FabSwingers.com forum: People introducing there 19/20yr kids to swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

What’s everyone’s thoughts on people introducing there kids to swinging so young? Me personally it’s a big red flag and a no go

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you be talking about your sex life with your kids anyway? Boundaries?

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By *ltra72Man
over a year ago

edinburgh

My daughter isn’t far from that age, I wouldn’t introduce her to swinging but I’ve brought her up to make her own mind up on things.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you be talking about your sex life with your kids anyway? Boundaries? "

I’ve found what I’ve seen rather uncomfortable

It was like going down a rabbit hole.

Maybe best i forget what I have seen,

I used to be best buddy’s with the son in my rugby days.

We no longer talk and he is a little bit odd to say the least

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By *iscreet gent2018Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

And the award for the weirdest thread goes to……!!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’m going to give it till lunch time and hope the almighty jumps in but at the moment I think it will do more half that good to tell him bits a shit one

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By *urAlterEgosCouple
over a year ago

Barnsley

Very cryptic. Very weird!

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

reminds me of being in the pool at a club and chatting with a lovely young lady one of our friends joined us bringing a large dildo with her which got the young girl very animated she then turned to an older lady the other side of the pool and shouted " mum mum come look at this " you could actualy here the collective intake of breath from around the room .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

WTF !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m going to give it till lunch time and hope the almighty jumps in but at the moment I think it will do more half that good to tell him bits a shit one

Tell who what?

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By *oson-BlueCouple
over a year ago

North Kent

This must be the weirdest most cryptic thread I’ve ever read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our Fab life is separate than our personal.

Just like we ventured out together to explore swinging , to enhance our lifestyle, kids may do on their own , they don't need guidance from their parents .

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By *layPrincessDaddyBearCouple
over a year ago

Bracknell

WTF

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By *eventysixCouple
over a year ago

glossop

It's not for us to guide them in the swinging direction. If that's the path they go they will find it themselves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On our first ever visit to a club over 15 years ago there was a couple that had taken there 21 year old son along with them.

Kept our distance and no idea how there night went

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

"What’s everyone’s thoughts on people introducing there kids to swinging so young? Me personally it’s a big red flag and a no go"

I'll be honest, the "so young" bit seems kind of redundant here. I'd say it was weird regardless of how old they were

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s everyone’s thoughts on people introducing there kids to swinging so young?"

Have you heard of anyone doing this?

It just sounds very wrong!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab never fails lol

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By *p4funCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth

what the ####

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just another day in the Kingdom of Fab lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

WTF ! Hell no !!

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By *S2004Man
over a year ago

Bromsgrove

Any chance that someone could translate for me!!!

I am very confused

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By *iverpool_19Man
over a year ago

liverpool

nonce gear getting ye kids into swinging… need there computer checking

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Our Fab life is separate than our personal.

Just like we ventured out together to explore swinging , to enhance our lifestyle, kids may do on their own , they don't need guidance from their parents .

Exactly this. Totally agree

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'm nearly 30 and I would find this weird. If my parents were into swinging then great for them but I'd hope we would all do our best to avoid each other as even being at the same club night would be weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Their lives and their choice, as long as they're happy with their life choices then it would be fine with me xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a no no for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No just.....no ffs take your kids for their first pint like everyone else

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just avoid dark rooms snd gloryholes etc at swinging clubs in case lol

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By *ersey GirlCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Why is this even a question? Stupid doesn’t come close

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twilight zone

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By *otYourKind666Man
over a year ago

Horsham

This thread is a bit mad

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

At 18 my daughter turned up at a club I was working at. I'd not got her into it, but once she was in, I tried to inpart some of my years of advice.

I also made sure to block anyone she had met or make a note and avoided where she was attending.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m very broad minded but this is wrong on so many levels

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This really is a mad place - parents introducing their bairns to swinging - Jesus wept, I've never heard the likes. When would you ever introduce them to your sexual preferences in any other walk of life?? Their sex life should have absolutely duck all to do with you and involving yourself to me seems pretty dodgy - and I'm very, very liberal.

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By *midionysusMan
over a year ago

Rotherham

"reminds me of being in the pool at a club and chatting with a lovely young lady one of our friends joined us bringing a large dildo with her which got the young girl very animated she then turned to an older lady the other side of the pool and shouted " mum mum come look at this " you could actualy here the collective intake of breath from around the room ."

Ha ha ha oh thank you so much, belly laugh of the day xXx

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

WTF really!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There is a difference between giving them some advice and pointers, telling them about fab and which clubs are good etc. And actually swinging with them! I don't think anyone is suggested the latter xx

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I’m going to give it till lunch time and hope the almighty jumps in but at the moment I think it will do more half that good to tell him bits a shit one

Did the almighty jump in ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m going to give it till lunch time and hope the almighty jumps in but at the moment I think it will do more half that good to tell him bits a shit one

Did the almighty jump in ?"

