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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x

What basically turns you off whether it's a status a man's put up or something he's wrote on his profile or a certain kinda pic he's shared!

What gives you the ick! And puts your off even talking to said men?

Ps hopefully give the men a heads up on what may help them...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the message starts with a dick picture and do you want to fuck literally just that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cut and paste messages.

A proliferation of penis pics.

Friend requests from random men who have never spoken to us, have no pics of their own and next to no information on their profile.

Rudeness, abuse and entitlement.

Asides from that it’s all good

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Stupid status like I need my cock drained. Bad photos too and blank profiles

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be infuriating. Not least cos there have been so many threads like this saying the same things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stupid status like I need my cock drained. Bad photos too and blank profiles"

What classes as a bad photo out of interest

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By *uitednbooted2Man
over a year ago

Berkshire


"Stupid status like I need my cock drained. Bad photos too and blank profiles

What classes as a bad photo out of interest"

Close ups of tits for one !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How many of them threads is there?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stupid status like I need my cock drained. Bad photos too and blank profiles"

i had a cyst and was enquiring for a medical professional to help me drain it lol

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"Stupid status like I need my cock drained. Bad photos too and blank profiles

What classes as a bad photo out of interest"

Pictures with dirty clothes on the floor, toilet photos etc

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By *ustyLeRouxWoman
over a year ago

Brecon

Many things! For instance I hadn't replied to a message from a few days ago then I was blocked. Didn't intentionally not reply !

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By *etsukaCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Photos only of cocks.

Angry looking ones.

No pictures at all.

Statuses slagging off other people on the site/complaining they never have any luck.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Photos that are like jigsaw puzzle pieces, so that you have to do mental gymnastics, trying to form an image of how they might look as a person.

Showing limited interest in my satisfaction, is a red flag too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

list is long and rightly part of our filter but ill start with the first bit of most of our messages .... hi hun,love.beautiful,sexy and any other false flattery its really really creeoy

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North/Blackpool

Terrible pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When the message starts with a dick picture and do you want to fuck literally just that lol"

Isn’t it illegal to send unsolicited dick pics now haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When they message “I’m in Townplace” as if how close they live to you is the only criteria for wanting to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh, and when you read a message but don’t reply immediately and they write “not interested then?”

Now I know you’re pushy I’m not, no!

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Men?

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

Blimey I haven’t got space to write all the issues ha ha

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

On here can’t see past a terrible username (won’t name names)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

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By * F 2018Couple
over a year ago

shropshire

Cut and paste messages

When you say No... coming back with a why?

No profile

No profile pic

All dick pics

Rude

Thinking your some kind of play thing

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Just any message from me - even without a cock pic.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful "

See you're not verified yet? X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are really derogatory about the women on Fab.

So the type who give it "....all the stuck up women on here with fannies like (insert insult)..."

Just reads like some demented incel's diary.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire

First message is Hi …. That’s it … Dear God

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

Most of the time its my face picture. True story

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Most of the time its my face picture. True story"

Ha ha ha …. Nooooooo

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Most of the time its my face picture. True story

Ha ha ha …. Nooooooo"

Believe me when I send it the reply will be sorry not for me

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Most of the time its my face picture. True story

Ha ha ha …. Nooooooo

Believe me when I send it the reply will be sorry not for me "

You’ve got verifications … you can’t be that bad ha ha

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By *ugarandTexCouple
over a year ago

leicester

When he’s got his socks on in pictures

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful "

It's neither shameful nor disgraceful, just very boring and unimaginative. A little bit of creativity, seduction or artistry is much more alluring.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X"

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish


"Cut and paste messages.

A proliferation of penis pics.

Friend requests from random men who have never spoken to us, have no pics of their own and next to no information on their profile.

Rudeness, abuse and entitlement.

Asides from that it’s all good

"

This… and 1 more, profile names!

Some are just awful….

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"When he’s got his socks on in pictures "

L

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy. "

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Stupid status like I need my cock drained. Bad photos too and blank profiles

What classes as a bad photo out of interest

Close ups of tits for one ! "

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

It's neither shameful nor disgraceful, just very boring and unimaginative. A little bit of creativity, seduction or artistry is much more alluring."

I've seen more cock images than a chicken farmer, gets quite samey after the 1st 100 x

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

It's neither shameful nor disgraceful, just very boring and unimaginative. A little bit of creativity, seduction or artistry is much more alluring.

