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wife wants to be sub

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

guys, the wife wants to be sub, but i am not really a dom personality. my idea of being dom is saying do this, do that, suck my cock now etc, and i know thats not being dom. anyone got any suggestions about how i go about this. really am a newbie at this sort of thing, not swinging or sex, just being dom/ master.

cheers guys, jeff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

does she really want to be sub or does she just want u to take charge for a bit ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

and if she wants to be sub i believe there is lots of information on internet and lots of different forms of sub/dom play so maybe talking to her about what she believes sub/dom play is the place to start

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes you just know. And being dominant is a way of being rather than something you do.

As to what you do. Maybe sign up to some sites specific for that. There is loads of help out there.

Mostly just try things.

Questions

Is she wanting to be sub in the bedroom or in life?

Would you maybe consider getting a dominant in to dominate your wife or is it just you she wants.

What do you feel,

Good luck

Cali

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By *tarkersandcrutchCouple
over a year ago

TELFORD

shaz is very dominant in normal life with get job, takes charge sorting kids and home life. love s to be submissive in the bedroom. just trial and error I think. have done light spanking and hair pulling to wooden paddles, crops, blind folds and restraints. steve has tried to parade me but didn't like it. think trial and error is the key and absolute honesty to make it work. good luck guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in a funny mood, all I keep picturing is a type of under water boat lol (sub)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The best advice I could give as a Dom myself is to ask as many questions as you can think of and try to get to the bottom of what she is looking for from the experience. From there you can create a scenario that she wants. Its a myth that Doms are completely in control, I generally tend to be giving my sub the experience she is craving but controlling the pace etc.

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