Yes I did earlier with some advice, see above

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes I did earlier with some advice, see above"

Thanks Almighty for the dark room/glory hole advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I did earlier with some advice, see above

Thanks Almighty for the dark room/glory hole advice"

The almighty can see even into the darkest places of the earth

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

The almighty can see even into the darkest places of the earth "

Can you see into Boris' brain ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The almighty can see even into the darkest places of the earth

Can you see into Boris' brain ? "

Thankfully not

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By *aptain Caveman41Man
over a year ago

Home

"What’s everyone’s thoughts on people introducing there kids to swinging so young? Me personally it’s a big red flag and a no go"
that's just weird

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By *itzimadCouple
over a year ago

harwich

we used to party with a couple and his parents he was 30s they were fifties to be honest it didnt seem strange they were all nice people and very open with each other

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

What if your (adult) kids were suspicious and asked you if you are a swinger?

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

"What’s everyone’s thoughts on people introducing there kids to swinging so young? Me personally it’s a big red flag and a no go"

That is just the weirdest thing iv every heard. I don't understand how they could discuss their sex life with their kids to start with.

Is this something that you have whitnessed OP or is it just a general question?

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Iv just noticed you used the term "so young" I think many people on here are quite taken back myself included to your question. Elaborate on what that means?

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By *age500Woman
over a year ago

ashton-under-lyne

I honestly don’t find it weird at all, obviously I can see how people would but I think it all depends on how open you are with your kids/parents.

I’d tell my mum about my sex life as if I was talking to a friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sick

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doing that blurs the lines of family massively, it’s not right

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By *aidForSharingWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

There are a few club/party organisers whose offspring work for them. I would not want my son working in such an environment. One of these was a young woman barely in her 20s.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Iv just noticed you used the term "so young" I think many people on here are quite taken back myself included to your question. Elaborate on what that means? "

Yeah I was perfectly capable of finding and attending clubs for myself when I was 19

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By *9Karm69Man
over a year ago

plymouth/chesterfield

So you introduce your 19/20yr old son & daughter to swinging, maybe you take them to a club to show its not sleezy, your daughter's getting obviously lots of attention, hiw you feeling now? You split up so they can have a look round on there own, short time later you see a crowd of blokes, in the middle is your daughter getting gang banged, thoughts now? But if it was another woman but your son was part of the gang bang but he'd get a pat on the back.

No sorry not for me let them do what they want but you dont need to see or know

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By *r mrs pCouple
over a year ago

taunton

We were in a swinging club & chatting to a very young couple,somebody told them an old man was taking a lot of interest in them." Thats ok said the lad he is my dad "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We were in a swinging club & chatting to a very young couple,somebody told them an old man was taking a lot of interest in them." Thats ok said the lad he is my dad "

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By *usie pTV/TS
over a year ago

taunton

Up to the 20th birthday its not called swinging its called being a teenager.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

It’s the same as if you have used recreational drugs what age would you introduce them to your kids you wouldn’t !!!!

As far as swinging goes it’s a personal choice and if any of my kids chose to do it when there older it would be none of my business and wouldn’t want want to share their experience of it the same as I wouldn’t share mine.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

What an odd thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Certainly is

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And the worst parent award goes to!

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By *eavenNhellCouple
over a year ago

carrbrook stalybridge

"And the worst parent award goes to! "
the mcaans

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By *eardsandboobsCouple
over a year ago

north of lincoln

We went to a club and the owners 18 year old son was having his birthday party in the front room of the club. No one seemed bothered.

We were also friends with a woman who’s daughter was also on here and they went to parties together . But they were from Holland. And it seemed quite normal for them to talk about sex and swinging

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

"At 18 my daughter turned up at a club I was working at. I'd not got her into it, but once she was in, I tried to inpart some of my years of advice.

I also made sure to block anyone she had met or make a note and avoided where she was attending. "

I vaguely remember you posting about this in another thread a while ago. If you don't mind me asking how did you deal with it then and afterwards and even today? Always best to be prepared for the unexpected, thanks.

As to the op, we wouldn't be encouraging any of that. Our sex life is for us and private, vice versa.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was disturbed to see a father/son profile on here (think they were 25+)

GRIM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I was disturbed to see a father/son profile on here (think they were 25+)

GRIM"

So disturbing online at times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"On our first ever visit to a club over 15 years ago there was a couple that had taken there 21 year old son along with them.

Kept our distance and no idea how there night went "

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I find it strange

Saw a father and son profile on here though that looked at me the other day, both stood bollock naked together.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find it strange

Saw a father and son profile on here though that looked at me the other day, both stood bollock naked together. "
I saw a husband wife and young daughter bare barely legal just mad me feel sad and when I put it in the group they started to clean house and justify the situation but start to hide verifications and photos very sad

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