FabSwingers.com forum: Polyamory -Thruple

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What are peoples views on a relationship with three people?

It’s something we ve spoken about a lot.

Princess loves the idea of having a girlfriend as well That we are both involved with.

Has anyone done or doing this? Any females interested in giving it a go?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What are peoples views on a relationship with three people?

It’s something we ve spoken about a lot.

Princess loves the idea of having a girlfriend as well That we are both involved with.

Has anyone done or doing this? Any females interested in giving it a go? "

Carlos has been to tobermory, is that the same?

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By *asycouple777Couple
over a year ago

bristol

Love for wife to do this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have friends who did this but when the extra guy moved abroad my female friend of the couple took it hard and it ended up destroying the original couple relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am unintentionally a poly relationship,happy to explain more in private chat if anyone wants to know how

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love for wife to do this "

The idea of it is horny as hell. Meeting together or solo. Live in would be even better

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By *rMrs CumalotCouple
over a year ago

East Mids

Something we have spoke about and would love the dynamic with the right person x

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Not something we are seeking but we've acknowledged that under certain circumstances it could unintentionally happen with the right lady.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would not always be plain sailing but with the right people it could be a wonderful thing,its something i'd like to do but got to find some like minded people first

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Totally agree. Lots of fun In and out the bedroom to be had

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By *omCoyoteMan
over a year ago

Northern England

Love it, and prior to meeting my ex girlfriend; I had a wonderful long term friendship with a couple. I wrote about how it all started here in the forums.

https://www.fabswingers.com/forum/stories/1117225

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By *urvy-blue83Woman
over a year ago

Lichfield

I strongly believe Poly is the way forward for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Love for wife to do this

The idea of it is horny as hell. Meeting together or solo. Live in would be even better"

Very interesting for us too, ultimately wanting to live together and even communal if others are interested

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is something I find appealing

as the third person obviously! I’ve thought about this often!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve always believe poly is more natural than mono

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By *ittycock400Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"Love for wife to do this

The idea of it is horny as hell. Meeting together or solo. Live in would be even better"

Isn't it meant to be more about relationships than purely being a horny idea?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're poly, but looking more for it to be a couple who join us. Obviously we'd have our primary partners, but feel it would work better for us if we're all involved.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Already posted in this thread but it was so long ago. My wife is certainly more into the idea of having a regular girlfriend lately which I would be fine with. And I dont mean for just meets. Someone she or we can spend quality time with as well and see what happens. We've decided we are ok with the romantic aspect of it.

Unfortunately, wouldn't even know where to start on that one. Have a hard enough time meeting single ladies on here (not all that many in our local-ish area) and so far, clubs and socials have been ok but the last few years have not been good for the area either.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

I’ve always been drawn to the idea of a mff throuple. But I think you have to be pretty lucky to find a couple that are local and ready for it. There were very few options for me when I was single.

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By *amlet and OpheliaCouple
over a year ago

oxford

We have spoken about this for a while, ideally someone a little younger and is also interested in exploring the bdsm scene. The idea would be for a bi-fem to help us allow O to explore her bi side, and become a very close social and play partner, joining us for dinners, nights out, social events and becoming part of the us.

As part of it, there would be an acceptance that we all enjoyed each others company, and the social and sexual friendship was between the three of us.

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By *rsenaliskingMan
over a year ago

London

Most relationships are going Polyamory as people monogamy does not really work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FFM obviously more popular than MFM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM"

We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM

We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other."

Yes and sure your right far more M would MFM OH if only I was younger LOL

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By *hoenixcouplexxCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Something we have had previous experience with and would love to find again.

However finding it is something else entirely.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM

We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other."

We're more interested in a mfmf (mmff etc) format so all are involved

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By *heonixrising500Man
over a year ago

Barnsley

Did it once but one of the girls got very jealous

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM

We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other.

Yes and sure your right far more M would MFM OH if only I was younger LOL"

Indeed

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

From my experience of friends doing just this. Their original relationship broke down and all the woman went and had mono relationship with the 3rd guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM

We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other.

We're more interested in a mfmf (mmff etc) format so all are involved"

It's still a maybe for us but we're suspecting finding a real 4 way attraction (in a geographical realistic proximity) is proving challenging so kinda given up atm. Meeting in clubs though and who knows

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM"

Shame my fantasy is MFM. Maybe at a club I would do better finding 2 men?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM

We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other.

We're more interested in a mfmf (mmff etc) format so all are involved

Yeah I think the geographical location of others open to this idea make it hard. Still we live in hope

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM

Shame my fantasy is MFM. Maybe at a club I would do better finding 2 men?"

