemed 'acceptable' or not. I just go with what I like. I think most people do.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Too right sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well age is really just a number, it can be a good thing or a bad thing, and when people mention age why do they mostly think of older guys/women, would a woman go with a younger guy who could be in all probability younger than there sons, just a thought, ive been with a few younger girls now from off here , and we have never found it a problem

I probably wouldn't go with someone younger than my son but that leaves anyone older than 22. Not sure I understand your point are you saying it's ok for men but not women to have younger lovers or that women are less likely to?

well no my point is, its seems more acceptable to people thats its ok for a woman to go with a younger guy, than a girl to go with an older guy

I don't really care what is deemed 'acceptable' or not. I just go with what I like. I think most people do."

ok really, well guys of my age are blocked from contacting you

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead


"We think age is just a number and as long as we click we have no age limit either younger or older what about you? "

but yet you have age limits on your profile... so we know that in a sense that is not quite true......

realistically whether you like it or now we all do have age limits... it just depends on how flexible you are with your upper and lower ranges.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Naw we dont just tried to change it stays as it is dont know why

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"well age is really just a number, it can be a good thing or a bad thing, and when people mention age why do they mostly think of older guys/women, would a woman go with a younger guy who could be in all probability younger than there sons, just a thought, ive been with a few younger girls now from off here , and we have never found it a problem

I probably wouldn't go with someone younger than my son but that leaves anyone older than 22. Not sure I understand your point are you saying it's ok for men but not women to have younger lovers or that women are less likely to?

well no my point is, its seems more acceptable to people thats its ok for a woman to go with a younger guy, than a girl to go with an older guy "

I see, yes you're probably right in a lot of cases

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think age is just a number and as long as we click we have no age limit either younger or older what about you?

but yet you have age limits on your profile... so we know that in a sense that is not quite true......

realistically whether you like it or now we all do have age limits... it just depends on how flexible you are with your upper and lower ranges....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't and prefer to stick to my age range; in a club I might play with someone a few years older or younger than my age preference but I wouldn't go below about 35

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is not just a number...age indicates a lot of things that are important in initally working out if someone is of interest to us...especially whether or not we might have some things in common so that a connection is there...

When I was in my twenties, I had lots of sex with men in their 20's and frankly, it wasn't that great...now I'm in my 40's, i'm having the best sex of my life with soemone who is also in his 40's and the people we play with tend to be around the same age...we have cultural references in common, have had similar experiences in life...kind of "get" the whole ethos that we have in our swinging life...

Yes our profile does have a lower age limit of 25 but that is the absolute lowest I would ever consider and usually as part of a couple...I just have no interest in people younger than that and don't find them sexually attractive enough to want to follow through, no matter how "mature" they try to convince me they are...

we are a tiny bit more flexible on our upper age limit but have found so many people lie about their age on the upper side of it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd simply say that Helen Mirren is 67 and still looks fantastic, even more impressive is that if you do an image search for her, 'Helen Mirren HOT' pops up as a suggestion, implying that her sex appeal is spread far wider than just a few guys with particular preferences.

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By *lackCherryCouple
over a year ago

Bristol

As you get older your body changes, your face changes and you change this is part of life, yes you still feel the same inside and clearly you still find the same things attractive as you did when you were in your 20's or 30's but to expect the reverse is just silly imo.

There will obviously be exceptions to this (the 20 year olds who have fantasies about 50 year olds etc). Our cut off point is MRs C's parents age and we have yet to find anyone around or older than that age that we have considered breaking it for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always women over 45yrs old for us and never younger than that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd have to say 20yrs either side of my age, so 20-60 for me. Younger for enthusiasm, and older for confidence and experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Beauty's in the eye of the beholder ...

I judge the person and not their age

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think age is just a number and as long as we click we have no age limit either younger or older what about you? "

Yep - same for us. Just a pity you have to put something other than the '18-99' range in your profile otherwise it looks a bit desperate !!! Lol!

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I agree age is just a number,I've been turned down because of my age but I dont look act or dress my age......Alot of peeps age preferance ends at 50.....

I play football with teens and 20 year olds and run circles around em so why does my age count against me on here and in other places

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Beauty is in the eye of the beerholder

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey


"We think age is just a number and as long as we click we have no age limit either younger or older what about you? "

We tend to meet those aged 25-45 but it is not set in stone for the right people.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I agree age is just a number,I've been turned down because of my age but I dont look act or dress my age......Alot of peeps age preferance ends at 50.....

I play football with teens and 20 year olds and run circles around em so why does my age count against me on here and in other places "
I cannot understand why you would have been turned down based on your age... you dont look it for starters and also... it is just a number really

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"We think age is just a number and as long as we click we have no age limit either younger or older what about you?