I've seen more cock images than a chicken farmer, gets quite samey after the 1st 100 x"

Spot on … never knew there were so many variations of cock ans balls

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

Being married is what turns women off in my experience.

Really odd since it's a swinging site and my wife's happy to join in or stay home but more often or not, the response I get is "we ain't meeting cos your cheating".

So I stopped bothering on fab. Easier to meet women at social events or clubs with my wife there giving full encouragement or trying to join in.

I appreciate everyone is free to meet whomever they wish under what ever terms but I do wish some ladies on fab would accept that not all married guys on fab are running around behind their partners back. Not saying you have to meet me, other married guys or even couples. Just asking the few who have knee jerk reactions to say no thanks instead of being a bit rude about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

It's neither shameful nor disgraceful, just very boring and unimaginative. A little bit of creativity, seduction or artistry is much more alluring.

I've seen more cock images than a chicken farmer, gets quite samey after the 1st 100 x"

Yet hundreds of women have their fannies out daily. How samey is that. And not 1 bloke on here would ever hold that against them . Strange but true.

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By *ittlesecret2020Woman
over a year ago

Glasgow

I don't like seeing that a guy has a 'straight' profile and also a

'bi-curious' profile. I understand he's hedging his bets, lol but I'm looking for a genuinely 'straight' guy.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like … "

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like. "

Touché

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

See, not clever enough to understand that

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

Touché "

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like. "

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock "

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do "

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Most of the time its my face picture. True story

Ha ha ha …. Nooooooo

Believe me when I send it the reply will be sorry not for me

You’ve got verifications … you can’t be that bad ha ha "

Believe me Welshsuns it’s happened to me so many times. I don’t even have enough hands to count

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By *elshsunsWoman
over a year ago

Flintshire


"Most of the time its my face picture. True story

Ha ha ha …. Nooooooo

Believe me when I send it the reply will be sorry not for me

You’ve got verifications … you can’t be that bad ha ha

Believe me Welshsuns it’s happened to me so many times. I don’t even have enough hands to count "

You poor thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic "

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Here for the comments and potential drama.....

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By *igdave58Man
over a year ago

irvine

What pisses me of is women put an age range up to 99 then when you ask them for a meet they say to old. Some women on here need to know that the older guys don't have wrinkly cocks like they think and can last longer than the younger guys but just don't give us a chance. We look for some fun and satisfaction just like everybody else on here so give us older guys a chance. Thanks.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry? "

I can see why you're not verified

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified "

and why's that? A simple explanation will do

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By *etMeBeYourFantasyyMan
over a year ago

bournemouth

Let me flip it, what turns you on?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified and why's that? A simple explanation will do "

You seem so knowledgeable maybe you could enlighten me? I've been on here for 6 yrs x

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"What pisses me of is women put an age range up to 99 then when you ask them for a meet they say to old. Some women on here need to know that the older guys don't have wrinkly cocks like they think and can last longer than the younger guys but just don't give us a chance. We look for some fun and satisfaction just like everybody else on here so give us older guys a chance. Thanks."

It really is all about preference...and it's not all about age either...some ppl over a certain age just don't do it for me but that's my own preference whether your cocks wrinkly or not! That doesn't matter either...its ok at least ppl are honest and let you know your not their type or too old for them! Unfortunately that how it goes even on fab!

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

Must say my fave is when a guy MSG's for the first time saying hii with no pixx on their profile and, if we have the time to respond to such an inspiring opening msg, we ask for a pic so that we can see who we are chatting with, only to receive a cock pic back.....it just makes us wonder what their passport pic looks like xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified and why's that? A simple explanation will do

You seem so knowledgeable maybe you could enlighten me? I've been on here for 6 yrs x"

.

Knowledgeable? How so? See I joined here thinking it was a site where you wouldn't get judged. Where people could let their hair down and do as they please. What if someone's a voyeur and enjoys showing what they've got? Surely it's the same as someone with a bondage pic? Maybe a bloke dressed in lingerie? Why should anything anyone wants to do, post or say be offensive? And why would a verification be used to belittle someone who maybe hasn't got one? I mean you said I was angry? What grounds? I've asked and you're yet to reply. So no, you tell me.

