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"as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that" EXACTLY THIS. I expect any guy we play with to treat us BOTH with respect. | |||
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"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out. On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking." Great way of being introduced to someone | |||
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"as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that EXACTLY THIS. I expect any guy we play with to treat us BOTH with respect." As a bull this is just how it should be for a long term sexual relationship between all 3 whether cuck is physically involved or not | |||
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"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out. On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking." Cool. We hope you knew he was going to say it. I might have been a bit put out if I didn’t | |||
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"Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom! That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives. However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom. It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked. " This is spot on. | |||
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"Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom! That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives. However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom. It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked. This is spot on." Yes hard to find | |||
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"Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom! That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives. However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom. It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked. " That’s probably a really good description of how real cuckolding should work. | |||
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"I'm good friends with 2 of the cuck couples I play with outside the bedroom . General chit chat all the time & hangout for movie night sometimes. But in the bedroom, those cucks know their place 'laying underneath in 69 watching my horse dick' plunge balls deep inside their hotwives sweet pussy! Best view in the house " Nothing wrong with that ! | |||
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"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out. On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking. " As long as you are both comfortable with him saying that its ok, i personally wouldn't. | |||
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"Ultimately there are so many different dynamics to these relationships that its hard to say what a normal one looks like..... Personally wouldn't cuck a guy I couldn't respect outside of bedroom! That may sound paradoxical to many, but in most of the relationships I've had the hubby has usually been an Alpha type businessman, commanding in the boardroom and calling the shots in all other aspects of their lives. However they enjoyed some kind of freedom and release by abdicating power and submitting to their wife and/or me in the bedroom. It's like a very intense, very kinky, immersive roleplay with clearly defined rules and boundaries. So I have been very close friends,outside the bedroom, with most of the guys I've Cucked. " A lot of people have agreed with this so I have to put mine in and say the exact opposite. Their role in wider society has little to do with anything, more so how they view their wife, their own status, role in the marriage/relationship, how a dynamic has played out or a simple kink. Each cuck I've met has wanted different things from verbal degradation to sl.avery to bi experience to more simple commands and voyeurism. All have been from regular backgrounds such as middle managers, tradesmen, shopwokers. Respecting or getting along with them as a someone outside, has little to do with that connection in the bedroom, you could likely have a pint, but you're not likely to have them round for Christmas dinner.. same as any fwb really. | |||
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"Seconded! As others have said respect and obedience in the bedroom come I think naturally for us cucks. Beyond that , our experiences have varied tbh. Some bulls ( we’re okwith that term if the guy is) like to be more or less equal , others are always in charge. I’d always take my lead from him, and both can be good." Yes well said also. | |||
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"I love being friends with my wife’s lovers" something good about thanking him after , can be a very kinky text the next day to him | |||
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"well im sure you would be friends with him, after all he is the guy fucking your wife and many like the husband to lick and swallow his spunk, and that spunk goes in many places and with a bull most like to cum in the wife so yes has to be friendly very " Yes, a lot of cucks love to clean up the bulls spunk from the hotwife or even clean up the bulls cock, so being friends with the bull is very important if say for the cuck. | |||
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"well im sure you would be friends with him, after all he is the guy fucking your wife and many like the husband to lick and swallow his spunk, and that spunk goes in many places and with a bull most like to cum in the wife so yes has to be friendly very Yes, a lot of cucks love to clean up the bulls spunk from the hotwife or even clean up the bulls cock, so being friends with the bull is very important if say for the cuck." but the best thing about becoming more friendly with the bull or just the guy is that there is more openness with him and that leads to more meets and hell of a lot more spunk and cock to clean up and not forgetting to clean his cum of or from your wife so that there is room for more of that lovely spunk, then he tells you that meeting us is like hitting the lottery, well win win for all 3, he gets what he wants and eager for more and couples like us riding high, and on the phone the next day arranging the next meet | |||
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"as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that EXACTLY THIS. I expect any guy we play with to treat us BOTH with respect. As a bull this is just how it should be for a long term sexual relationship between all 3 whether cuck is physically involved or not " Dont classify myself as bull but saw a couple for 4years...hubby would join in..more stag vixen..all great friends though. Often played golf with hubby and even got invited to her big birthday bash with all her friends....some of her friends guesses she was fucking me...best times ever | |||