We tend to meet those aged 25-45 but it is not set in stone for the right people."
I d agree with you on the principle, for me it would be around 35 upwards but there are some exceptional younger people whom i might consider...

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

I suppose this thread proves the same thing that many others in these forums have.

We are all different and how good is that !

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I suppose this thread proves the same thing that many others in these forums have.

We are all different and how good is that !"
Diversity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I agree age is just a number,I've been turned down because of my age but I dont look act or dress my age......Alot of peeps age preferance ends at 50.....

I play football with teens and 20 year olds and run circles around em so why does my age count against me on here and in other places "

Because people have preferences and reasons for them and that should be respected...you're straight and we respect that and would never approach you or complain that our sexuality excludes us from your preference list or counts against us...

this isn't an equal opportunity place...we don't really care who you play football with or how much you run around...that isn't an issue for us...we're looking for people we would like to have sex with and 50 is our limit for now...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd simply say that Helen Mirren is 67 and still looks fantastic, even more impressive is that if you do an image search for her, 'Helen Mirren HOT' pops up as a suggestion, implying that her sex appeal is spread far wider than just a few guys with particular preferences."

yes but she was even better looking when she was young.

she looks good for her age because she was good looking in the first place.

then again she hasnt had any kids.

if she was a shop worker and housewife i doubt she would be looking as good.

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"I'd simply say that Helen Mirren is 67 and still looks fantastic, even more impressive is that if you do an image search for her, 'Helen Mirren HOT' pops up as a suggestion, implying that her sex appeal is spread far wider than just a few guys with particular preferences."
Helen Mirren is not what you would call a classic beauty and never has been. She has charisma and style and knows how to dress well - she speaks quietly and confidently (and of course she is an actress so trained at those things) and she is a lady who oozes sex appeal at 67. In my eyes she is not old either...

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Three years ago my lowest age to my hightest age was 19-67 but both were purely for the person not the age.... We just clicked

Thanx for the compliment Aphrodite

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Three years ago my lowest age to my hightest age was 19-67 but both were purely for the person not the age.... We just clicked

Thanx for the compliment Aphrodite "
You are very welcome

PS I dont do ageism, fattism, colonialism, in fact.... I dont do any schisms...;-)

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

I think everyones got things,lengths or genders etc etc that they wouldn't go to

The world would be a boring place if we were all the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"...so why does my age count against me on here and in other places "

Probably cos most under 50's have never actually been with an over 50 and just have this idea that it 'all stops working' when you get to that 'dreaded' age!! Ever since I had a fling with a 52yr old woman when I was 23, I have had no qualms whatsoever about meeting an over 50 for sex. It was easily one of the best things I have ever done in my life and turned me from being an over-excited boy in bed, into a 'man' (oooooh get her!! Lol)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well said that man

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford


"Three years ago my lowest age to my hightest age was 19-67 but both were purely for the person not the age.... We just clicked

Thanx for the compliment Aphrodite You are very welcome

PS I dont do ageism, fattism, colonialism, in fact.... I dont do any schisms...;-)"

I admit to 'twatism' behave like a twat you get treated like one and blocked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have an age range specified on my profile but I don't have filters so any age can mail me. And they do. I dislike the 18-99 thing. I chose my range from past experience. It's usually lots of other things that affect my choice of person, not primarily age.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Three years ago my lowest age to my hightest age was 19-67 but both were purely for the person not the age.... We just clicked

Thanx for the compliment Aphrodite You are very welcome

PS I dont do ageism, fattism, colonialism, in fact.... I dont do any schisms...;-)

I admit to 'twatism' behave like a twat you get treated like one and blocked."

Ain't that the truth!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is twatism possible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My age range when I was a single female was set at the upper limit of 49 I think but Mr Fusion mailed me to ask if I would consider him even tho slightly out of my range.

He changed my mind about age as I may not have met him and fallen for him if my filters were set that he couldn't mail me.

Will continue being flexible

Fruit xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have met woman from 20's to over 50's.

i dont consider age, all you need is to be able to enjoy each other and have a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i have met woman from 20's to over 50's.

i dont consider age, all you need is to be able to enjoy each other and have a great time.

"

Well said that man! I hate it when people put an age limit its all about getting on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd simply say that Helen Mirren is 67 and still looks fantastic, even more impressive is that if you do an image search for her, 'Helen Mirren HOT' pops up as a suggestion, implying that her sex appeal is spread far wider than just a few guys with particular preferences.

yes but she was even better looking when she was young.

she looks good for her age because she was good looking in the first place.

then again she hasnt had any kids.

if she was a shop worker and housewife i doubt she would be looking as good."

