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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

We always play safe but i always bareback with my partner and always have so when it comes to playing and putting a condom i have found over the last couple of meets i have struggled to cum, anybody else have same problem?? And its nothing to do with the meets they have been awesome

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always play safe but i always bareback with my partner and always have so when it comes to playing and putting a condom i have found over the last couple of meets i have struggled to cum, anybody else have same problem?? And its nothing to do with the meets they have been awesome "

to cum at all or to cum in the condom ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Cum in the condom, i just lose the sensation im so used to fucking bareback with my partner

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By *ouple_SpondonCouple
over a year ago

Spondon

Personally cumming isn't my main problem. It's trying to not cum so soon! There's just nothing i can do after having another guy fill me up before shagging my wife! I ber it'd be worse if there was another female here!!! XD

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cum in the condom, i just lose the sensation im so used to fucking bareback with my partner"

so u stay hard but can't cum ?

or you lose the hard on ?

if it was the former, i think i would be tempted to pull out and take the condom off and opt for a non penetrative 'finish'

i think if you allow the 'condition' to become an issue in your head it will become something bigger than it actually is, so rather than worrying, just adapt your strategy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Cum in the condom, i just lose the sensation im so used to fucking bareback with my partner

so u stay hard but can't cum ?

or you lose the hard on ?

if it was the former, i think i would be tempted to pull out and take the condom off and opt for a non penetrative 'finish'

i think if you allow the 'condition' to become an issue in your head it will become something bigger than it actually is, so rather than worrying, just adapt your strategy "

of course, if you're doing that, then you need to choose your meets accordingly and discuss it upfront as some women will want you to cum whilst fucking them rather than pulling out first

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Dont need advice on swinging thanks but more on the specific post

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Try using a thinner condone like skins. Or natural feel?

I find after a few times I can become less sensitive so need to either alter the stroke pattern or change position.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I to struggle to cum with a condom on but i the person i am with where they would like me to cum so once i am finished having penetration sex i pull out and remove the condom for the finish. Use you imagination on how to do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried using a condom on you're partner? If so, do you get the same issue?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then again don't put yourself under pressure to come.

Not every body do's.

As long as your enjoying yourself and the lady you are having fun with don't worry.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you tried using a condom on you're partner? If so, do you get the same issue? "

Yes it seems to take an awful lot ofthe feeling away!!

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville


"We always play safe but i always bareback with my partner and always have so when it comes to playing and putting a condom i have found over the last couple of meets i have struggled to cum, anybody else have same problem?? And its nothing to do with the meets they have been awesome "

Depends really.. On how full you are I find. Spouted is also a factor and build up. condoms one used to them are no issue for coming at all, though of your not used to them I do sometimes find once you reach the point of coming if you don't there and then, then its more difficult to build up to that same point later.

Hate it but sometimes it does mean you have to come at first opportunity rather than holding back as you would with bare, but as I say, it does just depends sometimes

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

speed is a factor) predictive text, sorry

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I always keep my back bare - and my front.

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By *rightloonMan
over a year ago

Stafford

Change condoms.

Also is the condom type you are using tight? Try a looser fit - there's nothing worse than the feeling of a "marigold glove" squeezing ya todger. I changed to those XL type and its much better.

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By *B07Man
over a year ago

Essex


"We always play safe but i always bareback with my partner and always have so when it comes to playing and putting a condom i have found over the last couple of meets i have struggled to cum, anybody else have same problem?? And its nothing to do with the meets they have been awesome "

Depends on the type of condom for me, majority times I don't come wearing condoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always play safe but i always bareback with my partner and always have so when it comes to playing and putting a condom i have found over the last couple of meets i have struggled to cum, anybody else have same problem?? And its nothing to do with the meets they have been awesome "

Personally it only affects stimulation slightly but I am lucky as I can get hard ans stay hard within a condom. There are many guys though I have met struggle with them and I wonder if its part psychological as well as physical with some people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always play safe but i always bareback with my partner and always have so when it comes to playing and putting a condom i have found over the last couple of meets i have struggled to cum, anybody else have same problem?? And its nothing to do with the meets they have been awesome "

What condoms are you using? They only need to be ever so slightly thicker than others and it can reduce your sensitivity dramatically. The Mates Skyns are pretty good (very thin and natural feeling) but there is another one which has been mentioned on the forums before (can't remember which) that guys reckon allows as much sensation as your likely to get.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always play safe but i always bareback with my partner and always have so when it comes to playing and putting a condom i have found over the last couple of meets i have struggled to cum, anybody else have same problem?? And its nothing to do with the meets they have been awesome

What condoms are you using? They only need to be ever so slightly thicker than others and it can reduce your sensitivity dramatically. The Mates Skyns are pretty good (very thin and natural feeling) but there is another one which has been mentioned on the forums before (can't remember which) that guys reckon allows as much sensation as your likely to get.

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emptied sausage skins

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We always play safe but i always bareback with my partner and always have so when it comes to playing and putting a condom i have found over the last couple of meets i have struggled to cum, anybody else have same problem?? And its nothing to do with the meets they have been awesome

What condoms are you using? They only need to be ever so slightly thicker than others and it can reduce your sensitivity dramatically. The Mates Skyns are pretty good (very thin and natural feeling) but there is another one which has been mentioned on the forums before (can't remember which) that guys reckon allows as much sensation as your likely to get.

emptied sausage skins"

Which reminds me.... must pop to the butchers tomorrow....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are endurance ones they have numbing effect which is a bit of a downfall i have found when the meet i am with has used those ones

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