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"Let me flip it, what turns you on? "

Why not start another thread its lost in here x

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

It's neither shameful nor disgraceful, just very boring and unimaginative. A little bit of creativity, seduction or artistry is much more alluring.

I've seen more cock images than a chicken farmer, gets quite samey after the 1st 100 x

Yet hundreds of women have their fannies out daily. How samey is that. And not 1 bloke on here would ever hold that against them . Strange but true. "

You obviously don't understand the differences between men and women, not a clue!

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified and why's that? A simple explanation will do

You seem so knowledgeable maybe you could enlighten me? I've been on here for 6 yrs x.

Knowledgeable? How so? See I joined here thinking it was a site where you wouldn't get judged. Where people could let their hair down and do as they please. What if someone's a voyeur and enjoys showing what they've got? Surely it's the same as someone with a bondage pic? Maybe a bloke dressed in lingerie? Why should anything anyone wants to do, post or say be offensive? And why would a verification be used to belittle someone who maybe hasn't got one? I mean you said I was angry? What grounds? I've asked and you're yet to reply. So no, you tell me. "

You've chosen to answer a thread aimed at women asking us what turns us off messaging men, we've tried to answer it by saying in our opinion too many cock pics and you get all angry and wonder I wonder why you've not been verified, your profile doesn't state that you have any minor kink? I'm not sure what your problem is tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified and why's that? A simple explanation will do

You seem so knowledgeable maybe you could enlighten me? I've been on here for 6 yrs x.

Knowledgeable? How so? See I joined here thinking it was a site where you wouldn't get judged. Where people could let their hair down and do as they please. What if someone's a voyeur and enjoys showing what they've got? Surely it's the same as someone with a bondage pic? Maybe a bloke dressed in lingerie? Why should anything anyone wants to do, post or say be offensive? And why would a verification be used to belittle someone who maybe hasn't got one? I mean you said I was angry? What grounds? I've asked and you're yet to reply. So no, you tell me.

You've chosen to answer a thread aimed at women asking us what turns us off messaging men, we've tried to answer it by saying in our opinion too many cock pics and you get all angry and wonder I wonder why you've not been verified, your profile doesn't state that you have any minor kink? I'm not sure what your problem is tbh "

All I asked was what part of my message made angry? Yet you've still not told me . That's all.

Cant even believe I'm having a convo like this with a seasoned 6 year verified fabber like you anyway. I'm well due to get a new hole ripped.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified and why's that? A simple explanation will do

You seem so knowledgeable maybe you could enlighten me? I've been on here for 6 yrs x.

Knowledgeable? How so? See I joined here thinking it was a site where you wouldn't get judged. Where people could let their hair down and do as they please. What if someone's a voyeur and enjoys showing what they've got? Surely it's the same as someone with a bondage pic? Maybe a bloke dressed in lingerie? Why should anything anyone wants to do, post or say be offensive? And why would a verification be used to belittle someone who maybe hasn't got one? I mean you said I was angry? What grounds? I've asked and you're yet to reply. So no, you tell me.

You've chosen to answer a thread aimed at women asking us what turns us off messaging men, we've tried to answer it by saying in our opinion too many cock pics and you get all angry and wonder I wonder why you've not been verified, your profile doesn't state that you have any minor kink? I'm not sure what your problem is tbh All I asked was what part of my message made angry? Yet you've still not told me . That's all.

Cant even believe I'm having a convo like this with a seasoned 6 year verified fabber like you anyway. I'm well due to get a new hole ripped. "

I never said that you made me angry with your message, merely stated that you had a unsolicited angry cock pics on your profile

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By *lossyLegsGlassesCouple
over a year ago

stafford

Wow bored now.....move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified and why's that? A simple explanation will do

You seem so knowledgeable maybe you could enlighten me? I've been on here for 6 yrs x.

Knowledgeable? How so? See I joined here thinking it was a site where you wouldn't get judged. Where people could let their hair down and do as they please. What if someone's a voyeur and enjoys showing what they've got? Surely it's the same as someone with a bondage pic? Maybe a bloke dressed in lingerie? Why should anything anyone wants to do, post or say be offensive? And why would a verification be used to belittle someone who maybe hasn't got one? I mean you said I was angry? What grounds? I've asked and you're yet to reply. So no, you tell me.