And maybe that is the problem, young lads see the likes of her and base their decision to meet older ladies forgetting that we haven't all been that lucky and don't look that good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd simply say that Helen Mirren is 67 and still looks fantastic, even more impressive is that if you do an image search for her, 'Helen Mirren HOT' pops up as a suggestion, implying that her sex appeal is spread far wider than just a few guys with particular preferences.

yes but she was even better looking when she was young.

she looks good for her age because she was good looking in the first place.

then again she hasnt had any kids.

if she was a shop worker and housewife i doubt she would be looking as good.

And maybe that is the problem, young lads see the likes of her and base their decision to meet older ladies forgetting that we haven't all been that lucky and don't look that good"

It's not always about looks either, its how compatible you are with each other. My best blow job was from a 64 year old woman!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'd simply say that Helen Mirren is 67 and still looks fantastic, even more impressive is that if you do an image search for her, 'Helen Mirren HOT' pops up as a suggestion, implying that her sex appeal is spread far wider than just a few guys with particular preferences.

yes but she was even better looking when she was young.

she looks good for her age because she was good looking in the first place.

then again she hasnt had any kids.

if she was a shop worker and housewife i doubt she would be looking as good.

And maybe that is the problem, young lads see the likes of her and base their decision to meet older ladies forgetting that we haven't all been that lucky and don't look that good"
you look ok to us mwah

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We are open minded about age. I rarely click with anyone under 40 but it has happened. Don't have an upper age limit either as again I'd we click we click. Only reason I don't like younger guys is they tend to be immature or arrogant and pushy. Those are things that put me right off but I will chat to younger guys and if we click great of not it's block "

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By *woofuslondonCouple
over a year ago

london

Where as hubby doesnt really have an age limit mine has to be mid 40's rlse my dad may know them lol, just cant mentally have phone with someone my dads age, im guessing more ladies feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'd simply say that Helen Mirren is 67 and still looks fantastic, even more impressive is that if you do an image search for her, 'Helen Mirren HOT' pops up as a suggestion, implying that her sex appeal is spread far wider than just a few guys with particular preferences.

yes but she was even better looking when she was young.

she looks good for her age because she was good looking in the first place.

then again she hasnt had any kids.

if she was a shop worker and housewife i doubt she would be looking as good.

And maybe that is the problem, young lads see the likes of her and base their decision to meet older ladies forgetting that we haven't all been that lucky and don't look that goodyou look ok to us mwah "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We think age is just a number and as long as we click we have no age limit either younger or older what about you? "

"How's about that then!"

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

Meets vary wildly, which is part of the turn on for me, though ive found that experience does count a lot. As does openess, rudeness, willingness, dirtyness, cravings, need, inhibition, and humour

Ive met women of all ages - and for the most the better meets have all been older or just about my age range. They seem far more comfortable with thierselves, even if they are not that sexually experienced, whereas women even into their teens/early/mid/late twenties can be so candy sweet its a turn off.

I dont mind nervs - all part of it at some point, but sacks of potatoes or am-dram performances when youve hardly even started doesnt turn me on much..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Older the berry sweeter the juice I say lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Many a good tune played on an old fiddle

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Better tunes in my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its one of God's great jokes that women in the main have the highest drive for sex aged in their forties, whereas lads have the highest drive at eighteen.

A lot of people rule out sex with someone with that kind of difference because lads at that age can be immature, although sexually the two are compatible. The opposite is also true. A lass of eighteen has a comparable sex drive to a man in his mid-forties so the sex has the possibility to be electric, yet again the personalities are often too different...

Perhaps the main reason its seen as more socially acceptable for an older woman to have sex with a young lad is because she is giving him what he really wants more than anything better than a young girl can.

Whereas its more socially acceptable for a fifty year old bloke to marry a twenty year old girl than the other way round as he's giving her what she really wants whereas an older woman would be seen more as 'trapping' a young lad and reducing his freedom...

Perhaps outdated notions that hardly apply to everyone but society seems to value tradition, unfortunately sometimes too far.

Myself I couldn't give much of a shit either way about age, I either fancy the person or don't. I won't sleep with anyone I deem stupid, unhygenic etc but as a natural optimist I tend to see the good in people and this works well with sexual attraction too. I will see different appealing factors in an eighteen year old I sleep with and a fifty-three year old, and I love that. Sex has to contain variety after all...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just a number for me too, personality and drive is important, cleanliness and hygienic too. Same as not racist heightist? Sizeist etc, so why be so prescriptive over age, it's if you fancy them. Or in the case of some if they have lots of money!.....seems age issue disappears then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It's just a number for me too, personality and drive is important, cleanliness and hygienic too. Same as not racist heightist? Sizeist etc, so why be so prescriptive over age, it's if you fancy them. Or in the case of some if they have lots of money!.....seems age issue disappears then. "

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