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"I hate the term bull and cuck were more hotwife terms I love to see the Mrs having fun and we've become great friends with a couple and the wife and guy play together every now and then the situation works brilliant " Why do you hate the term cuck and bull? They're fitting terms to those in that particular area of the lifestyle, the words describe who they are and what they do. I've never seen anyone say they hate the term stag and vixen or hate the term hotwife, I honestly don't get why anyone would hate the term bull or cuck. | |||
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"I just dont like that form of play doesn't mean I disagree with it or anything we just don't like that type " Ah! I see, fair enough. | |||
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"I'm good friends with 2 of the cuck couples I play with outside the bedroom . General chit chat all the time & hangout for movie night sometimes. But in the bedroom, those cucks know their place 'laying underneath in 69 watching my horse dick' plunge balls deep inside their hotwives sweet pussy! Best view in the house " ............................... A bonus if Eastenders is on the background | |||
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"one long term bull,takes me out every now and then,with hubby`s blessing,knowing he will be in for a treat when l get home" Love this, would be great to find the same | |||
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"How many Bulls have their HW's Cuck as a friend? Is he in chastity? " Absolutely brilliant that is Recommended for sure | |||
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"It definitely changes the dynamic when the Cuck is in chastity. We have found it better " Most definitely, us cucks do like to be in chastity. | |||
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"If I ever had the opportunity to be the bill, then mutual respect it is.. knowing it’s only a role .. so if a friendship formed outside that role, then great " Bills are not expensive at the min you definitely don’t wana be one of them | |||
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"We have been looking for this for a long time! Someone who could be a friend to us both but in the bedroom he we are both in charge of Cuck, " Perhaps the only way to engineer such a thing is to offer it to others. | |||
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"Could be mister’s new bezzie lol " always open for sugestion | |||
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"I hate the term bull and cuck were more hotwife terms I love to see the Mrs having fun and we've become great friends with a couple and the wife and guy play together every now and then the situation works brilliant Why do you hate the term cuck and bull? They're fitting terms to those in that particular area of the lifestyle, the words describe who they are and what they do. I've never seen anyone say they hate the term stag and vixen or hate the term hotwife, I honestly don't get why anyone would hate the term bull or cuck. " | |||
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"Why is it so hard to find this? My last relationship with a cuck couple ended 3 years ago and I have not been able to find it since, they did set the bar extremely high, however there must be couples out there who are also looking for a genuine experienced guy? " | |||
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"as a cuckold couple we dont call guys bulls just asertive confident men and if regular then must get on with us both or it goes no further simple as that EXACTLY THIS. I expect any guy we play with to treat us BOTH with respect." Completely agree. We expect exactly the same. | |||
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"Why is it so hard to find this? My last relationship with a cuck couple ended 3 years ago and I have not been able to find it since, they did set the bar extremely high, however there must be couples out there who are also looking for a genuine experienced guy? " I'm in exactly the same position. Pre-covid things were looking pretty good but now it's a challenge. Distance logistics has been the biggest pain in the so and so. | |||
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"I regularly play golf with cuck before putting him in the back bedroom for the night. " PUTTING him in the back bedroom , love the pun !!!!! | |||
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"This would be great but as previous comments say it's soo hard to find hell just finding genuine guy who knows about cuckolding is hard enough" It’s a very wide spectrum and it’s all about the right dynamic for all who are involved! Point taken about guys as a third to join understanding - but also suggest it’s something many if not most couples don’t understand either… However when the dynamic ic is good it’s bloody awesome! | |||
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"It is the ideal situation and makes this dynamic better" Totally agree | |||
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"I'm very good friends with two of my lovely wifes lovers, one of which often shares a drink with me on a lads night out. On one occasion he even went so far as to introduce me to a couple of his mates as the hubby of the woman he'd been fucking." that is fantastic did your cock stiffen with the erotic excitement as they looked at you | |||
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"How many Bulls have their HW's Cuck as a friend? Is he in chastity? " One of my hotwives cucks is a good friend of mine | |||
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" One of my hotwives cucks is a good friend of mine" i hope he is repectful to you I bet you cant resist teasing him a bit | |||
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"One of my mates has joined us for MFM's in the past, I can't say that he's actually helped cuckold me though." I posted this about a year ago, I have to say that there were one or two rare occasions where I actually did feel cuckolded by him | |||
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"One of my mates has joined us for MFM's in the past, I can't say that he's actually helped cuckold me though. I posted this about a year ago, I have to say that there were one or two rare occasions where I actually did feel cuckolded by him" how did you feel about it as the jealousy kicked in did you get that intense sexual excitement | |||
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"Dominant bull here 💪🏻🔥" Have you much experience with Cuck couples | |||
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"Dominant bull here 💪🏻🔥" | |||
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