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You are so rude!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do people push boundaries and when you react you’re deemed rude?

Are you supposed to remain respectful and classy at all times regardless of your lines being crossed?

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

Did that happen to you on a meet? If it did hopefully you finished it there and then?

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By *imi_RougeWoman
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Of course we are, as women we've been conditioned not to make a fuss.

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By *upids_arrowFWoman
over a year ago

Oxford

They only deem you rude because you called them out on their complete disrespect.

No you keep being you and feel no guilt for maintaining your boundaries - and I think that’s pretty classy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They only deem you rude because you called them out on their complete disrespect.

No you keep being you and feel no guilt for maintaining your boundaries - and I think that’s pretty classy "

You’re exactly right there!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unfortunately not everyone works by the same expectations to treat others with respect.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Did that happen to you on a meet? If it did hopefully you finished it there and then?"

Not on a meet. Just on fab messages. Maybe its post pandemic excitement and people are just excited to be able to arrange things and meet again. People forget people have boundaries and safety measures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do people push boundaries and when you react you’re deemed rude?

Are you supposed to remain respectful and classy at all times regardless of your lines being crossed? "

I keep getting named and shamed in status updates by guys I've blocked because I'm rude..

I find the fact they haven't read my profile or chose to ignore what my boundaries are the rude part.. then they whine when I call them out.

It's almost like their ego says my rules don't apply to them.

I hope a few of them read this and realise they were the ones at fault.. but I doubt they will.

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By *ndyn50000Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Why do people push boundaries and when you react you’re deemed rude?

Are you supposed to remain respectful and classy at all times regardless of your lines being crossed?

I keep getting named and shamed in status updates by guys I've blocked because I'm rude..

I find the fact they haven't read my profile or chose to ignore what my boundaries are the rude part.. then they whine when I call them out.

It's almost like their ego says my rules don't apply to them.

I hope a few of them read this and realise they were the ones at fault.. but I doubt they will. "

Sadly they probably won't, but ultimately it does show you were completely right to block them in the first place.

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

Everyone's idea of rude is different too.

Someone asked me if I use kik.

I simply said no and told him it says that on my profile.

I was told my attitude stinks and he blocked me.

Not a loss to me and probably did me a favour by blocking himself.

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Did that happen to you on a meet? If it did hopefully you finished it there and then?

Not on a meet. Just on fab messages. Maybe its post pandemic excitement and people are just excited to be able to arrange things and meet again. People forget people have boundaries and safety measures. "

Don’t leave yourself open for those kind of messages, don’t invite it and if you encounter it just park it and walk away from it.

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By *itzi999Woman
over a year ago

Slough


"Why do people push boundaries and when you react you’re deemed rude?

Are you supposed to remain respectful and classy at all times regardless of your lines being crossed? "

Do I care if someone thinks I’m rude? No.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone's idea of rude is different too.

Someone asked me if I use kik.

I simply said no and told him it says that on my profile.

I was told my attitude stinks and he blocked me.

Not a loss to me and probably did me a favour by blocking himself. "

He probably thought " that'll teach her", as if you actually gave a shit lol

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