I think you have a good chance on here, or another fetish type site

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"FFM obviously more popular than MFM

We'd like both an mff and an mmf thrupple. Suspect one will be much easier to attain than the other."

Yeah I feel like mff is easier in theory, but I think it depends on the dynamic between you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would love to be the girlfriend of both. Go on dates , enjoy each other solely then come together when we all want to share.

Polyamory really appeals to me

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Although I wasn't aware of the term poly at the time once upon a time my goal was to have an emotionally exclusive poly type relationship with a cuckold couple. My desires are more pragmatic/realistic these days though.

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

"I would love to be the girlfriend of both. Go on dates , enjoy each other solely then come together when we all want to share.

Polyamory really appeals to me

We would love to explore something like that and see how it goes.

Unfortunately, when ever we see a comment like this it's from someone as far away as humanly possible on fab

But you may well find a couple near by who's down with that. Check the profiles of local couples and see who's poly!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would love to be the girlfriend of both. Go on dates , enjoy each other solely then come together when we all want to share.

Polyamory really appeals to me

This for me too! I had this once and I’d love it again!

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By *he FAB Social - MCRCouple (FF)
over a year ago

manchester

From my experience of it the reality is that it needs to happen naturally. It’s not really something that you can just ‘make’ happen as that’s where the problems creep in.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

"From my experience of it the reality is that it needs to happen naturally. It’s not really something that you can just ‘make’ happen as that’s where the problems creep in. "

So very very true that has a lot to do with why I am now officially poly it gives me the freedom of flexibility and allows relationships to develop organically without being forced or supressed.

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By *rs_pegging_mrCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

Love the idea of this

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By *ingly_minx1Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

What you're describing is called Unicorn Hunting and is generally frowned upon in Polyam spaces. But there are women who seek this type of dynamic.

A genuine three way, equal, relationship is difficult to navigate especially if there is an existing couple in the Triad.

Dating sites like OKC and Feeld are probably your best bet.

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By *inx and NymphCouple
over a year ago

bristol

"What you're describing is called Unicorn Hunting and is generally frowned upon in Polyam spaces. But there are women who seek this type of dynamic.

A genuine three way, equal, relationship is difficult to navigate especially if there is an existing couple in the Triad.

Dating sites like OKC and Feeld are probably your best bet. "

As a single woman I sought this dynamic, but found it much harder than I had a expected

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

I’ve dated both halves of a couple before, which meant that I ended up dealing with two breakups at once, which sucked.

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By *wing_Bi4FunCouple
over a year ago

Truro

We have been talking about this recently mfm and either ffm or mffm , Lisa would love a poly relationship, there is a guy already, which we can do this scenario with if went with it.

Find it hard finding f or couple to explore it with, dating, nights out together & separately.

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By *orthAngusCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Angus

We love that xx

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By *onnoisseur100Man
over a year ago

Woking-ish

"We have spoken about this for a while, ideally someone a little younger and is also interested in exploring the bdsm scene. The idea would be for a bi-fem to help us allow O to explore her bi side, and become a very close social and play partner, joining us for dinners, nights out, social events and becoming part of the us.

As part of it, there would be an acceptance that we all enjoyed each others company, and the social and sexual friendship was between the three of us."

Isn't this just a threesome that lasts longer than a few meetings?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First and foremost, polyamory is definitely not swinging and I WISH fabs would have a dedicated page solely for poly people. I've been incredibly lucky to of had 3 polyamory relationships, raging from 9 to 18 months between both swinging and my vanilla experiences and all I can add to this wonderful post is the word "trust" you have to fully trust each other to keep the exclusivity. I've always been their boyfriend, both socially and sexually, everything from shopping to holidays, cooking dinner to wild weekends away. Was I "in love" hmm, hard one, I miss them all individually, I loved what we had together, the freedom, the loyalty and would really like to find a suitable poly couple to share my life with again!

Poly isn't swinging!

Nxxx

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By *itty Kat ABWoman
over a year ago

North Somerset

I agree it isn't easy to find and needs to happen reasonably naturally

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I agree it isn't easy to find and needs to happen reasonably naturally

We’re interested in finding someone, if you were open to the idea, we d love to talk to see if there was a click.

Princess xx

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By *amasoporkyCouple
over a year ago

midlands

We love the idea x

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By *arried BifemWoman
over a year ago

somewhere in the midlands

We love ffm thruple. Had them before and would do so again.

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