You've chosen to answer a thread aimed at women asking us what turns us off messaging men, we've tried to answer it by saying in our opinion too many cock pics and you get all angry and wonder I wonder why you've not been verified, your profile doesn't state that you have any minor kink? I'm not sure what your problem is tbh All I asked was what part of my message made angry? Yet you've still not told me . That's all.

Cant even believe I'm having a convo like this with a seasoned 6 year verified fabber like you anyway. I'm well due to get a new hole ripped.

I never said that you made me angry with your message, merely stated that you had a unsolicited angry cock pics on your profile "

really. Ttfn, and remember. Be kind

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

The weather has been nice today.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sooooo. Anyone fancy some lemon meringue pie?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified and why's that? A simple explanation will do

You seem so knowledgeable maybe you could enlighten me? I've been on here for 6 yrs x.

Knowledgeable? How so? See I joined here thinking it was a site where you wouldn't get judged. Where people could let their hair down and do as they please. What if someone's a voyeur and enjoys showing what they've got? Surely it's the same as someone with a bondage pic? Maybe a bloke dressed in lingerie? Why should anything anyone wants to do, post or say be offensive? And why would a verification be used to belittle someone who maybe hasn't got one? I mean you said I was angry? What grounds? I've asked and you're yet to reply. So no, you tell me.

You've chosen to answer a thread aimed at women asking us what turns us off messaging men, we've tried to answer it by saying in our opinion too many cock pics and you get all angry and wonder I wonder why you've not been verified, your profile doesn't state that you have any minor kink? I'm not sure what your problem is tbh All I asked was what part of my message made angry? Yet you've still not told me . That's all.

Cant even believe I'm having a convo like this with a seasoned 6 year verified fabber like you anyway. I'm well due to get a new hole ripped.

I never said that you made me angry with your message, merely stated that you had a unsolicited angry cock pics on your profile

really. Ttfn, and remember. Be kind "

You too, hope you get exactly what you deserve on this site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow bored now.....move on"

Good comment x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Sooooo who wants to play nicely?

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Sooooo who wants to play nicely? "

Me CG just getting fed up on here x x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Sooooo who wants to play nicely?

Me CG just getting fed up on here x x"

Well - let's turn this around:

I love your hair. X

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Sooooo who wants to play nicely?

Me CG just getting fed up on here x x

Well - let's turn this around:

I love your hair. X"

Thank you i love your lemon meringue pie xx

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Sooooo who wants to play nicely?

Me CG just getting fed up on here x x

Well - let's turn this around:

I love your hair. X

Thank you i love your lemon meringue pie xx"

It is very tasty

My sausage rolls are fantastic too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X

Absolutely not. I've got my cock out I'm a naughty boy.

Yeah we all know what a cock looks like …

If I wasn't so simple I'd say that was clever wording. Just as I know what a twat looks like.

And yet we're both verified and you're not so who's the angry cock

I'm actually made up for you both. I'm just a normal guy floating round having a mass debate with the lovely people of fab. And far from angry,if you'd like to show me where in any of my messages I appeared that way I'll take it on board and see what I can do

Try being imaginative with your dick pic

See, taken on board . Now that wasn't too hard now was it. Would that make me less angry?

I can see why you're not verified and why's that? A simple explanation will do

You seem so knowledgeable maybe you could enlighten me? I've been on here for 6 yrs x.

Knowledgeable? How so? See I joined here thinking it was a site where you wouldn't get judged. Where people could let their hair down and do as they please. What if someone's a voyeur and enjoys showing what they've got? Surely it's the same as someone with a bondage pic? Maybe a bloke dressed in lingerie? Why should anything anyone wants to do, post or say be offensive? And why would a verification be used to belittle someone who maybe hasn't got one? I mean you said I was angry? What grounds? I've asked and you're yet to reply. So no, you tell me.

You've chosen to answer a thread aimed at women asking us what turns us off messaging men, we've tried to answer it by saying in our opinion too many cock pics and you get all angry and wonder I wonder why you've not been verified, your profile doesn't state that you have any minor kink? I'm not sure what your problem is tbh All I asked was what part of my message made angry? Yet you've still not told me . That's all.

Cant even believe I'm having a convo like this with a seasoned 6 year verified fabber like you anyway. I'm well due to get a new hole ripped.

I never said that you made me angry with your message, merely stated that you had a unsolicited angry cock pics on your profile

really. Ttfn, and remember. Be kind

You too, hope you get exactly what you deserve on this site "

Thank you xxxxx

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By *eedsmale36Man
over a year ago

Leeds


"How utterly shameful must it be for a bloke to have a cock on his profile pic. And on a swingers site to. Just disgraceful

See you're not verified yet? X"

Ouch !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock pics

Pics of women on single men's profiles

Men on couple profiles who meet alone

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By *xploring_FunWoman
over a year ago

Coventry

Whingey or misogynistic statuses.

“Fill in later” as the total of their profile. Especially if they’ve been on months or years.

Also anyone who sends multiple dick pics in a first message. I got a “Hi” message accompanied by 9 dick pics the other day.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Action shots

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

Smuttiness.

I like men who think with their head and not their cock.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP I don't understand why you've posted this here AND in the lounge?

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"OP I don't understand why you've posted this here AND in the lounge? "

Because I can I suppose...near 200 replies between 3 different threads says it all really?

Is there a problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well hung

Heavy cummer

Lick for hours

I wanna fuk some pussy

Man looking to unload

Wanting to unload heavy balls

What woman want my cum over them

Any husband want me to fuk their wife

Just a few lol

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast


"OP I don't understand why you've posted this here AND in the lounge?

Because I can I suppose...near 200 replies between 3 different threads says it all really?

Is there a problem? "

It's called spamming and there are site rules against it

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Cut and paste messages

Being called.... hun, babe or princess

" first line of message .... fancy a fuck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Desperation, arrogance, rudeness, if they can't be bothered to read my profile, bad pics, too crude xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP I don't understand why you've posted this here AND in the lounge?

Because I can I suppose...near 200 replies between 3 different threads says it all really?

Is there a problem?

It's called spamming and there are site rules against it"

Also multiple opportunities for women to list what they don't like about men - I just think it's completely unnecessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Cock as profile picture

Action shots

Pics of their penis from every conceivable angle

Overly graphic Pics

Whinging

Gross usernames

Misogyny

The use of hun/babe or anything similar in messages.

Introductory messages that are overly sexual

Arrogance

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"What basically turns you off whether it's a status a man's put up or something he's wrote on his profile or a certain kinda pic he's shared!

What gives you the ick! And puts your off even talking to said men?

Ps hopefully give the men a heads up on what may help them..."

The treat the mean, keep them keen attitude that sooooo many men on here have. Massive lady boner killer.

A total stranger telling me what they want to do to me. Gives me the mega ick.

No face pics.

What works is face pics and someone that messages me treating me like a actual human being like I'd they'd met me in a pub or bar for the first time. That would just be sooooo fucking nice!

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By *ucknipsWoman
over a year ago

Reading / south oxon

Wink or friend request from random profile without sending chat 1st

Even worse they don’t add any photos or have blank profile write up

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"[arousement Removed by poster at 12/02/22 15:11:35]"

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By *ittlekinks38 OP   Woman
over a year ago

outside belfast x


"OP I don't understand why you've posted this here AND in the lounge?

Because I can I suppose...near 200 replies between 3 different threads says it all really?

Is there a problem?

It's called spamming and there are site rules against it

Also multiple opportunities for women to list what they don't like about men - I just think it's completely unnecessary. "

As is this comment! Scroll on if you don't like my thread plenty out there don't seem to mind answering the actual thread!

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By *asavoMan
over a year ago

Royston

I think this day and age it's just so hard to please everyone with a first message.

I always just send a quick hello how are you with a face picture, if they are happy they chat; if not find another profile i like reading and try again, we all have things we look for in a profile and person.

As long as we are being respectful to members we can only try.

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By *voKid21Man
over a year ago

Tiptree

I’m on the brink of giving up with this site, I’m a decent guy, respectful, polite and just looking for a bit of regular fun with someone who’s going to treat me the same way I treat them but seems almost impossible. Been told numerous times my profile is good but never get anywhere.

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By *ieutenantMan
over a year ago

london

PROFILE RANTERS.Complete turn off

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By *ootprints1629Couple
over a year ago

somewhere in moray

Nit bothering to acknowledge us as a couple.

Flattery just to get into my pants. When they get knocked back their true colours come out.

Pics/vids of outdoor sex or flashing in shops/cafe.

Toilet pics

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